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fujkenasai
post Dec 1 2008, 11:58 AM

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I think a boy should spend around 1k every time he goes on a date with his gf, cos if it hurts his pocket he would definitely remember the girl that he is dating. If he loves the girl he would spend on her.
fujkenasai
post Dec 1 2008, 12:35 PM

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QUOTE(ubsacc2004 @ Dec 1 2008, 12:08 PM)
wow fujikenasai i dun agree with u.  why must measure a dating with money ? not fair for male.
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QUOTE(Cybuster @ Dec 1 2008, 12:12 PM)
wasai. Y dun u go and get a ATM machine! As u this kind so money face 1day u sure give some 1 play u til chia lat chia lat 1 . People wan is love and love is tolerate each other n care each other. Urs not.
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These days you guys also what ask the girls if you love me you must let me kiss you here and there. If you really love me we should have sex. Then if guys measure love with sex, why not girls measure love with money.
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post Dec 1 2008, 12:48 PM

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QUOTE(shahrumm @ Dec 1 2008, 12:36 PM)
hahaha..good one..but for making love(sex) i prefer making love..lol..it takes two party to tango..u cant blame all the guys for the wrong doing too..
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I guess when the girl is being pressured by the guy the girl gives in as they really love the boy, so I guess girls should pressure the boy to buy them Lui vuitton and versace hand bags jewelry and stuff.

Well its a supply and demand and a materialistic world, you do not survive from love, and would not reproduce from loving each other so its a as you say give and take situation.
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post Dec 1 2008, 02:39 PM

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QUOTE(meez_titie @ Dec 1 2008, 01:29 PM)
your bf must be a millionnaire then... to shower you with all the gifts in the world  cool2.gif

jo3ystory, why must quarrel with your bf on expenses? to me, in this modern world we women should be more tolerant in terms of money. there's no longer if he's a man he should pay for everything. sharing is caring... why not take turns to pay the bills and buy prezzies for each other. money is actually a highly sensitive subject to talk about so no need to talk and even complaint about it often. better learn to understand each other more.
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So you are saying that when people are dating they should just keep quiet and pay for the bf everytime? rolleyes.gif
Like if everytime his pocket is empty the girl should pay for all the expenses watch movie, petrol fuel, food, sing k, pool etc? I hate guys that goes out with their pocket empty. vmad.gif vmad.gif mad.gif mad.gif
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post Dec 1 2008, 02:49 PM

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QUOTE(exploda @ Dec 1 2008, 02:47 PM)
It's time for us guys to make a stand. Next time when we guys go dating, let the gf pay.
Let them pick us up from our hse. Let them go cue up to buy tickets and popcorn for us.
Let them pay for our shopping expenses. Huhuhuhuhuhu  tongue.gif
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Good luck in getting a gf or getting a gf to stay. tongue.gif
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post Dec 1 2008, 04:02 PM

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QUOTE(meez_titie @ Dec 1 2008, 03:41 PM)
don't be furious fujkenasai and don't get me wrong too. no need to pay everytime. nobody wants to go out with an empty-pocket guy. only that why don't have some gives and takes? like if he pays for the tickets, u buy the popcorns, etc.
u know.... paying is another thing and buying you louis vuitton is what? that's why i said your bf must've been a millionnaire for u to get all that  notworthy.gif
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Im not furious at you just furious that everytime I go out with these leech their pocket is empty. vmad.gif vmad.gif

I agree with you on guy paying for tickets girls paying for popcorn.
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post Dec 2 2008, 04:34 PM

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QUOTE(wilson1989 @ Dec 2 2008, 04:21 PM)
Where r u fujkenasai?
I hate girl who love ppl pocket money, u love him or just bcs of money?
Money is important but pls think positively, if u keep spend ur bf money, how about both of urs furture? He cant save some of his pocket money, so who going to buy a house or car next time? U buy for him?

If he is still studying, he has to use his pocket money to pay all for u. U as a girl, nv think for the long distance. Just c what is just in front of u, u r just money minded n money eye.

Pls stand at ur bf side to think, what is his feeling before u do something to him. U r very selfish, just care about urself.
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I am here wilson1989. laugh.gif

Well girls do not mind if their bf buys estates and shares in my name instead of useless gucci, versace and what not.

If he is studing and have a rich dad and spoiling dad it still works out doesn't it? Cars are just as useless as handbags and jewelery.

How can you say that I am really selfish when guys want sex from girls all the time girls should just get the perks in life that they deserve. Its a materialistic world, why do you think that there are so many divorce cases and single mothers around.

Its just my 2 cents, well I guess when people date they do not go to housing estate promotion places.

I also hate guys who love whats in their partner's pants rather than the person they are going out with. Just look at how the guys are behaving in Cupid's corner and the sex topics in girlsclub, all of them wants a date just to get into their pants.

This post has been edited by fujkenasai: Dec 2 2008, 06:12 PM
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post Dec 2 2008, 06:16 PM

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QUOTE(chongkeong @ Dec 2 2008, 12:02 PM)
To have a lasting relationship, i think, both the male n female should be sharing the same burden. Regardless of the wealthiness of any individual, they both should be spending the same amount of money. NOT the male pay for everything. REMEMBER! He is just you BF, NOT your HUSBAND. In my opinion, both the male and the female should be sharing and paying the expenses. Eg. Lets say you guys went for lunch, the MALE pay for it. Later, when watch movie, the FEMALE should be paying for it. SHARE THE SAME BURDEN!! NOT LET HIM SUFFER and EMPTY HIS POCKET. NOT ONLY girls want to buy things, boys do as well. So if YOU (the girl) are spending all his money, how is he gonna survive?
Spending 1k each time you go out. My god, if he's a rich guy, maybe he can still take it. If he's just a AVERAGE man, you'll juz make him bankcrupt and what next? dump him? This shows that you're GREEDY! STINGY! and IRRESPONSIBLE!  you nvr think of HIM before, this shows that you're JUST PLAYING HIM.
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Ok spending 1k is abit too much, but isnt it an asia norm that the guy pays for everything on a date? hmm.gif
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post Dec 2 2008, 07:00 PM

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QUOTE(wilson1989 @ Dec 2 2008, 06:30 PM)
Mean u together with a boy that who rich?
How about if at 1st u marry a boy who rich, then let u spoil all his money? Then u divorce with him right? And go find another boy?

If his parent rich, it doesnt mean ur bf r clever. It mean ur bf depend on his parent, can ur bf depend on his parent 4ever? Ur mind r too narrow.

If u say car r just useless, then everyday time u date with ur bf, both of u willing to take public transport with pack of ppls, smell those smelly smell, pick pocket, n so on???? 

Sex is not all the male fault. Is bcs both side also willing to do such kind of activities then only they have their sex life.
If the boy together with u just bcs of sex, it not love, so u can choose to break up with ur bf.

What u mean is u want ur bf money, then ur bf can sex with u? R u so cheap? lol.

So many divorce case is bcs both side also dont want to step back if they fall into problem. If 1 side willing to for give or understand each other, then it will less divorce case happen. Ppls like u, will increase the divorce case.
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Ofcourse not money is just for insurance incase the boy does not want you and go for some 1 else then atleast you are financially stable, or much well off than he is.

How do you know that in the end if the boy is inept the wife or the girl helps his family to manage the business? Would that turn out to be a happy marriage?

People like me? hmm.gif
Do you know how do I normally behave or treat my friends, do not judge people just based on a few lines that they are posting online. How do you know that I am not posting all these to prove to myself that there are still people in this world that are not totally materialistic?

QUOTE(Drian @ Dec 2 2008, 06:34 PM)
You don't have to worry about that cause girls will automatically choose someone who can support her lifestyle, obviously they won't choose someone who can't support her lifestyle.


Added on December 2, 2008, 6:39 pm
  Well I can also use the same phrase against the girl,  I think a girl should spend around 1k everytime she goes on a date with his bf, cos if it hurts her pocket she would definitely remember the guy she is dating. If she loves the guy , she would spend on him.
  Remember girls , if you use such ridiculous kind of argument against the guy, a guy can ALSO use the same argument against you. When that happens there's nothing you can say or get mad about , because it was your own ridiculous argument.


Added on December 2, 2008, 6:43 pm
Ive seen the same for guys. Even worst cause the guy was skipping meals and borrowing money from friends to finance the gf's birthday present.
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Isnt it the guy's role to be responsible for the female's finances as its girls that give birth and not guys and the girl that takes care of the family. Since they are naturally more caring and more protective? Thats why traditionally when ever a guy asks a girl out its the guy that pays for all the expenses?


 

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