To all guys and girl, i just wanted to share my experience on a relation with a foreign girl from Philippines.

7 months ago, i met her in an Online game. I was disguise as a girl and ended up to be sisters with her. we both was very close to each other. Whenever what happened, we used to share it together. After that, she was inlove with a guy and i seldom stick with her anymore. Later on, she changed boyfriend again. I asked the guy who previously coupled with her. He says that this girl very spoiled. Very "Manja" and he cannot tahan.

After few months, i asked her. Why you seem to be changing bf so often? She tell me that those guys dont appreciate her. After this words, i feel like the same like her. No girls appreciate me either. I always got cheated almost 10 times.

Few weeks later, I've coupled with this philippines girl. on the 1st day, she called me. When i answer the call, OMFG!! Her voice is very sweet. Later on, i started to call her everyday. Our love was very deep for each other. After 1 month i've coupled with her, she start asking money from me. Ofcouse, i sent her. Since philippines economic is very bad, she can't find any job yet. So, she been asking money from me almost every month for her nephew medical and sometimes she going vacation somewhere with her friends, she asked money from me also. And recently, her dad was in hospital and she asked money from me also.

Many friends told me dont send her money anymore. She might be cheating me. Some even says if the girl loves me, she dont ask money from me. From what my thoughts, She asked money from me cause i'm the closest person with her now and i really love her. We dont know if she really telling the truth or just trying to cheat on me. If you love someone, you need to trust her. So far, i've send her almost 20,000 pesos. Extimated RM1,500. My friends always asked me to find another girl but they dont understand how i feel. It's not easy to forget someone you love and it's painful. We promised that we wont leave each other. so i must keep my promise as a man.

i always tell her that i'm scare that she might leave me like i experienced before. She told me to trust her. If you love someone, you need to trust him/her. I read many articles from websites. They says that Pinoy or Phillippines girls is loyal on their relationship. Phillippines girls is the best girl to choose as a long term life partners as they was a very loving and caring wife to their family and humble. Philippines girls was taught not to yell or shout whenever they're angry but stay calm and talk all over in a polite way. These article was truth cause my gf wont Yell or shout whenever she's mad or angry.

Recently, i have lost my job since company is closing down. I can't send her money as i promised her for her dad's medical treatment. She says it's ok if i can't help. She can try borrow money from other ppl. I feel sorry for her, but i send her money too even i'm jobless. But i told her that this is the last time i'll send her money untill i have met her.
It's not easy for us to meet each other cause she lost her ID card and need time and money to fix it. Then, she says her dad dont allow me to meet her but she still trying to talk with her dad. She told me that she can come to see me but i'll need to bear the cost for everything like valid documents and flight ticket. I dont know if i can believe her but i tried to believe her cause i really need her.

From the 1st day i start my relationship with her, i already prepare for the worst. So, i willing to gamble because i'm totally tired to find girlfriend again. Just hope i can meet her someday.....

This post has been edited by amane_kaoru: Aug 5 2009, 07:27 PM

wow.

how long have you know her liao?

Good luck.

so it was like 7 months oh ...

dude, been in your position before.

I would suggest you hold on to your guns first. All pinoy chicks has nice voices.

Mine was PRC and I spent more than you by the thousands. Just don't get too involved until your in pinoy land. Right now you have no information and information is vital to make a decision.


This post has been edited by KirklandLee: Aug 5 2009, 05:18 PM

picture?

Another Fruit.

I'm a bigger Fruit than Fruit man.

wake up man...

You say you're in love? How long have you been together any how? What made you fall for her? She's there and you're here right?

Dude, I think you should hold your horses. Sure, trust comes with love but you can't love blindly either. Many people have been dupped by women, get rich quick schemes, etc because they acted purely on emotion. I'm not saying she's a fraud but to be honest, I don't see any strong evidence to suggest she isn't either. What makes you think she isn't using you? Too often people see what they want to see rather than what is.

try not to be another fruit la. kirkland is the biggest fruit so far naoo.
from what i know,philipinos are somehow quite realistic. its difficult to understand sometimes. i know i cant generalize but be aware la k

spot on.

The only thing TS can do is chill and relax.

I got a friend who married a pinoy chick but he was lucky because they work in the same company and that company have a branch in pinoyland.

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Added on August 5, 2009, 5:26 pmciba|z....hahahaha.....yeah, but now i look back, i laugh at it

This post has been edited by KirklandLee: Aug 5 2009, 05:26 PM

That's for the reply guys. i was aware, but i plan to gamble on it. I really believe her cause i love her.

We cannot judge anything on love cause love is blind. We dont need reason to love someone. When the feelings is here, then we cannot deny it's love.

all the best to you mate!

okay la, just dont send anymore money. Just chill on the money part. The rest you can do whatever you want

i already told her everything yesterday. This is the last time i'll send her money till i meet her and she agreed on it. Till this morning, i called her. She still telling me that she loves me even i told her it's the last time i'll send her.

Well anyway, i hope she's serious about this relationship

sorry , i can't restrain myself from saying u dumb.
or perhaps too naive ????????????????????????????

internet game-->telephone calls-->$$

and u didn't even met her b4?

omg plz.

wake up.

can't u see this?

obviously she is just playing with u and any other guy.

move on plz, go find some chicks in real life.

dont be so silly.

u r not atm.

even atm need down payment .

TS, instead of sending RM1500 to her, why don't you spend this amount of money to fly to her and meet her up instead?

You don't have to meet her father, just meet her up. By the way, how old is she? Is she still under 18 that under parents' control?

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Aug 5 2009, 05:42 PM

It amazes me and still probably will, how do you love someone whom you do not know.

Maybe I'm the odd one out.

Side note, you used Yui in your avatar and siggy as much as I want to flay the actor for Kouru, I'll withhold my flaming cause of Yui.

Pinoy girls = SPG's . . .