i have a big fight with my gf last week.....he always say that i cannot aford her with my income.....our relatioship is going well during our universities, we been paktoh when during studies at uni, i know that i am using my PTPTN money, but we always spending time together and took her travel to almost every state in penisular Malaysia...to Penang, KL (every week days) and Johor....during the time, we even went to Genting Highlands and Cameron from Ipoh.....during the Uni?studies years, we benn staying together and rent a house...but i know..the PTPTN money is not enough for our studies living...our parents do sent us more money not less than RM400. For me i think that my GF have arich family that her parents sent her mauch money during our studies years...

When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these  two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????

So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down

I am sure, if i were the guy who do the cho choo train, after a few destination reached, i will dump you.

I would say its partially giving an excuse = )

Rm2k for a fresh grad is okay, I myself am a fresh grad, but im drawing way more than that.

But he has been working for 2 yrs with a stagnant pay.

I dont blame his gf for leaving to be honest.

Its like the dude isnt going anywhere.

Sure, the first yr, maybe he couldnt get a job, but seriously after 2 yrs at the same job, he can easily find some job in the private sector that will gladly pay for his 2 yrs worth of experience. wtv it may be = ) .

This is fact of life, degree holders shouldnt be stuck at 2k for 2 yrs. it just doesnt happen. Even auditors who cry and cry for 3 yrs working their ass off get rewarded with high pay once they have experience in the field .

Like I said, maybe we dont know the whole story = ) . The girl might be thinking its a lost cause, if the guy is gonna stay at 2k forever.

Dont always throw the blame on the girl. Be fair to both parties = ) .

IT all comes down to feeling secure with the one you want to marry = ).

It works both ways . You want a girl who cares for you and loves you for you. You have to give her a reason to = ) .

I dun disagree with the notion that 2k is not a poor man's salary.

But for someone with 2 yrs experience and a degree or even a diploma. can do better = ) . it's cause he isnt going the extra mile and putting in the effort.

I would say its partially giving an excuse = )

Rm2k for a fresh grad is okay, I myself am a fresh grad, but im drawing way more than that.

But he has been working for 2 yrs with a stagnant pay.

I dont blame his gf for leaving to be honest.

Its like the dude isnt going anywhere.

Sure, the first yr, maybe he couldnt get a job, but seriously after 2 yrs at the same job, he can easily find some job in the private sector that will gladly pay for his 2 yrs worth of experience. wtv it may be = ) .

This is fact of life, degree holders shouldnt be stuck at 2k for 2 yrs. it just doesnt happen. Even auditors who cry and cry for 3 yrs working their ass off get rewarded with high pay once they have experience in the field .

Like I said, maybe we dont know the whole story = ) . The girl might be thinking its a lost cause, if the guy is gonna stay at 2k forever.

Dont always throw the blame on the girl. Be fair to both parties = ) .

IT all comes down to feeling secure with the one you want to marry = ).

It works both ways . You want a girl who cares for you and loves you for you. You have to give her a reason to = ) .

I dun disagree with the notion that 2k is not a poor man's salary.

But for someone with 2 yrs experience and a degree or even a diploma. can do better = ) . it's cause he isnt going the extra mile and putting in the effort.

I am sure, if i were the guy who do the cho choo train, after a few destination reached, i will dump you.

You are the kind of guy that f***s it up for all the nice guys in the world.

Its because of retards like you, that some girls just cant trust a guy.

I know, trust me. I have met some of my female friends who are so insecure that the current guy that is wooing them will be exactly like their ex who is just like U.

You're lucky you didnt date anyone in my family = ).

I would hunt you down with a sledge hammer and make sure you never see the sunlight of another day = )

Just give choo choo train....kao kao is enuff....

by the way,

Girl = b**** = Girl. That's the fact!!!!!!

You are the kind of guy that f***s it up for all the nice guys in the world.

Its because of retards like you, that some girls just cant trust a guy.

I know, trust me. I have met some of my female friends who are so insecure that the current guy that is wooing them will be exactly like their ex who is just like U.

You're lucky you didnt date anyone in my family = ).

I would hunt you down with a sledge hammer and make sure you never see the sunlight of another day = )

YOU can't simply accuse a girls like that.....

You are just one of the B*****d who plays fool around gals

hey, you can't use my trademark choo choo train word in your flame bait posts!

Yeah i did, and i'm sorry to hear that.

And the your post saying you'll hunt me...hmmm...i c you're so good with sledge hammer?But you'll be incharged for murder. I will be sad to see you rot in jail.

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Added on September 28, 2009, 2:43 pm

Ya. You're right bro. Thanks for the acknowledge.

You should be the first person in Malaysia to know.

People with money can get away with murder = ) .

Lolx . You can try and bait me into a flame war. But nah. Wont buy it.

Have fun = ) .

If you are gonna lead ur life like that, I can only say good luck = ) .

And trust me, your response to what I say is borderline childish. Its like a child saying my toy is x 1000000 better = ) .

"Yeah I did, and i'm sorry to hear that." I can only assume you are claiming you dated someone from my family before. hahaha.

I highly doubt it = ) .

Its okay, I understand, that you somehow grow an e - penis while online =) but you are nothing like your online alter ego.

I will just leave you with that = ) and keep your sexist remarks to yourself. A very small percentage of the male population are just like you, but its nothing to be proud of. It actually makes one wonder. Have you ever had a relationship, or were u just mentally damaged by a girl who similar to ts story, dumped your ass ?

= \ Food for thought.

Just give choo choo train....kao kao is enuff....

by the way,

Girl = b**** = Girl. That's the fact!!!!!!

  You are going to remain a virgin for a long, long time.

O rly?

I've been in Cupid's Corner for such a long time and I seldom see a guy who has this kind of characters as you have. All threads I have come across are either dumping their gf after having sex, or no commitments, or afraid of commitments, or only looking for sex sex sex...in short, morally hypocrite.

did you ask omnimech for his mobile? i think he's still single 

i think he already attached lo.

debbie mau spanner ke?