Nope, Long Distance Relationship is just that straightforward. Doesn't matter same of different race/citizenship, it's that you and your partner are not staying at a convenient distance which would allow the both of you to meet frequently (eg few times a week)



This post has been edited by MysticShadow: Aug 5 2009, 11:03 PM

Fwoar. This thread has truly become epic. If TS is a troll, he can pat himself on the back now.

But if he isn't... then I predict that the following will happen: He told this girl that he won't send any more money, and she agreed. Then a while later, she'll say her grandmother has had an accident, and the hospital bills are so high, and she really feels bad about asking for money again, but pleeeeeaaase?...

Later, when TS tells her he wants to go and visit her, she'll tell him no - because she's busy with this and that, or she needs to take care of the grandmother/father/nephew, no time to meet him, maybe later when she's more free.

This will repeat itself a few more times, until TS gets more and more frustrated. Maybe he'll finally buy the plane ticket and fly to Manila and call her from the airport...

...and that's when he finds that her number is cancelled.

So then what? Will he realize how foolish he's been? Will he remember this thread, what everyone has told him, and realize that we've all been right?

Nope. He will become bitter and vengeful, and he will put the blame on all women. He will turn into a raging misogynist who worships at the altar of "ada wang ada amoi". He may recover enough to approach another girl - but he will be an utter control freak to her, treat her like a piece of property that he can buy and own. He will probably turn into the guy from this thread.

This is my prediction. But I hope it doesn't come true.

This post has been edited by n00b13: Aug 5 2009, 11:09 PM

And thats the problem
He's 21 years old and what is he there to offer her?

So many issues he has to take care
1st career and not giving money to the girl (his only 21 years old)
2nd family, dont he has a family to take care? is she so important to him compare to his family? if he gives his money to her, what about his parents or his siblings?
3rd has he even met her personally? cause people might be different in the real world
4th how about her acceptance by his family and friends? has he experienced the difficulties that she's gonna face with his family and friends?
5th how true is her love to him? if she loves him that much, coming to malaysia shouldn be a problem to her, rather than asking him to bear all the cost, shouldn she fork out a little so that he can gain her trust?

so much more i've to add..........

mine different. i wanna share about relationship with foreigner. So i start this thread.

Ok, I know I'm repeating myself. But if you're serious about the relationship, you've gotta start planning. So you're working it out with her about meeting her parents. You say you are going to be jobless too. Have you started looking for your next one? I'm being realistic here and I hope your relationship work out well, but you sound like you're being the main provider here. Not just for her, but it seems for her family too. You'll be supporting them too once you're married and if her family members are going to need financial aid. Are you just going to deny them? Sure, you can do that but they're already also a part of your family once the two of you marry.

Age doesn't matter, especially if you're 21, you can do lots of stuff as long as you want to. But seriously, dude, you'll need a steady job.

I hope that you will win in this gambling of yours so that you can STFU or ask those ppl who flamed / tried to advice you to GTFO.

You dare to post this I assume you have prepared your ears for goods & bads POV. Why ppl wasted their time typing, flaming/advice you while you try to share your story? Some call you stupid & dumb & s*hai, WHY? Bcos they don't understand you or they jealous cause you got a foreign gf?

Think...

Thank you & good night...

This post has been edited by lampost: Aug 5 2009, 11:27 PM

she got parents
she got intehnets
she got time to go vacations and play online game
and she is poor? and need money from you?

something is wrong sumwhere.

bro,be aware of this girl..she can trash u upside down..whatever it is,meet her first..either u go pinoy or she come here..good luck bro..

Quick question for TS,

how are you so certain that you love her?
and
how are you so certain that she loves you?

Love is blind.... we just waiting miracle to happen... although we know slim chances...

TS is same like me 4 year ago...... No matter what u all say, also cannot change his mind........

I have the same experinces as him, so i know what he thinking, he just want us to give him moral support

TS, my support... is her lost for future she dont accept u.....

These people who keep saying that "love is blind" really should stop being complete chumps.

im the philipine gal .. i need more pesos pls bank in to me ..

zzzzz just a picture and phone can trick ppl liaw zzzzzz

Trying not to be mean on TS. It seems that TS have choosen to blind himself and gamble his luck. But I can only see it as an action of digging your own grave. No one can save ur but urself. Hopefully its not too late before you wake up.

Good luck!!

Btw, Try to be rationale and face the reality. Love isn't everything in yourlife. As said your are jobless now. Why not fex yourself up before u even think of saving other ppl.

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Added on August 6, 2009, 10:27 amTS, again not to be HARSH on you! I think you are the one who should grow up.

Think about this "After 10 years when u are 31, you'll only be looking back and smile to yourself. what a joke!?"
Hope u understand what I mean.


This post has been edited by gwong: Aug 6 2009, 10:27 AM

i would enjoy reading the end part of this story.
keep us posted while i prepare pop corn.

Mind if i ask on whether you've got permission from the girl before you post her photos in a forum? Ai....what is the point? Coz u "SONG AH"?

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Added on August 6, 2009, 10:49 amAiyo...thats what ppl trying to say... your are not thinking with your brain but with your penis. Sumore can reply penis dont have brain.

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Added on August 6, 2009, 10:55 amYou asked TS not to regret. So are you trying to tell us that you regretted?

Btw, TS u'll only be regretting if you dont overcome this yourself. I am not calling u stupid. You'll wake up one day and face the fact, just a lil poorer?

This post has been edited by gwong: Aug 6 2009, 11:25 AM

regret lah bro....haihz but what to do,, just move on lor... later will remove them, i just wanted to use that as example for yesterday.

your ex gf changed sex to be a guy and got married to a girl?

wow

pinoy ? the 1st person who con my money from ebay is Pinoy as well T-T

7chai, u trying to buy love from pinoyland like TS ar?

nia seng, buy MTG cards la okay