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Advice Wanted Should I confront, my new bf
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KirklandLee
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 Dec 9 2008, 03:01 PM
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How long you know him? What is your expectation out of this relationship? What is his expectation out of this relationship? Where do you want to go in this relationship? Have you asked all the above questions before jumping in the love boat? QUOTE(AngelOrDevil @ Dec 9 2008, 02:58 PM) Just started a new relationship with a guy. We knew each other online and last week I got to meet him in person. He confessed and I accepted. However I feel like he is not really that into me as I found out he's been checking out some other girls. I'm not sure if he think I'm the one for him which is why he is still searching. Should I ask him now? or should I wait till the relationship goes longer and see how it goes? FYI he is working at sg now, so I don't get to meet him everyday. |
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KirklandLee
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Dec 9 2008, 03:07 PM
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I'm da Master blaster man!  QUOTE(Fatimus @ Dec 9 2008, 03:05 PM)
Added on December 9, 2008, 3:08 pmI don't know much. If you don't mind me asking how old are you? or you can just give me an estimate.  QUOTE(AngelOrDevil @ Dec 9 2008, 03:05 PM) Didn't really know him long enough, like 2 months or so. Of course I'm expecting the relationship to be working out. And I thought he is serious too which I'm doubting now. |
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KirklandLee
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Dec 9 2008, 03:10 PM
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Oh...you mean you wanna get laid to huh?  QUOTE(Fatimus @ Dec 9 2008, 03:08 PM) I meant their new relationship  . |
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KirklandLee
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Dec 9 2008, 07:19 PM
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You're old enough to judge him by yourself. Just try not to be too emotional and take things easy. At least you can judge or analyse the situation rationally. I can't say 2 months is a short nor long period, like I said, you judge for yourself. You're an adult, so put on your thinking cap rationally and not emotionally. QUOTE(AngelOrDevil @ Dec 9 2008, 03:20 PM) i'm in the mid-20s and he is in the late-20s |
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KirklandLee
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Dec 10 2008, 02:37 PM
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Congrats! Take it slowly and don't be too emotional. Thats the way to go! QUOTE(AngelOrDevil @ Dec 10 2008, 01:47 PM) To clear the doubt about whether we are in a relationship, I can say yes we are and I have no doubt about that. The reason why I'm insecure also cause of his care and don't care attitude. In fact I talked with him yesterday night, of course I didn't ask him about checking out the other girls thing. I asked him if he is unsure about our relationship. And to my surprise he said "kind of" cause he not sure if I'm fully recover from my last relationship. Maybe I'm thinking too much as I'm scare to commit in this relationship. Guess I will just take it easy... |
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KirklandLee
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Dec 10 2008, 03:08 PM
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relax....take it easy...your time will come. QUOTE(myboo_1988 @ Dec 10 2008, 03:07 PM) gosh..i hope that i got gf like u...  good girl cant find good man good man cant find good girls!  |
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KirklandLee
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Dec 11 2008, 10:46 AM
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Chill guys/gals.
She made her choice and she has to accept it as it is if she wishes to be in this relationship.
Who are we to tell her what to do with her life.
Just let it be, she made her choice. Anything that happens, either good or bad, she has to bear the consequences herself.
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