1stly, according to the situation, u dont really know him much. And wait, that 2 months mean u know him 2 months or together with him 2 months? Pls let me know how long u know him before u both get in a relationship. If the time u know him is short, i gotta warned u that it is very danger to start a relationship with a guy that come out from no where. Cheater are everywhere nowadays especially u can found alot in the internet.

2nd, he hold ur hand just like tat and do like I-keep-holding-your-hand-now-dont-pull-off-cause-I-want-u-be-my-gf? I dont think that count as official confess or not even count as start pak toh adi as he din say and u din say, perhaps both of u did i duno.

and, after reading few of ur replies, i see the same mistake that u have in many girls nowadays which guys really hate it, insecurity. Why will u have it i dont know, people say its female nature, me no care anyway. i saw u say if not because of the little trust u have in him u adi start argue with him ya? That adi over the limit of being a gf or wife. i not saying u must accept him check on other girls, but i hope u understand and try to accept that he have his own freedom in meeting new friends even all the 'friends' he wan is girl. Its normal when u feeling bad to see him have "some connection with opposite gender" same goes to when u chat or having activities with ur male friend, but we just have to accept and let him be, of course at the same time u have to control abit dont let him go too over.

And confront him is something need to do if u see any problem come out in ur relationship, thats the oni way to solve problem. And make sure u talk nicely about ur expectation with him and so on, if u really serious to him, talk whatever that are inside ur heart.