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This post has been edited by cutiepooh: Nov 2 2010, 01:49 PM

u are in a state of denial

Why did I have such a state????

reason why u break up?

Aiyar... u play that guy feeling again... Give him a hope at beginning and take it back....

Sad to hear

Why did u started out with him in the first place?
Love at first sight? Crush?

Initially, I told him not to rush me .. He is a kind of man in rushing gf to marry him. I met him mid of March, then april I accepted him and May I announced he is my officially bf. I brought him to meet my parents and friends. I gave him the contacts of my close friends and even my brother is trying to be his friend now too. He and me are the same type people. We always want to win. But for him, He is a very much stronger guy that I'd have ever seen in my life.

He did so much that made me feel uncomfortable. Everytime when we meet, he will ask me to have serious talk about our marriage. I told him we just met and I need more times to get along with you. There is nothing you can rush and hurry me to be your wife now I told him. Then he told me He is a business man, When he starts his business and purchase a new office, He has no time to marry me and have extra $$$$ to cover me.. I felt like "WTF" doing his business and no time to marry in future???

Then he called my brother and mum sometimes to check me, they like having so much of things that I didn't know at all. When I found out that I feel so angry coz I don't like the feeling of being checked. He told my brother how much he loves me and he did tell me how much love he put on me now is 100%. He expected me to return back the same. I told him before we started , I told him, don't rush me everything and I will spend my life and time to get along with you. I knew he is ready to commit with me, but the way he loves me is not the desire ways I wish to. I felt pressure. He always asked me not to do this and that. I asked him what happened to him??? Then he told me sorry sometimes coz his ex haunted him too much before but he just don't wish I will run like what his ex did to him before............

Gal, is he the one that you're planning to marry with?

How come you suddenly don't have feeling on him?

If no feeling, then how come you both started at the first place?

She just met him for 1 month and started dating.... and more obvious reason because he keep insisted her to be his gf, rather than she really likes him and want to be with him.

hmm...seems like my story with my ex

He was too pushy. It scares ppl off sometimes.

i saw everything u been there is so rushing O_o
u been 2gether for few months only

I am sorry that we couldn't work out for this moment.. I didn't play his heart. At the 1st play we met, we hang out we are both have the same click. I knew I like him and I did got feeling to him. But I don't know why it not keep for last forever!!!!!

I was giving him a chance to try out. I told him I can be your very close friend first and eventually an official bf. But the way he wanted me to be is overed what he has to be. Example, He acted like he is my husband and started to control me and asked me don't do this and that and corrected me want me to change to be like this and that and don't do that again....

alright, read your post.

Hmm....

Maybe he feels not secured enough? Try to make him believe that you will be there with him and no matter how, you are the person who going to "solve problems" and not just run away.

is a cycle, she accept him is to filled the emptiness that cause by the earlier ex that left her.

Big mistake big mistake

Nvm lor........ There is many guy still outside......

What past take as experince..... Btw, i thought u r the one wanna rush marry ler

Dont worry........ I always belief u, just that most guy always have the fear feeling...... The common mistake guy make.............................



He havent learn it.......

I think you were right to break up with him. Why so kan cheong?

Yes, I can love him if he doesn't do so much to disappoint me. He wanted me to trust him so much and I knew he is lack of securities so I did something what a gf shouldn't do at all ... He promised me things won't be happen a day but the thing really happened and it was fast until only 1 week to ruin my name now.....

Yes, Before I haven accept him, He called my friends and asked my friends why he did so much to me , sacrifice alot that I don't respond to him and be his gf. I don't know all these until my best friend she came to tell me, "your bf said he had spent so much on you and rushing us information and wanted me to be his gf. "My friends they all told my ex gave her's some times. She will definitely give you the best answer.

He is a guy who wants face lots!!!!!! If I want something from him, I must be a very good pussie cat but I never requested anything and not being a pussie cat so he felt I am stronger and call my mum and brother to say so many negative things and my brother and mum questioned me ..............

it is cos you know him not too much before you started with him.
so after both of you got together, you feel that actually both of you don't suits each other, that's why you find him a stranger to you.
it's sad to hear that the guy is so hurt now for this.
my advise is, you try again to know him and talk to him then only see how