I think theres nothing funny about this, of coz they;re people more expensive and of coz also they;re people way cheaper.

But the price also comes with the quality of the buyer

if bill gates wanna marry a common girl then even he give her a rubberband as proposal ring also plenty will accept, but if chintongfa wanna marry me, even a 2 cts diamond ring wont work...get the drift?

what if I choose to be a SAHM? I want to make sure my baby gets all the love and care, breast feed her as long as I can. Cook food for the family.

I can only do this with a capable husband.

did you read the whole thread? you didnt and you starts throwing your words at me, so what was my stand?
sleep with the highest bidder? its you who got so emo most proly from the diamond thread.

ah you're using your imagination, never have I say I want the best and show off in everything, I drive a myvi when my hubby wants to get me something better, I calculate the monthly payment and the depreciation I told him MYVI would do the job.

I use carrefour diapers its cheap.

I look for security, not a lavish lifestyle, so for those who didnt read the whole thing pls stop jumping into conclusion.

jeez... you're such brain block

My dream is to raise children, become a mother and a good wife, a daughter was my dream, and I'm very happy now. But to get what I wan I need a husband whom are capable.

so you're saying all those SAHM are prostitute?
girls should all go work and fend for themselves?
children should be left with babysistersitter?

they're many ways to look at rich.
some would consider 10k a month income as rich
some would only consider 100k a month to qualify that word.

So you assume something and blame others? or you think your thinking as the centre of the universe?

Do you not agree a woman needs a capable or rich husband to get the ideal family?
stay home mother taking care of the baby, you get good home cook food, your wife waiting for you at home, you get your coffee at night so you can relax? a peace of mind knowing mother is there 24/7 with the baby?

do you not need money for all this?

can all this happen with a guy who can hardly take care of himself? and when ppl believe in this you call them a prostitute?

so you;re assuming I'm very miserable? my family is all muka masam everyone walking in mask?

you need to know more about life.

something like you couple with a girl who;s a slag, never clean the house, cant cook, horrible in personality, then a better looking girl comes along in your life better looking, better in bed, better in personality, better in cooking, better in everything.

but you find it impossible to fall in love with the next girl because she is prettier assuming looks is important in man.

Why you cannot accept the fact rich guys are good? why do you have a one way track mind that rich guys will only throw money and treat every girl like prostitute? maybe this is only you, but I've seen plenty of rich guys that are so much more a gentleman and treat woman like a goddess.

My husband is one, he is so romantic and understanding, he really swept me off my feet.

well I think you guys are just jealous lot hahahha.

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Added on October 5, 2009, 5:53 pmthat is only you.... you think only 100K a month can classify under rich,

but to me 10k a month is rich, a guy who can afford a decent house, takes care of all the needs and financially healthy is consider rich to me.





This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 5 2009, 05:53 PM

well you;re the one who said I would be miserable, you;re the one who thinks choosing a rich husband means automatically forfeit any love involve.

Its just like a guy who wants to marry a pretty sexy girl, does it automatically means a sexy pretty girl will curi makan and he will be miserable?

I said marry a rich husband, did I ever mention your love would be forfeit? since when you cannot fall in love with a rich man?

btw I'm using his account in here and he reads everything I write and he is laughing with how insecure how you guys are feelin.

I've just checked


did it mention how much only qualified as rich? or do you not understand english?

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Added on October 5, 2009, 6:12 pmhahahaha, no wonder you;re so insecure with the diamond thread, you actually tot I wanna sell diamond or promote diamond. aiyo good imagination la you.

FYI I used to work in diamond wholesaler, my hubby was dealing with gemstones but now dealing more into silver jewellery. His main biz is selling costume jewellery plastic and glass beads you see at those stall or pasar malam.

So you must be competitor, but then from your posting you dun sound like a person well verse in diamond.

time to start cooking...tata

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 5 2009, 06:15 PM

alamak, you still insist you;re right...ok I give you a chance to lose face.

how much then only can qualify as rich?

I'll read tonite...gtg edi

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 5 2009, 06:17 PM

First of all, since when you're qualified to judge who is a lousy debater?
I cant debate with you because you keep changing.
You Deny things that you say.

Since when did I ever agree running to the richest guy? I'm saying choose a rich husband and you'll warp speed in life.
If you intend to feed your husband by all means go ahead and choose a bum, its your choice.

Same goes to a guy, who got attracted to his wife because she is so beautiful he wish to marry that pretty girl,
Finally his dream came true, they got married, he treat her like a goddess, he cherish her so much.

But in your version would be, this guy is shallow hal
He will keep a mistress when she turn 40


you guys are shallow and understand nothing, too quick to judge.

yes poor family exist

I come from one, and what is wrong I tell myself that next time I will try my best not to end up like one. Being a mother is very hurting to see, so I'll try to give good things to my children.

You see everyone girl and guy have a choice, you can make your dream come true and marry the one in your dream.
or you can be stuck with your high school love just because you picked and couple with him and you must marry him even if he proves to be a bum. so that people in cupid corner wont call you a prostitute if later on a more prospective guy comes along.

you guys hv forgotten, couple time are test run, you test all you wan...marriage is the real thing where you have intention to have children with him

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 6 2009, 09:00 AM

you see if that guy is so good to her, she wont be asking this question in here, that means there is something else she want, deep inside she wants to marry a rich guy but afraid people will call her a prostitute

thats her dilemma I think

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Added on October 6, 2009, 9:07 amexactly, these guys in here are so dead in thinking

marry a pretty girl means he is shallow
marry a rich guy means she is a prostitute

no grey area, just plain black and white, how I wish life is that simple, this kinda thinking only exist in 5 years old, so innocent in life.

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 6 2009, 09:07 AM

that is just too bad then, and have to accept fate, because you can love that rich guy, but at least you gave a shot.

So you're implying man cannot marry pretty girl? because if he do, later on she gets old and no more like 20 years ago he has to remarry or keep a mistress

gosh, how brilliant can you be???? double facepalm for you you're the typical

marry pretty wife is shallow
marry rich husband is prostitute

what is wrong with you?

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 6 2009, 10:10 AM

If you do it and not admit it then you;re hypocrite
If you dont do it and wanted it in your mind then you're coward depriving yourselves from dreams you could have had.

you stand an equal chance of him falling out of love and fooling around 10 years later in all the guys. So why not pick a rich guy?

huh? I lost you there.

oh you again not yet lose face yesterday about english.

So in your mind only the rich will fool around,
lemme ask you this, those cheap prostitute den, cheap karaoke setup are for which classes of people?
You think poor people are holier and flirt any less than the rich?
Flirtation flaw are in the person not the pocket. The different between the 2 is the rich will have a higher chances of getting the girl as compared with the poor, the poor needs to work harder.

and you ever heard of the saying "kong sum mei chun sek sum yau hei"?

You're emo by calling me stupid, well I can lower my IQ and start a name calling war with you if thats what yu wan but pls open a new thread so I can do that.

btw I recall yesterday you cant even understand the dictionary you posted hahahha

i never said to restrict only to money? rich guys have good mentality as well no?

I think you got it wrong, I've never made comparison, I only say marry a rich man.

Then war starts, the guys here kept saying the rich will get a mistress or new younger wife and divorce the old wife.
rich people are bad and loveless.

I'm just trying to correct things and let them know good and bad exist in all.

I've only put an extra requirement in my husband criteria, and that is money.