Once I took my gf go cycling together thinking can have economical yet fun time. Then I race her to see who's faster. While racing, her bike tripped on a stone and she fell down, broke her neck and died. I always remember this. Sorry, I'm just talking crap here. Too bored since on leave today.

This post has been edited by exploda: Dec 1 2008, 04:46 PM

my ex paid for everything lar..sometimes even bought me sth..
i seldom pay myself wan..tehee

This is unacceptable!! It's time the role of guys and gals reversed. Guys now can give birth too.
Guys are scientifically proven to have PMS too which is called IMS. We want gals to send us flowers and chocolates too.
We also want LV and Gucci man-bag. Why can't we depend on gals and be househusband????? Guys are sensitive creatures too.......

This post has been edited by exploda: Dec 1 2008, 04:56 PM

for me, we usually divide equally, sometimes i pay, sometimes he pay.
Be a good girl, don't let him pay for everything, unless he's ur husband
Lol, if husband, then mintak macam2 la apa lagi >:)

It's all depends on the guy's financial status. If the bf is still a student what do u all expect? please be a considerate person. Unless he is working. Imagine a college/uni student uses his ptptn allowance to buy LV for girlfriend. It is just too much!

To Fujikenasai:
1k on gf? yes it is reasonable if the guys is earning > 5k per month.. ohh hold on did u just say rm1k each time dating? den i guess the guy must be earning 10k a month. But seriously how many guys below 30 are capable to earn that much?

To TS:
May i know how much your is your bf dating expenses each time? why don't you tell us your story to keep the topic hot! u seem unhappy with it.

IMO guys should spend on gf.BUT please do not forget family is more important. They are the 1 who raise you up. Don't just spend most of your salary on gf. To me, i love my gf very very much. But in the end, to me, parents>gf, parents come first in most cases. BUT please don't get me wrong, when i was with my ex, i was willing to spend on her.

This post has been edited by blackmarket: Dec 1 2008, 06:24 PM

LOL. My bf and me take turns to queue and buy tickets. We don't even think about it, one buy ticket, one queue to buy popcorn Both share share la, don't always depend too much on each other, give and take so no one will feel like he/she is taken for granted or spending too much.

This post has been edited by shecapricorn: Dec 1 2008, 10:55 PM

share share loh....some time i pay...some time he pay loh....

To spend 1K per date, I think most of the male will go find ayam to "dut", highest quality also cheaper than 1K. And only spoiled boy will spend 1K per date la, those think girls are toys, that time you cheat him 100K I also to you, but you spend 1K per date on a boy that not-so-rich but really love you, that's torture.

You try spend a guy 1K 1 date see how you feel?(I don't agree with guy measuring love with sex neither and so I too, don't agree with girl measuring love with money if that's your theory)

This post has been edited by Goliath764: Dec 2 2008, 01:06 AM

not all males want sex .... when dating.... sometimes my gf oso spent me at hawker stall.

To have a lasting relationship, i think, both the male n female should be sharing the same burden. Regardless of the wealthiness of any individual, they both should be spending the same amount of money. NOT the male pay for everything. REMEMBER! He is just you BF, NOT your HUSBAND. In my opinion, both the male and the female should be sharing and paying the expenses. Eg. Lets say you guys went for lunch, the MALE pay for it. Later, when watch movie, the FEMALE should be paying for it. SHARE THE SAME BURDEN!! NOT LET HIM SUFFER and EMPTY HIS POCKET. NOT ONLY girls want to buy things, boys do as well. So if YOU (the girl) are spending all his money, how is he gonna survive?



Spending 1k each time you go out. My god, if he's a rich guy, maybe he can still take it. If he's just a AVERAGE man, you'll juz make him bankcrupt and what next? dump him? This shows that you're GREEDY! STINGY! and IRRESPONSIBLE! you nvr think of HIM before, this shows that you're JUST PLAYING HIM.

depend of that guy how much can afford.the most important is both happy and love each other

ya wah chai i support u. if wan rich bf and can support u then find uncle that is 40 - 50 years old. haha no offense just joking.

for me ,spending 1k just for every date is no no. i could use that 1k for smth better n more worth it. don't simply waste money.

money / expenses / investment is a matter of lust as its an equal excuse.

it doesnt matter who pays it as long as both is happy spending quality time together.

what matter most is time spent together and understanding among both world.

Where r u fujkenasai?
I hate girl who love ppl pocket money, u love him or just bcs of money?
Money is important but pls think positively, if u keep spend ur bf money, how about both of urs furture? He cant save some of his pocket money, so who going to buy a house or car next time? U buy for him?

If he is still studying, he has to use his pocket money to pay all for u. U as a girl, nv think for the long distance. Just c what is just in front of u, u r just money minded n money eye.

Pls stand at ur bf side to think, what is his feeling before u do something to him. U r very selfish, just care about urself.

This post has been edited by wilson1989: Dec 2 2008, 04:22 PM

I am here wilson1989.

Well girls do not mind if their bf buys estates and shares in my name instead of useless gucci, versace and what not.

If he is studing and have a rich dad and spoiling dad it still works out doesn't it? Cars are just as useless as handbags and jewelery.

How can you say that I am really selfish when guys want sex from girls all the time girls should just get the perks in life that they deserve. Its a materialistic world, why do you think that there are so many divorce cases and single mothers around.

Its just my 2 cents, well I guess when people date they do not go to housing estate promotion places.

I also hate guys who love whats in their partner's pants rather than the person they are going out with. Just look at how the guys are behaving in Cupid's corner and the sex topics in girlsclub, all of them wants a date just to get into their pants.

This post has been edited by fujkenasai: Dec 2 2008, 06:12 PM

. Well donelah you. How i ever wish i found someone like u in my life . If i found someone like ulah, i will take care of her the best that i can. What's wrong of taking care of her the best u can, she takes care of u as well

Supporting the wife is a husband's responsibility.
Handling the husband's finances is a wife's responsibility.

So, get a good wife.

don't need uncle la.can find e sai cho (rich kid) but becareful

Ok spending 1k is abit too much, but isnt it an asia norm that the guy pays for everything on a date?