Mean u together with a boy that who rich?
How about if at 1st u marry a boy who rich, then let u spoil all his money? Then u divorce with him right? And go find another boy?

If his parent rich, it doesnt mean ur bf r clever. It mean ur bf depend on his parent, can ur bf depend on his parent 4ever? Ur mind r too narrow.

If u say car r just useless, then everyday time u date with ur bf, both of u willing to take public transport with pack of ppls, smell those smelly smell, pick pocket, n so on????

Sex is not all the male fault. Is bcs both side also willing to do such kind of activities then only they have their sex life.
If the boy together with u just bcs of sex, it not love, so u can choose to break up with ur bf.

What u mean is u want ur bf money, then ur bf can sex with u? R u so cheap? lol.

So many divorce case is bcs both side also dont want to step back if they fall into problem. If 1 side willing to for give or understand each other, then it will less divorce case happen. Ppls like u, will increase the divorce case.

You don't have to worry about that cause girls will automatically choose someone who can support her lifestyle, obviously they won't choose someone who can't support her lifestyle.

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Added on December 2, 2008, 6:39 pm Well I can also use the same phrase against the girl, I think a girl should spend around 1k everytime she goes on a date with his bf, cos if it hurts her pocket she would definitely remember the guy she is dating. If she loves the guy , she would spend on him.


Remember girls , if you use such ridiculous kind of argument against the guy, a guy can ALSO use the same argument against you. When that happens there's nothing you can say or get mad about , because it was your own ridiculous argument.

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Added on December 2, 2008, 6:43 pmIve seen the same for guys. Even worst cause the guy was skipping meals and borrowing money from friends to finance the gf's birthday present.


This post has been edited by Drian: Dec 2 2008, 06:43 PM

Ofcourse not money is just for insurance incase the boy does not want you and go for some 1 else then atleast you are financially stable, or much well off than he is.

How do you know that in the end if the boy is inept the wife or the girl helps his family to manage the business? Would that turn out to be a happy marriage?

People like me?
Do you know how do I normally behave or treat my friends, do not judge people just based on a few lines that they are posting online. How do you know that I am not posting all these to prove to myself that there are still people in this world that are not totally materialistic?

Isnt it the guy's role to be responsible for the female's finances as its girls that give birth and not guys and the girl that takes care of the family. Since they are naturally more caring and more protective? Thats why traditionally when ever a guy asks a girl out its the guy that pays for all the expenses?

Then don't give birth then. It's funny how girls put "giving birth" as a "contribution" to the guy, as though it's not her own child as well. Seriously if you think giving birth to your own child is satisfying your husband needs and not your own desire to have a child , then don't get pregnant.


Also using your own argument that "traditionally" guys pay for all the expenses, in that case traditionally girls must be obedient, not complain, not outspoken, do every housework in the house, must be pretty and satisfy the husband or else the husband can find a 2nd wife. If you want guys to follow the tradition , it's only fair that girls too , follow the tradition. It's as simple as that.

lols.

lyn members. cool down la. TS just asking few question. and u all elaborate until so big matter ?

If you really that good you can earn the money yourself, your demand is more than the amount you can survive, in term "lust" which every ppl will have, but you are worst.

If you don't trust him and keep your "what if" thought, how can your partner trusts you? Trusting someone that don't trust him is a no-no.

Tradionally stuff, someone posted a nice theory before me. Well, I don't really like traditional though. In ancient china big girls is beautiful but it changes. Who know 50 years later man become "houseman" and take care of housework and woman is the one that work outside.

At 1st u say u r very realistic, only want c about money or his parent money. But now u say not bcs of money.
If u only think for ur own financially problem, mean u r selfish, nv think for ur partner.

For ppls like u so selfish, will not help his family when they facing financial problem. U r the 1st person who run away from him.

Mean u alrdy admit u wrote something stupid and useless here, what u wrote here able to show what is ur characteristic. U r right, they r still a small part of ppls r not totally materialistic but u r the ppl who totally materialistic.

I really pity who is ur bf, if that boy who rich then only can be ur bf. U nth different with prostitute, just the different only u together with the same boy, when the boy no money, u go find another boy. Ur love relationship just like a cycle.

The foundation of love is trust. Money, as well as appearance, is just a side bonus.

People's desires differ and some are easier to please than the other. fuji, if you truly have to look for such qualities in a man(wealth), you better be real hot first, no pun intended.

Rich and good-looking people, both male and female have many choices. Being choosy will not bring you anywhere, that more if you belong to the average group.

What fujkenasai said , i'm strongly disagreed with him, pls la...this world many thing w/o money also can survive, as u said spend 1k for ur partner, if he/she love u , he/she won't mind, i get what u mean that, but in the side of the person spending money, u should be think, ur partner is not consider about ur situation, in LOVE, consideration and trust are very important, in ur opinion , no money no love, u may go ahead. Got money doesn't mean u happy, sometimes u give something that handmade souvenir to ur partner is happier than u give jewelery. Ur partner not LOVE ur MONEY, is ur heart. And then, i saw that u said as a guy should not let those girls spend money on their entertainment, sometimes girls are also considered about u and share the expenses, doesn't mean u cant afford it. As a man, face this problem, u have to improve and upgrade urself to seeking more job to improve ur income.

This post has been edited by Fruit: Dec 3 2008, 02:22 PM

yeah i agree with you, fujkensai ...are you having a relationship with a guy or are you having a relationship with his money? you're a joke.
ive dated with a lot of gorgeous girls u name it, italian, aussie, swedish,asians......and how i go with is always 50/50 ...even sometime the girls doesnt want
me to shout them cuz ...they think its like pride for themself, they earn money and work too...they dont feel comfortable if im paying them all.
its always never about Financial...cuz money are easy but the foundation is how much u care and love the person is. money and other things are just bonus. id rather live
with love and being broke and then having money and having a fake relationship where its based on money....theres so many girls agree with me with about that..and im still doing that tradition and im dating the most amazing , prettiest girl in the world right now. you're dating for someone you care, not about their money, theyre not ATM machine or a bank where u can just ask money.

if all girls like you, then there would be so many people arent in relationship, cuz ppl under 30, wont have much money as you stated before. and that could lead to a big problem in the long term in your relationship.

This post has been edited by hxcpride: Dec 3 2008, 03:17 PM

Hmm I think fujikenasai is making a statement, on how guys (maybe the ones that she meet) seem to take girls for granted and are actually leeching off them as opposed to the traditional practice of guys paying for all their dates' expenses...That really used to be the way! Even my mum does advice me to not pay so much out on dates, let the man take the lead. Don't flame me, but that's my parents' generation! I don't think that she believes that guys are/should be ATM machines for their partners, at least that's what I got from her posts..am I right? While it's fair for both partners to have a fair share at paying on dates, it's always nice to be treated more by our partners. It really shows they care..especially if ur date is the stingy/kiam siap one who buys nothing for himself but spends on u.

err.. did you read the first few post?

Is that the key you hit when you type this????



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I read that alright, and then I read the rest of what she wrote. And then I realized that her post u quoted was full of sarcasm. It's a statement.

Not say that you are wrong, but generation changes by time, and theory from your parents' generation will not be 100% acceptable for now.

Once you really fall in love, you will have the answer.

nowdays it's modern world.whoever ask go out also can pay together.go out together it's fun and happy.don't so count about money.

if guy ask girl go out,guy pay everything ?then girl ask guy go out ,girl pay everything?i think seldom girl will do that.

before i got 1 ex gf . when i and her go out dating , she didn't bring money even 1 cent . Go toilet 30 cent also don't have and ask from me.Treat friend better than bf.afterthat , i broke up with her.i can't tahan

different bf carry different character ...

if u are lucky enuf to get a bf that willing to spend every single cents on you, than you should thank god for that.... but some bf just don!!!

i've encounter a bf that always like to pay on my stuff which i don quite like cuz i feel that some of my stuff need to pay by myself... even i treat him a movie ticket he also don want ...

i prefer those sometimes let me treat him special gift or simple meal.. that will lighten up my mood cuz i feel that im doin something for him too ....

LOL!!! either shes really poor or shes really stingy lol.

she not really poor.her mind think go out with guys/bf,they should pay everythings