Can this help u make decision already. The answer already in ur heart. Remember, money is a devil that cause havoc

Choose B lor.

Ohh wait, A told you if u choose B he will send his people chop him ? i think so

it is very obvious the answer, of coz is the second one, choose the one u love and the one who love u better than choose the one u dont love and suffer for the ress of ur life.

choose /b/

marry for the money! then send me some money every month

movies??? =.=...TS is not writing a script and ask for comments.

to the bold part....lol...AS if (b) is not gonna socialize...no gal prefer an otaku who sat at home every day foruming and didnt socialize at all... I am not trying to flame bait but your post is too abstract and not realistic at all. It has biasness on a specific personality.

yeah!!! /b/ is the best

This post has been edited by liez: Mar 17 2009, 09:37 AM

(a) obviously

edit : the reason is because u needed to ask

This post has been edited by aichiban: Mar 17 2009, 09:48 AM

For my opinion, the guy that low income can provide more comfortable and happiness to u, tat high income guy, he may provide luxury life for u, but is it comfortable to u since u r unlike those serious smoker. For that high income, he juz provide luxury life and low income guy able bring comfortable and happiness to u. Money, won't able finished to gain, as long as u satisfy and get ur necessity is ok d.

Choose A
Do you never hear the classic tale?, when young time both can drink water and pretend its diner, struggle for him, help him out in the rent and so on, when he made it big in his 30s he will have a PRC woman as a kept.

If pak toh, you choose the one you love and enjoy the time
When talking about marriage you choose the secure one, are you even a woman?

if u chose A, u not only chose his money.. but u have to think, because of money, u dumped someone u love (B). I will look down on u! But if A is ur only choice, then is ok for u to chose A.

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Added on March 17, 2009, 9:59 amif u wanna a secure future?. earn ur own money! be a financial independent women!

This post has been edited by Doopleganger: Mar 17 2009, 09:59 AM

I thought girls like bad boys. Choose (A) lah. But one important question, did (A) get his success through his own efforts or was the business handed down to him? If it was purely through his own effort, (A) has more substance than (B). Its not easy to be successful in business and it shows how much passion he has for life.

(B) is probably a straightforward person who work for people without really caring about his financial situation. When times get bad, how would he react. As a guy I can tell u that a guy's attitude can change a lot whether they have money or not.

A = got money, no feeling...
B = got feeling, less money...

Which of the above is the life you want?

wei no 3rd option la, if wanna say like that, then ask TS find someone rich and loving... dun you know every girls dream? to be a tai tai?

if this makes you feel better, im 29 i got 3k per month only...

but im not a civil engineering im just a technical/sytem engineer which im changing my field soon...

going into the wrong job since the begining is a bad idea, i work hard but this is the max.

money is 1 thing, bad attitude is another, it will show in times once you guys togather.

i think B will be a good husband,
but the reason you even ask this question means you need to be pamper with meterial stuff, if you can pass tht, B is the way to go.

(B)...

correct!

of course B lah....
I can't begin to tell you how many failed r/s i've heard about guy A

TS!

You should look into the guy personality & behaviour. A well educated guy does not guarantee you a good future, perhaps the qualification is just a stepping stone for him. Even if he has the attitude"tidak apa", "not ambitious" & etc, eventually it will only ruin both of your future if married. Somehow, i do see the point of when someone grown from a poor family, less educated are prompt to better innitiative to gloom their career & work harder. Thus, you must really measure the maturity of the individual guys because it reflect how they handling things when face crisis.

The (a) has the ability to gives you the security as a husband, but his age is still the borderline of a guy maturity. As i said, u need to analyse his maturity though the age does not determine the maturity. Secondly, his bad family background can cause a nighmare impact to you if married. So you need to analyse the critical of his bad family background, as u married to him. At times, a chiild grows really reflect to their family background on how to pamper them into the grow process.

For (B), first he has a good & steady career as an engineer, but my question is does he is a "ambitious guy"? If am to answer u, i would say he has big problem in his career with the age already at 30 but only earning <4k!!???Do you know, majority of failure in marriage are due to financial argument & problem amid the husband & wife? So you need to seriously analyse how financially he is able to support you & family if you married him. As i said, the most important for a guy is the "ambitious" & hardworking is the key of security to a gal nor neither he just an engineer.

Morning,

Dilemma? Let me ask yu a hypothetical question if I may,

"Let's assume that yu are a fickle minded girl, would yu listen to our postings and will this affect the outcome of your decision?"

"Let's assume it is mutually exclusive decision, unless.....I would not want to know"

Ask me not but yourself. The ultimate decision is upon your OWN hands. There's NO CERTAINTY for what holds for tomorrow.

I may sounded a little cliche but....."NOTHING IS WHAT IT SEEMS"

well-said.