had gf that shares with me ...
had gf that were supposedly be high maintenance but never really leech anything out of me ...
had gf that expect me to pay everything ....

none works out though... probably i need someone that will PAY for me

Haha, This is hard to say who pay, I can say i prefer 50-50, but I will offer to pay 100% but my GF will know how to do "ppl" and "sometime" she will "siap" 30-70% to my pocket.

I blive it is depends on how u trust a relationship, sometime i will think , my money is her money, her money also my money. we both wont asking each other so much, and dun care so much after pay, dun think back! .

but for some reason, I agree we both pay base on salary ratio (for house, car... thos big thing),

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Added on January 25, 2009, 2:41 amnot sure ur only dun mind on " tackling girl" period else after u get her home
hope u really dun mind for rest of ur life being pokkai... (hey pal , i just joke here, dun angry)

for guys.... just "fly" the girl who really selfish on $,
for girl... just "fly" the guy who are too "kiam siap" on everything....

dun get too late and cant step back in ur life.




This post has been edited by willer: Jan 25 2009, 02:41 AM

it depends wat age are u..
if u're studying, pay by your own.. eventhough both of us is a couples..
yes, i noe it's kiam sap but wat the heck... to girls, u cant let the guys spend becoz he is using his parents money.. his parents giv him money for his daily use.. so does the girls too ...

if u're working, definately and ofcourse the guys should pay for the girls.. but not all the times... becoz girls might eventually get used to it... u might not noe >.>

Da bottom line, if da gal expects da guy 2 pay for everything from A-Z, den u can ask da gal 2 go fly kite la. Might as well ask her 2 get a 80 year old sugardaddy or just be a mistress of some wealthy hamsap ah pek n make do with it. Gals, plz dun degrade urself 2 be so.
I do look down on gals who expects their bf 2 pay for everything.

my bf pay when he has money..
i pay sometimes too..
never expect him to pay for everything.. imagine how much money that would be.. i would rather take the money go shopping and go his house dating, nonit to spend money at home.. lol..

my case is like....
for tis date, dinner is on him and movie will be on me. or vice versa
if sometimes we find something fancy, he will be most of the time the one who buys it for me...
but of course i will see when is the time or peek around his wallet first lah

do agree with willer...

as for my case, my bf normally would pay for my expenses when v go out dating...in which sometimes, i would aso share the expenses la..haha...being me paying 40% instead of 50% la..hehe...coz he earns more than me mer...

gold digger

Wow, considerate gal. Should have gotten a gf like u den I wouldn't be so poor during my Uni days.

After reading fujkenasai's posts, I decided not to get a girlfriend until I'm rich enough.

Girls: I will have sex with you if you pay me enough
Boys: I will pay you enough if you have sex with me

LOL

That fujikenasai still posting? At 1st alrdy let me screw her 99.

She really money eyes..

Y worry, ppl like dat will surely get con 1. Like wat i said, if a guy is willing 2 dump money on u, he will surely expect some other things in return, sex perhaps? Its like investment, after dumping money on a share or fund, won't u expect something back in return? Most of da time its more than wat u invest.

1k should spend every date??
wt.....
interesting topik lol..

i oways belive in this,the lesser u demand,the more you'll get;give wisely,and take wisely,happiness is just tat easy. ^^

my bf is from a wealthy family,i m not,i nvr demand,because i m not dating an atm machine,but i got more than i expect from him. although i noe he can effort to pay everythin during each of our dates but yet i insist on paying sometimes,Just work harder to get wat u wan instead of sticking out ur hand and ask for it.



This post has been edited by janelow: Jan 30 2009, 02:26 PM

when he study, we paid AA, after he is working, he paid all the dating expenses, actually is depend on his ability and as a galfriend, we should think on his side too.

Disagree with the sex part. Is not like the guy is the one that had fun , both of them are. Furthermore , guys use more energy than girls . UNFAIR for guys !!
Sometimes the girl is the one that ask for sex not the guy and some of the girls enjoy the kisses tho.

This post has been edited by Nandeska: Jan 31 2009, 07:28 PM

student here.. when dating wif gf.. i surely pay for all the bills.. jz sometimes no small change.. will ask gf to pay for a few bucks parking ticket.. we going out very recently and pocket money start to finish..
1time in sasa.. she bought 100bucks de stuff.. she asked me to pay.. but she didnt ask me be4 to pay for those stuff de..
and i also getting poor so..

i said: u serious??
gf said: yala..
i said: serious de o? i gonna pokai liao.. but u wan me pay im ok de..

den she start to angry le.. after i paid the stuff.. we go and get my car.. she pay me back the money and said she angry bcoz u are a guy.. if gal pay for the stuff the guy sure no face and not gentleman

well I don't expect him to pay when I go shopping because its my stuff.

But if we go to dinner and all that I do expect him to pay.Because then it's weird that I pay unless I know he's in a rough time. It's just certain things that I've expected from my bf.

On a rough time, we do things that no or little money consume. I think I am being considerate enough.

Sometimes, we takes turn on splurging. If he paid for dinner, then I treat him the next time.Like a free Starbucks or something like that

That's fair right ?

to make fair... both must bring same amount of money...then spend it together....solved. If both dun have same amount of money..just stop go out dating.