you;re still on the LV bags

precisely, I've state set a standard and be proud of it, instead of so afraid people would call you gold diggers.

its like I only wanna date chinese man, then they start another debate like you think chinese ppl are grand, you're racist and so on. But the point is I like chinese man. But then again this is OOT

But these people twist the context into unbelievable argument, but then if I've time I would still debate, I like debates it helps the mind stay sharp.

You're twisting this way off course, then can I say got average income man who keeps jin and sex the wife 14 times a day...google it

I saw this post yesterday but didnt find time to reply. I find his angle very very interesting. Drug dealer.

During my time with my ex he is sort of gangster type, I've come to know a lot of others in gang and of coz the girls would be mixing and chatting.

I used to follow my ex to meet this leader in penang, he is filthy rich and his money of coz isnt clean. He has 4 wifes and all the wifes knows each other. They stay in big houses each of them, with so many big guard dogs, they drive nice cars, he has a guy who drives an Estima to all the wifes house to pick up and send all the children to school, LV and diamond rolex of coz included in the package, I used to adore her watch we call them "moon thin sing", diamonds were set even on the casing and bracelet, it cost about 120K that time, I'm not sure how much it cost now.

During that time, we're living hands to mouth, no savings, sometimes ex will get big money duno from where and he will spend it all within 2 weeks, karaokes and gambling. I remember sometimes deep in my mind how I wish I was like those wifes enjoying life. All his 4 wifes are ex karaokes GROs

I sometimes try to put my shoes if I can be like them? I guess when you're very low in your life you dun seem to have much choice, so security has a new meaning, you actually dun care, but its only in my mind I didnt do it.

Then I look at those girls and wonder, do they love him? The answer is yes I believe. But if you ask what kinda love this is I dont know. I guess it depends where you come from.

I've mixed even with prostitutes, some of his frens gfs are prost and we do talk a lot, I've asked them why they do what they do and most times they come from poor broken families.

I guess moral and how many people ignored moral, or are force to put moral aside. I dun and never look down on them, I kept in touch with a few girls after married but I can see from hubbys face he dun really like me mixing around with those girls so I slowly stayed away.

Coming back to this topic, those girls comes from broken family with very little guidance, sometimes money is so tight and without much education and mother sick or bro and sis still young need to go to school they sell themselves for quick money. I respect this girls in the sense they willing to lower thier standard and make sure their younger bro and sis can have proper education. OLs I know or white collar girls, will never in thier life sacrifice so much for the family.

They never got out from the slum as its already become part of their lives now.

I dont come from broken family, but I do come from poor family, my parents never agreed with me going out with thugs, but that time young and I practically elope and stay with my ex, I was very in love with him, and broke my mums heart into 1000X pieces.

As I grow older, and time is catching up, I start to panic coz I see this is going nowhere, hence fast forward to today I got out of it.

So you see, if you come from a comfortable lifes, drug money is a big sin, but if you're way down there, its heaven sent.

I know its morally wrong, thats why I make sure I'm a fulltime mother and put as much reality and moral to Noreens life. I'll try to give my best.

ok guys, time for yuo to twist and attack me...I'm being truthful of my experience and what I felt that time, the temptations was strong.

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 9 2009, 01:59 PM

if you insist girls who go for rich husband are gold diggers using security as an excuse then ok lor, all those rich man are cursed without true love.

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 9 2009, 02:36 PM

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 9 2009, 02:39 PM

Sorry I've brushed your post aside and gave you a disappointing answer not thick enuf to debate

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 9 2009, 02:59 PM

thats a good one teongpeng,

7chai
that shows you're still shallow with a little tolerance, what if she cant slim down? or no plastic surgery can fix her?

seriously, it is still shallow

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 9 2009, 03:02 PM

hi there...this thread is about few guys got their egos hurt

but what you're doing is still shallow right? why cant you leave her as it is?

I asked you what if she cant slim down or no plastic surgery can fix her up, would you still marry her?

fulltime mother need to makan right?
or you expect the baby to earn her milk and diapers?

so you're saying all those GROs and prostitute are all losers with no moral and that is why they end up there? gosh a long essay and thats all you're able to picked up.

My hubby is exactly 10 years my senior, he always tells me I live a life full of experience, I dun read a lot but I experience a lot in life hence I look at life as real and not from books.

I'm amazed, you really fully understand everything. I've tried to tell them this somewhere back there but the message got lost or deliberately ignored.

hey you;re still setting standard of your choice of wife right?
You;re ok to be shallow but I'm not ok to pick a rich hubby.
at least the reason I pick a rich hubby is so I can be a fulltime mother, what is your intention of denying a ugly fat woman for a wife?

and btw I dun think so I;m that rude, an indonesia construction worker wanna date me I tell him u balik indon. I'll just say sorry. thats all.

he reads this thread.


you can snap them back and same time add sense of humour, you should be a comedian

I know plenty, he is very sincere and tells me a lot of his experience, I'm not those unexposed girls, I know what man do, so no worry there.

I'm not saying girls who work is not normal, I'm saying if you choose love with a man who are not capable to raise a family will regret coz she and the kids will run into problem.

It is me who just want to be a fulltime mother in here, and debbie says she want to be one too when she becomes a mother, that is why she is also aiming high, to prepare her foundation b4 plunging into starting a family.

baby makan and same time mama fighting off internet war

people like you....and people here calling me a arrogant.

You try turun padang and help the aids drug addict, and prostitute at chow kit, tell them you wouldnt end up here if your dad didnt take drugs and leave the whole family, if you've somehow manage to study hard, somehow duno where the money come from, take up doctor degree, then this world no more poor people, we would be like in duno which planet must be in heaven where everybody is high and mighty.

Dude, go out more, mix more with unfortunate people and understand the society, get more life experience instead of reading up on noreens story book.

you dun choose a person by the look but yet you want your other half to be presentable, you should start a thread man wan beautiful wife and be proud of it.

Be bold and admit what you want in life like what I did.

Why do you want to help your fren slim down? whats the problem being fat?

it is still setting a standard just like I set a standard for my husband to be

thats why ask you read properly, you seriously think they;re dumb? you're arrogant.

sick mom...bro and sis so young, no money, if she work in KFC she can only fend for herselfs and leave the family to die. This is exactly what whitecollar girls do.

Thats why I've great respect for these girls and actually respect them more than those career woman you talk about.

They do this so family can survive, so bro and sis get proper education so no need to end up in slums.

open your eyes and dun snub them.

I dun understand...maybe my mind is blur...care to elaborate more

you mean look has no apparent attraction to you at all? you said you expect a presentable wife, the question should be can you fall in love with a fat ugly woman?

Sincerely it has nothing to do with get a gf or get a bf?