1stly, according to the situation, u dont really know him much. And wait, that 2 months mean u know him 2 months or together with him 2 months? Pls let me know how long u know him before u both get in a relationship. If the time u know him is short, i gotta warned u that it is very danger to start a relationship with a guy that come out from no where. Cheater are everywhere nowadays especially u can found alot in the internet.

2nd, he hold ur hand just like tat and do like I-keep-holding-your-hand-now-dont-pull-off-cause-I-want-u-be-my-gf? I dont think that count as official confess or not even count as start pak toh adi as he din say and u din say, perhaps both of u did i duno.

and, after reading few of ur replies, i see the same mistake that u have in many girls nowadays which guys really hate it, insecurity. Why will u have it i dont know, people say its female nature, me no care anyway. i saw u say if not because of the little trust u have in him u adi start argue with him ya? That adi over the limit of being a gf or wife. i not saying u must accept him check on other girls, but i hope u understand and try to accept that he have his own freedom in meeting new friends even all the 'friends' he wan is girl. Its normal when u feeling bad to see him have "some connection with opposite gender" same goes to when u chat or having activities with ur male friend, but we just have to accept and let him be, of course at the same time u have to control abit dont let him go too over.

And confront him is something need to do if u see any problem come out in ur relationship, thats the oni way to solve problem. And make sure u talk nicely about ur expectation with him and so on, if u really serious to him, talk whatever that are inside ur heart.

TS, dont keep all the frustration whithin you
Cause one day, you'll blow up and everything will collapse

I've seen this situation many times

ask him properly what he wants... dun delay and do nothing... or else he thinks u are ok with him checking on other gals...

Just talk to him!
Maybe he thinks ur not serious also...

dis doesnt happen to everyone la, cmon!
i knew my bf via msn too and we have been dating for 4 years plus now.

to TS:
dis happen probably because u ad ur bf is not to say understand each other too deep yet.
as u said, know each other on9, meet up and get together.
maybe the timing u all get to know each other better is short.
thus the weird feelings is all around.
u can try asking ur bf and provided IF he is honest enuf, he will tell u the truth.
else even if u ask or not, it makes no different.

Give it to him and he'll be loyal to u

yes you should before it gets longer and harder to leave. =p

communication is the key

This post has been edited by ivign: Dec 10 2008, 08:16 AM

TS, you said that he just grab ur hand...
maybe that doesn't mean anythg..
doesn't mean that u both are in a relationship now..
v are open nowadays wright?

ok.. back to your question
if i were u, i thk i'll choose not to do anythg
y? perhaps they are just normal frens n
if the guys wasn't lik interested to other gurls, guess its still acceptable ~

To clear the doubt about whether we are in a relationship, I can say yes we are and I have no doubt about that. The reason why I'm insecure also cause of his care and don't care attitude. In fact I talked with him yesterday night, of course I didn't ask him about checking out the other girls thing. I asked him if he is unsure about our relationship. And to my surprise he said "kind of" cause he not sure if I'm fully recover from my last relationship. Maybe I'm thinking too much as I'm scare to commit in this relationship. Guess I will just take it easy...

Congrats!

Take it slowly and don't be too emotional. Thats the way to go!

gosh..i hope that i got gf like u...

good girl cant find good man

good man cant find good girls!

relax....take it easy...your time will come.

u sure?

Ends up ur relationship with him And call me =.= ooaawhh..if u dont mind -,-

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Added on December 10, 2008, 9:45 pmHHA u again
Dont always "give it" "give it" ya
=.= give what wor

This post has been edited by Pain4UrsinZ: Dec 10 2008, 09:45 PM

pity u TS..
i dun lik this guy
hmm, all the best lo ~

i would suggest you to dump.... people like him only want your body... Gun him down with anything you have. Try not to get cheated easily

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Added on December 11, 2008, 5:19 amTS.... if i were you, I will just reject and be normal friends.... no joke this stuff could get serious and ruin your future... read the newspapers more

This post has been edited by KuzumiTaiga: Dec 11 2008, 05:19 AM

I have never really believed in online relationships with all the infidelity that goes around in even normal relationships so my advice to you would be to take things slow.

Shouldn't have accepted him so fast but since you did, tell him you want to take things slow and at the same time use this excuse to prob further.

It could be something it could be nothing since he's miles away the only thing you can do is probe and hope that he is what he says he is, if he isn't cut the rope.

communication matter