hey gals there..i have a problem here that i always quarrel with my bf about our expenses ..
how u guys bf spend on u all?

Now he is my ex ad, last time he paid for our date expenses, but sOmetime i would paid for it too.. depend la, if expensive then i paid myself lor.~

I think a boy should spend around 1k every time he goes on a date with his gf, cos if it hurts his pocket he would definitely remember the girl that he is dating. If he loves the girl he would spend on her.

wow fujikenasai i dun agree with u. why must measure a dating with money ? not fair for male.

U should start with yours 1st...

wasai. Y dun u go and get a ATM machine! As u this kind so money face 1day u sure give some 1 play u til chia lat chia lat 1 . People wan is love and love is tolerate each other n care each other. Urs not.

These days you guys also what ask the girls if you love me you must let me kiss you here and there. If you really love me we should have sex. Then if guys measure love with sex, why not girls measure love with money.

hahaha..good one..but for making love(sex) i prefer making love..lol..it takes two party to tango..u cant blame all the guys for the wrong doing too..

I guess when the girl is being pressured by the guy the girl gives in as they really love the boy, so I guess girls should pressure the boy to buy them Lui vuitton and versace hand bags jewelry and stuff.

Well its a supply and demand and a materialistic world, you do not survive from love, and would not reproduce from loving each other so its a as you say give and take situation.

your bf must be a millionnaire then... to shower you with all the gifts in the world

jo3ystory, why must quarrel with your bf on expenses? to me, in this modern world we women should be more tolerant in terms of money. there's no longer if he's a man he should pay for everything. sharing is caring... why not take turns to pay the bills and buy prezzies for each other. money is actually a highly sensitive subject to talk about so no need to talk and even complaint about it often. better learn to understand each other more.

So you are saying that when people are dating they should just keep quiet and pay for the bf everytime?
Like if everytime his pocket is empty the girl should pay for all the expenses watch movie, petrol fuel, food, sing k, pool etc? I hate guys that goes out with their pocket empty.

It's time for us guys to make a stand. Next time when we guys go dating, let the gf pay.
Let them pick us up from our hse. Let them go cue up to buy tickets and popcorn for us.
Let them pay for our shopping expenses. Huhuhuhuhuhu

Good luck in getting a gf or getting a gf to stay.

you can't have you cake and eat it all the time.

what the heck, what if your bf is still a student and come from an average family?!

TS, there must be a reason why your bf talk about the dating expenses, does he have financial problem now? or he might want to save more money. you have to find out the reason WHY cant he afford the expenses. instead of complaining, you should question yourself more. It's your relationship, you have to work for it.

This post has been edited by Gravity: Dec 1 2008, 03:41 PM

don't be furious fujkenasai and don't get me wrong too. no need to pay everytime. nobody wants to go out with an empty-pocket guy. only that why don't have some gives and takes? like if he pays for the tickets, u buy the popcorns, etc.
u know.... paying is another thing and buying you louis vuitton is what? that's why i said your bf must've been a millionnaire for u to get all that

expenses? dating? dont call that expenses.

i think 'investment' is more appropriate. because u dont know whether ended up with her or not

but if u are a bit thick and cheap, why not do something does not involve big amount money but fun and momentous. there are alot of things dont need big money what. and at the same time, both of u are very happy and will remember those moments even after u both no longer an item..

well, apart from sex la..

Im not furious at you just furious that everytime I go out with these leech their pocket is empty.

I agree with you on guy paying for tickets girls paying for popcorn.

Huhuhuhuhu, slipper rice oni......I think must be delicious altho I have not try before. Hahahha.
But seriously, I know this friend of mine, stay with gf. Almost everything also the gf pay. House rent, utility bills, entertainment. Everytime oso take money from gf. I have stop my frenship with that guy.

that's horrible!