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Chat Gf left me, she say i am poor, 4 years relationship,fail future wedding

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debbieyss
post Sep 28 2009, 12:08 PM

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QUOTE(Cloud9Nos3 @ Mar 21 2009, 06:06 PM)
all girl materialistic . work hard be a rich guy in the future and show it to her. make her regret ! fk those girl knn pnb
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QUOTE(nicholas88 @ Mar 29 2009, 03:42 PM)
What I can say is..

Girls are money-minded. They can live poor with you during College/Uni.. but after that..

BMW please, Gucci, Prada !
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You. Two. Have nothing better to say?

Girl will never regret to give up a poor man who isn't self-motived.

All losers know is how to find reasons to support their failures.
debbieyss
post Sep 28 2009, 12:31 PM

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omnimech, sad to say, lots of losers (they claim that they are nice guys) in CC here don't understand the simple theory as you mentioned.

They simply just understand:
Girls loves money = Girls are materialistic = Girls are b**ch

The actual formula:
Girls want security = Girls want finacial capable Bfs/Husbands
debbieyss
post Sep 28 2009, 01:10 PM

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QUOTE(firedemon @ Sep 28 2009, 12:50 PM)
Still girls need Financial capable bf rclxub.gif ....how bout those guys who risk evertin for their gf and loves them more than ever..just that they dun hav financial capable.. we just can't blame them for that... if there is support frm gf...of course tinks will be better..
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Oh yes.
This is acceptable. For me. blush.gif

Will he betray me when he become rich is another case, of course.

QUOTE(omnimech @ Sep 28 2009, 12:50 PM)
tongue.gif yeah . formerly from unlinked. = )

and yes, just want to reinforce the fact that girls all want the same things.

Just that some want the best = ) . Materialistic yes, and some of them do get what they want = ). But you would be surprise, my rich friends who drive beemers and what not, prefer a down to earth girl who love them for who they are and not who their dad's are...

So all those people saying, got money, got honey. Its right. but the honey they have are the girls you turned down = ).

Some of the people here think, with money, you will get models and what not. Blow up your ego ? Hehehe. Most other people, who do have the moolah, dont bother.

Im not saying I am rich, but Id rather have a nice down to earth girl who loves me to bits because I am nice to her, and not cause I can afford to buy her anything her heart desires.

The presents will come naturally without her telling me = ) .

Go look around, see those ppl driving evos and bmws. If you can, see how they treat their girlfriends = ) .

You see them carrying expensive bags and what not, but trust me, alot of them have very nice personalities.
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We gals also love self-motivated men who are down to earth.
Successfulness will go to them one day later.
debbieyss
post Sep 28 2009, 02:20 PM

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QUOTE(omnimech @ Sep 28 2009, 02:11 PM)
I would say its partially giving an excuse = )

Rm2k for a fresh grad is okay, I myself am a fresh grad, but im drawing way more than that.

But he has been working for 2 yrs with a stagnant pay.

I dont blame his gf for leaving to be honest.

Its like the dude isnt going anywhere.

Sure, the first yr, maybe he couldnt get a job, but seriously after 2 yrs at the same job, he can easily find some job in the private sector that will gladly pay for his 2 yrs worth of experience. wtv it may be = ) .

This is fact of life, degree holders shouldnt be stuck at 2k for 2 yrs. it just doesnt happen. Even auditors who cry and cry for 3 yrs working their ass off get rewarded with high pay once they have experience in the field .

Like I said, maybe we dont know the whole story = ) . The girl might be thinking its a lost cause, if the guy is gonna stay at 2k forever.

Dont always throw the blame on the girl. Be fair to both parties = ) .

IT all comes down to feeling secure with the one you want to marry = ).

It works both ways . You want a girl who cares for you and loves you for you. You have to give her a reason to = ) .

I dun disagree with the notion that 2k is not a poor man's salary.

But for someone with 2 yrs experience and a degree or even a diploma. can do better = ) . it's cause he isnt going the extra mile and putting in the effort.
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QUOTE(InitialB @ Sep 28 2009, 02:13 PM)
I am sure, if i were the guy who do the cho choo train, after a few destination reached, i will dump you.
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You don't deserve to dump me.
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post Sep 28 2009, 02:26 PM

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QUOTE(omnimech @ Sep 28 2009, 02:16 PM)
You are the kind of guy that f***s it up for all the nice guys in the world.

Its because of retards like you, that some girls just cant trust a guy.

I know, trust me. I have met some of my female friends who are so insecure that the current guy that is wooing them will be exactly like their ex who is just like U.

You're lucky you didnt date anyone in my family = ).

I would hunt you down with a sledge hammer and make sure you never see the sunlight of another day = )
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I've been in Cupid's Corner for such a long time and I seldom see a guy who has this kind of characters as you have. All threads I have come across are either dumping their gf after having sex, or no commitments, or afraid of commitments, or only looking for sex sex sex...in short, morally hypocrite.
debbieyss
post Sep 28 2009, 04:18 PM

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walao eh..

just went for a short meeting and now i see my reputation been ruined....

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post Sep 29 2009, 10:55 PM

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QUOTE(eklern @ Sep 29 2009, 09:25 AM)
Debbie can give u tips to earn more money by playin in stock market
klse
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if i know how to earn more money at Stock market, why should i still lepak-ing here?
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debbieyss
post Sep 29 2009, 11:02 PM

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if i get rich, i will be busy counting my daily income, where got time to spam here?
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post Sep 29 2009, 11:12 PM

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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Sep 29 2009, 11:11 PM)
deadlocks do u realize you are spamming over 6 threads at the same time tonight?
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you too.
debbieyss
post Oct 9 2009, 08:51 PM

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QUOTE(b3rnard7 @ Oct 9 2009, 08:36 PM)
TS,no money...dun say about marriage...

even a GF is better dun think bout it....or else...u suffer urself!
Behind every romance/ love, money is playing the role behind.

Trust me,there wont be a gal who will say these to guys:

"I don't care about money! As long as we're together, everything will work out fine; love will see us through!"
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If you are a self-motivated guy, this is possible.

 

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