consider yourself lucky because she left you before you get married. find another one which is not so money minded

not so money minded??  no such thing, bro.. there is just no such thing..

not so money minded??  no such thing, bro.. there is just no such thing..

all girl materialistic . work hard be a rich guy in the future and show it to her. make her regret ! fk those girl knn pnb

What I can say is..

Girls are money-minded. They can live poor with you during College/Uni.. but after that..

BMW please, Gucci, Prada !

You. Two. Have nothing better to say?

Girl will never regret to give up a poor man who isn't self-motived.

All losers know is how to find reasons to support their failures.

But to be fair, girls tend to be like that = )

But I dont disagree, I was once content with my honda city, but I am moving up in the world and I want nice things to show my status = )

Girls thrive for the same thing, and yes, not all want prada, gucci and etc, but still, they want to be able to be comfortable = )

I am person, who would like my wife to stay home when I get my first child. Her working, is not even open for discussion = )

Thus, I'm working hard to provide for that future .. and I understand girls like to have nice things, even if they dont ask for it ..

My ex didnt ask for presents or wtv. she didnt demand i buy her a necklace from swarovski or wtv.

But i did it anywayz, cause I wanted to show her what she meant to me.

We broke up eventually because of long distance, but thats not the point being discussed here = ) .

A girl feels secure when a guy can provide for her, be it, last time i was using my parents money. But im out on my own, and makin my way in the world and I understand how my dad felt when he and my mom first had me = ) .

He wanted my mom to be a house wife so that she can nurture me and my brother who came later on.

He on the other hand, did his job as a husband and a father and provided for us .

Isnt that what every woman wants? The security to build a family without the stress of meeting ends meet ?

You dont have to be filthy rich to be able to give that kind of security. Not every girl, needs to have a bmw and a prada bag = ).

A proton or a honda would do fine.

If every girl conformed to the I want ferrari mentaility, 95% of the world population will be single and crying = )

omnimech, sad to say, lots of losers (they claim that they are nice guys) in CC here don't understand the simple theory as you mentioned.

They simply just understand:
Girls loves money = Girls are materialistic = Girls are b**ch

The actual formula:
Girls want security = Girls want finacial capable Bfs/Husbands

omnimech, sad to say, lots of losers (they claim that they are nice guys) in CC here don't understand the simple theory as you mentioned.

They simply just understand:
Girls loves money = Girls are materialistic = Girls are b**ch

The actual formula:
Girls want security = Girls want finacial capable Bfs/Husbands

Still girls need Financial capable bf ....how bout those guys who risk evertin for their gf and loves them more than ever..just that they dun hav financial capable.. we just can't blame them for that... if there is support frm gf...of course tinks will be better..

yeah . formerly from unlinked. = )

and yes, just want to reinforce the fact that girls all want the same things.

Just that some want the best = ) . Materialistic yes, and some of them do get what they want = ). But you would be surprise, my rich friends who drive beemers and what not, prefer a down to earth girl who love them for who they are and not who their dad's are...

So all those people saying, got money, got honey. Its right. but the honey they have are the girls you turned down = ).

Some of the people here think, with money, you will get models and what not. Blow up your ego ? Hehehe. Most other people, who do have the moolah, dont bother.

Im not saying I am rich, but Id rather have a nice down to earth girl who loves me to bits because I am nice to her, and not cause I can afford to buy her anything her heart desires.

The presents will come naturally without her telling me = ) .

Go look around, see those ppl driving evos and bmws. If you can, see how they treat their girlfriends = ) .

You see them carrying expensive bags and what not, but trust me, alot of them have very nice personalities.

Dont be f***ing loser, stand up you idiot.. why would u be sad for a girl who left you because she doesnt want to struggle with you even if you're poor? Your salary is average, not a poor type salary , ok? Nowadays many ppl work with only RM2K more or less slightly. Its a tough life.

See this from a positive angle.. what if you both married and then after 2/3 years marriage, she left you because of the same f***ing stupid reason? Dont u even feel slightly glad that it doesnt become worse in the next few years?

There's some girl here who says your gf is right, but i dont think so.. I think love can overcome everything, even if you're poor but you both live happily that's enough, right? Girl always think they are right in this matter just to escape the idea to struggle together with their bf cuz they only want a comfortable life.

Its easy to think bout this, If a girl love you, no matter how poor are you, she will always stay with you no matter how tough it is.. Its not that you are irresponsible bf who spend all money for gambling.

Please forget this girl, she is the materialised girl type, my friend, im indeed happy for you instead of feeling sorry for you. That girl is not meant to be your future wife cuz u deserve a better wife than you ex-gf is. That future wife is whom will spend all time with you poor or rich, sad or happy

I understand how u feel, but always remind yourself if only you both divorce during marriage, isnt that worse compared to now?

There are more ppl who love you in this world.. one of them is your parents. Will you parents leave you if you're so poor? They will even give you their rice for you to eat even if you dont have money to buy rice for them..that's true love.

Now just forget her and spend your life with your loved one and also work harder and find a girl who doesnt care if your poor or rich. I believe you will find one.

To those who give stupid comments here instead of giving a good advice please just go study and dont sleep in the class... you guys are too young to give a comment/advice to this man.

ONe more thing, a good girl will never even consider to let you treat them if they know you are using your PTPTN money that time. IM not sure if you're hiding this from her or she never care if you use your ptptn money at all.

This break-up will take time, time will tell you.

Oh yes.
This is acceptable. For me. 

Will he betray me when he become rich is another case, of course.
We gals also love self-motivated men who are down to earth.
Successfulness will go to them one day later.

That is depends on wat type of guy u choose ....in a relationship up and down is usual but wat makes the relationship sticks together is the sincerity

good post.

eh. omnimech? former unlinked.net member?

i would say the girls who are never contented, never satisfied, always asks for more, is materialistic.
those who ask for the minimum are being realistic.
of course, boys should always work smart and hard to surprise their girls with extra bonuses.

like omnimech mentioned, dun need to be filthy rich to give security one.

This is what the guy needs .....This wat i call as piece of advice .....bravo to you man....

Oh yes.
This is acceptable. For me. 

Will he betray me when he become rich is another case, of course.
We gals also love self-motivated men who are down to earth.
Successfulness will go to them one day later.