Ur not young anymore = ) .

Ur not successful .

How do you expect the girl to en-trust her future to you ?

You lack determination, you lack the drive to succeed.

From your post I feel that you dont really give a shit, you were just "surviving on ptptn money while you were studying". you should have been using it for other things.

Ppl use the money to push their studies to the maximum, you spend it all on holidays .

Mweh, I dont know the whole story, but I wouldnt do any of the things you did.

Given, i come from a well to do family and my education can easily be paid of by my parents, i still worked hard and got full scholarships during my university days = ) .

Its not about the money, its about your attitude. If you wanted to be successful, you can be. Its just the person, never blame your family background, you are who you want to become = )

So get your ass in gear and do something about your financial situation. = )

But to be fair, girls tend to be like that = )

But I dont disagree, I was once content with my honda city, but I am moving up in the world and I want nice things to show my status = )

Girls thrive for the same thing, and yes, not all want prada, gucci and etc, but still, they want to be able to be comfortable = )

I am person, who would like my wife to stay home when I get my first child. Her working, is not even open for discussion = )

Thus, I'm working hard to provide for that future .. and I understand girls like to have nice things, even if they dont ask for it ..

My ex didnt ask for presents or wtv. she didnt demand i buy her a necklace from swarovski or wtv.

But i did it anywayz, cause I wanted to show her what she meant to me.

We broke up eventually because of long distance, but thats not the point being discussed here = ) .

A girl feels secure when a guy can provide for her, be it, last time i was using my parents money. But im out on my own, and makin my way in the world and I understand how my dad felt when he and my mom first had me = ) .

He wanted my mom to be a house wife so that she can nurture me and my brother who came later on.

He on the other hand, did his job as a husband and a father and provided for us .

Isnt that what every woman wants? The security to build a family without the stress of meeting ends meet ?

You dont have to be filthy rich to be able to give that kind of security. Not every girl, needs to have a bmw and a prada bag = ).

A proton or a honda would do fine.

If every girl conformed to the I want ferrari mentaility, 95% of the world population will be single and crying = )

This post has been edited by omnimech: Sep 28 2009, 12:26 PM

yeah . formerly from unlinked. = )

and yes, just want to reinforce the fact that girls all want the same things.

Just that some want the best = ) . Materialistic yes, and some of them do get what they want = ). But you would be surprise, my rich friends who drive beemers and what not, prefer a down to earth girl who love them for who they are and not who their dad's are...

So all those people saying, got money, got honey. Its right. but the honey they have are the girls you turned down = ).

Some of the people here think, with money, you will get models and what not. Blow up your ego ? Hehehe. Most other people, who do have the moolah, dont bother.

Im not saying I am rich, but Id rather have a nice down to earth girl who loves me to bits because I am nice to her, and not cause I can afford to buy her anything her heart desires.

The presents will come naturally without her telling me = ) .

Go look around, see those ppl driving evos and bmws. If you can, see how they treat their girlfriends = ) .

You see them carrying expensive bags and what not, but trust me, alot of them have very nice personalities.

I would say its partially giving an excuse = )

Rm2k for a fresh grad is okay, I myself am a fresh grad, but im drawing way more than that.

But he has been working for 2 yrs with a stagnant pay.

I dont blame his gf for leaving to be honest.

Its like the dude isnt going anywhere.

Sure, the first yr, maybe he couldnt get a job, but seriously after 2 yrs at the same job, he can easily find some job in the private sector that will gladly pay for his 2 yrs worth of experience. wtv it may be = ) .

This is fact of life, degree holders shouldnt be stuck at 2k for 2 yrs. it just doesnt happen. Even auditors who cry and cry for 3 yrs working their ass off get rewarded with high pay once they have experience in the field .

Like I said, maybe we dont know the whole story = ) . The girl might be thinking its a lost cause, if the guy is gonna stay at 2k forever.

Dont always throw the blame on the girl. Be fair to both parties = ) .

IT all comes down to feeling secure with the one you want to marry = ).

It works both ways . You want a girl who cares for you and loves you for you. You have to give her a reason to = ) .

I dun disagree with the notion that 2k is not a poor man's salary.

But for someone with 2 yrs experience and a degree or even a diploma. can do better = ) . it's cause he isnt going the extra mile and putting in the effort.

You are the kind of guy that f***s it up for all the nice guys in the world.

Its because of retards like you, that some girls just cant trust a guy.

I know, trust me. I have met some of my female friends who are so insecure that the current guy that is wooing them will be exactly like their ex who is just like U.

You're lucky you didnt date anyone in my family = ).

I would hunt you down with a sledge hammer and make sure you never see the sunlight of another day = )

You should be the first person in Malaysia to know.

People with money can get away with murder = ) .

Lolx . You can try and bait me into a flame war. But nah. Wont buy it.

Have fun = ) .

If you are gonna lead ur life like that, I can only say good luck = ) .

And trust me, your response to what I say is borderline childish. Its like a child saying my toy is x 1000000 better = ) .

"Yeah I did, and i'm sorry to hear that." I can only assume you are claiming you dated someone from my family before. hahaha.

I highly doubt it = ) .

Its okay, I understand, that you somehow grow an e - penis while online =) but you are nothing like your online alter ego.

I will just leave you with that = ) and keep your sexist remarks to yourself. A very small percentage of the male population are just like you, but its nothing to be proud of. It actually makes one wonder. Have you ever had a relationship, or were u just mentally damaged by a girl who similar to ts story, dumped your ass ?

= \ Food for thought.

Nah, I'm still single T_T.

I'm not protected from the woes of long distance relationship. LOL