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Chat Gf left me, she say i am poor, 4 years relationship,fail future wedding

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firedemon
post Sep 28 2009, 12:50 PM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Sep 28 2009, 01:31 PM)
omnimech, sad to say, lots of losers (they claim that they are nice guys) in CC here don't understand the simple theory as you mentioned.

They simply just understand:
Girls loves money = Girls are materialistic = Girls are b**ch

The actual formula:
Girls want security = Girls want finacial capable Bfs/Husbands
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Still girls need Financial capable bf rclxub.gif ....how bout those guys who risk evertin for their gf and loves them more than ever..just that they dun hav financial capable.. we just can't blame them for that... if there is support frm gf...of course tinks will be better..

firedemon
post Sep 28 2009, 01:45 PM

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That is depends on wat type of guy u choose ....in a relationship up and down is usual but wat makes the relationship sticks together is the sincerity
firedemon
post Sep 28 2009, 01:53 PM

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QUOTE(Galaxino @ Sep 28 2009, 02:48 PM)
Dont be f***ing loser, stand up you idiot.. why would u be sad for a girl who left you because she doesnt want to struggle with you even if you're poor? Your salary is average, not a poor type salary , ok? Nowadays many ppl work with only RM2K more or less slightly. Its a tough life.

See this from a positive angle.. what if you both married and then after 2/3 years marriage, she left you because of the same f***ing stupid reason? Dont u even feel slightly glad that it doesnt become worse in the next few years?

There's some girl here who says your gf is right, but i dont think so.. I think love can overcome everything, even if you're poor but you both live happily that's enough, right? Girl always think they are right in this matter just to escape the idea to struggle together with their bf cuz they only want a comfortable life.

Its easy to think bout this, If a girl love you, no matter how poor are you, she will always stay with you no matter how tough it is.. Its not that you are irresponsible bf who spend all money for gambling.

Please forget this girl, she is the materialised girl type, my friend, im indeed happy for you instead of feeling sorry for you. That girl is not meant to be your future wife cuz u deserve a better wife than you ex-gf is. That future wife is whom will spend all time with you poor or rich, sad or happy

I understand how u feel, but always remind yourself if only you both divorce during marriage, isnt that worse compared to now?

There are more ppl who love you in this world.. one of them is your parents. Will you parents leave you if you're so poor? They will even give you their rice for you to eat even if you dont have money to buy rice for them..that's true love.

Now just forget her and spend your life with your loved one and also work harder and find a girl who doesnt care if your poor or rich. I believe you will find one.

To those who give stupid comments here instead of giving a good advice please just go study and dont sleep in the class... you guys are too young to give a comment/advice to this man.

ONe more thing, a good girl will never even consider to let you treat them if they know you are using your PTPTN money that time. IM not sure if you're hiding this from her or she never care if you use your ptptn money at all.

This break-up will take time, time will tell you.
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This is what the guy needs .....This wat i call as piece of advice .....bravo to you man....

firedemon
post Sep 28 2009, 02:19 PM

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QUOTE(omnimech @ Sep 28 2009, 03:11 PM)
I would say its partially giving an excuse = )

Rm2k for a fresh grad is okay, I myself am a fresh grad, but im drawing way more than that.

But he has been working for 2 yrs with a stagnant pay.

I dont blame his gf for leaving to be honest.

Its like the dude isnt going anywhere.

Sure, the first yr, maybe he couldnt get a job, but seriously after 2 yrs at the same job, he can easily find some job in the private sector that will gladly pay for his 2 yrs worth of experience. wtv it may be = ) .

This is fact of life, degree holders shouldnt be stuck at 2k for 2 yrs. it just doesnt happen. Even auditors who cry and cry for 3 yrs working their ass off get rewarded with high pay once they have experience in the field .

Like I said, maybe we dont know the whole story = ) . The girl might be thinking its a lost cause, if the guy is gonna stay at 2k forever.

Dont always throw the blame on the girl. Be fair to both parties = ) .

IT all comes down to feeling secure with the one you want to marry = ).

It works both ways . You want a girl who cares for you and loves you for you. You have to give her a reason to = ) .

I dun disagree with the notion that 2k is not a poor man's salary.

But for someone with 2 yrs experience and a degree or even a diploma. can do better = ) . it's cause he isnt going the extra mile and putting in the effort.
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in wat sense i was sayin that its a advise that the guy needs since the gal left him maybe for good...coz there is no point blaming on her and himself...since she sees sumtink that the guy didn't see himself or tell us..

She have left, so move on and be glad that she have left him earlier rather than after get married...which would be a another issue that is unbearable..
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post Sep 28 2009, 02:26 PM

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QUOTE(InitialB @ Sep 28 2009, 03:10 PM)
Just give choo choo train....kao kao is enuff....

by the way,

Girl = b**** = Girl. That's the fact!!!!!!
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YOU can't simply accuse a girls like that.....

You are just one of the B*****d who plays fool around gals

 

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