Hi people
i am a guy and recently get attached to this amazing gal of my life so i would just like to share with u guys n gals how things work between us.

During courtship.
Indeed this is a period bois mst pay most of the time...foods, movies etc... Evenso i doesnt means that u must bring her to luxury restaurant of buy her expensive presents as long u put effort , gals can c ! trust me  . But during this period pls NONO to MAMAK ! 

Being together.
After being official things of course must b made more clear. The fact that i am stil a college student n my parents doesnt gv me extra pocket just because im dating =/, financially it mst b made clear to her orelse with b a burden espeialy for guys just like sum1 posted here that his/her frd hav to lend money from others n skip his own meal jst to buy her presents ,its just pathetic.

So now, sumtimes we split for our meal or pay subsequently. As for movies, the casual im getting tic she wil get the popcorns. The facts that gals dont eat hawker foods is rubbish but just make sure the place is of hygiene(important!) . The other way i propose to u guys n gals out ther is that sumtime u can play cooking together its fun + nt dat expensive regardles whether the foods turn out eatable or nt ....LOL

Sex
after reading the earlier post i must make a stand here, boys are not treating u gals like a sex toy ! for RM 1k to pamper u and buy u gifts just to hope to end up in bed with u?! Who does nt agree more dat getting a 20++ old prostitution hot blonde gal with bigger assets than yours is cheaper? Being virgin or not when u knw her is no longer a issue in this century. Sex is a together thingy , so if u gals insist ur not prepare then tel him BEFORE n not AFTER...if he force u to do it then , u hav the right to sue him for rape since ther is no consent.

So my verdict is b flexible la , the golden word is always sharing is caring ma ~ 

eg:
guy: wat to eat?
girl: dunno..
guy: faster thinkla...hungry..*groo groo*
girl: ermm ermm...lets go eat tgi fridays..
guy: waaa expensive leh...
girl: nvm nvm i pay today...

next day
guy: wat to eat?
girl: dunno..
guy: hhmmm...i feel like eating sushi...lets go zanmai...
girl: ok
after meal guy foots the bill without concern...

next day
guy: wat to eat?
girl: dunno...
guy: hhmm...we go home cook together eatla...save money...
girl: ok...
and they live happily ever after...

and yes it does happen, but rarely...after hearing many girls comments in this thread...lol no offence girls