Just started a new relationship with a guy. We knew each other online and last week I got to meet him in person. He confessed and I accepted. However I feel like he is not really that into me as I found out he's been checking out some other girls. I'm not sure if he think I'm the one for him which is why he is still searching. Should I ask him now? or should I wait till the relationship goes longer and see how it goes? FYI he is working at sg now, so I don't get to meet him everyday.

of coz you should!

How long you know him?

What is your expectation out of this relationship?

What is his expectation out of this relationship?

Where do you want to go in this relationship?

Have you asked all the above questions before jumping in the love boat?

Yes, u should let him know.. it's better that he know now than later.. if he find that he couldn't accept it then better say bye bye now.. some guys just like to flirt and just for fun but some did it for purpose..

wait a second here... online meaning LYN forum, mmorpg, Msn or... etc.. is he from another country or local?

some other details u might want to fill us in on.

Didn't really know him long enough, like 2 months or so. Of course I'm expecting the relationship to be working out. And I thought he is serious too which I'm doubting now.

*sigh*

that was easy....

sa-yang lama tak jumpa, dahlah lama sangat sudah rindu sama u.

I'm da Master blaster man!

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Added on December 9, 2008, 3:08 pmI don't know much.

If you don't mind me asking how old are you? or you can just give me an estimate.

This post has been edited by KirklandLee: Dec 9 2008, 03:08 PM

I meant their new relationship .

forget it, guys find gals online only to have sex.

Oh...you mean you wanna get laid to huh?

I am despo lulz.

To be honest when I found out that he has bene checking some other girls, he is like a total stranger to me now. Cause from the way he chatted online he seems serious in relationship which is why he stop dating for 3 years since his last broke up cause he said he couldn't find the right one.

MSN. He is local but currently working at sg. Will be back to Malaysia soon. Actually he didnt really confess, he just grab my hand. I actually pull off a few times ( not in an obvious way) cause i wasn't sure at that moment but in the end I just accepted it, cause I know I like him but its just a lil bit too fast.

time for falcon punch

If ur lucky, the guy might just tell u the truth (did u find out that he was doing this without ur knowledge?) if u asked him. But I'd say go wth ur gut instincts. The guy who is really into u wouldn't check out other girls once he is already involved in a relationship. I think that and honesty is quite an important start in a serious relationship, if that's what ur looking for. A guy who doesn't know what he wants, yet testing the waters with u, is just a jerk with a really sweet mouth.

This post has been edited by lux: Dec 9 2008, 03:15 PM

Perhaps 2 months is abit short, no ?

Try cut off the contact from him after you find out more about him.

sure, why not.

gal, dun give in so easy.. my guy friend always grab my hand too but we r good friend.. better confront him directly.. n tell him all inside ur heart n let him know how u feel..

i'm in the mid-20s and he is in the late-20s

he was doing it without my knowledge but I suppose he realise that its easy for me to find out what he been doing. I somehow feel like he is testing out the water which is why i'm not sure if i should confront him like now.

Cause I dont wanna sound pushy. And I think maybe I should give him some time to think about it.