buaya detected..

i couldnt help it, i just have a sudden urge...

when her gf came downstairs...

well at least, i had the courtesy to ask her whether she wanted to join in?

This post has been edited by aurora97: Nov 2 2008, 03:21 PM

huh... i tot girl like to spend male money

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Added on November 2, 2008, 3:12 pmTS very leng lui ?

This post has been edited by littlegreen: Nov 2 2008, 03:12 PM

Ever consider maybe it's not the guy's problem?

90% of the population will put the blame on other people when it comes to a problem.

Just my opinion.

u noty..

not all girls are like tht, mind you..

dunno oh.. lol.. maybe?

no prawn, you can always settle with fish, no?
LOL

Exactly my thoughts! Strongly agree with you. Especially on the part on how some girls give sex so easily, so willing to give their bodies up for a rich man, because she needs him as an ATM machine.

I don't think those requirements are high, it's not wrong to demand provided the requirements are reachable. I'm not looking for perfection (as you quoted), but one who treats and respects girls as human. No I'm not materialistic, I'm not one of those girls who trade sex for money. I look down on girls who do this, there's no excuse and they simply stand on the same line as prostitutes. I'm fully capable in providing for my own financial needs, and again that becomes a problem because some guys cannot stand having their girls earning more than him or being more successful than him. Male ego at work perhaps?

As I'm typing here, I'm also not saying that girls can just sit down and shake legs. Girls too should develop themselves as someone worthy of being a good man's wife.

I don't think that's necessary. I know what my looks are capable of, and it's none of your business. While I'm fully aware of the "buaya culture" in LYN forums, I refuse to just be viewed as a "fappable" object.

miss ace.princess, im sure many guys here wouldnt mind u paying the bills.. nor will they view u as "fappable" object. they would rather look at porn stars or taiwan girls. there are also many guys who are willing to care for you and treat you nicely. i just dont get why u cant find any?

Seems like you only chose to reply to the posts which appeared to coincide with your sentiments. What a revelation.

woot

we know..


@ ts: plenty of good guys out there... reason why you haven't meet one is simply because you're not good enough for them.. simple as that..

Exactly. She's fully aware of male's ego and pride but unaware of hers.

If you read my question carefully, did I say I couldn't find a good guy? I only said the process of finding one is hard.
It's a wonder how pre-conceived perceptions affect the way people think.

process of finding one is hard = still cannot find any = whine here... no?

Lol got pwnt.

maybe she is looking for "100%" perfect guy, lolx....

everyone has their weakness!

The answer to ur question boils down to proportions. In any population, there is a huge variety of guys. It takes a lot of effort to become a "GOOD" guy. That means the number of GREAT guys is rather limited, while you run-of-the-mill average joe will be the majority. The same goes for girls.

Despite what girls say they want, ultimately, what one girl finds desirable others will find desirable too. Which is why the best straight guys are usually either married or attached. You want something good, you work towards it. No point whining here in the forums. Everyone has the right to set criteria for their potential partners, but with that must come the realization that the more rigid the criteria set, the more difficult they are to achieve, just like any other goal in life.
And love is not always about 'requirements'. When it happens, it happens. The more restrictions u set upon yourself, the less likely you are to find your soulmate. He may be smart, rich, handsome and all that, but the chemistry may not be there. Think about it.

Good guy is left beside, bad guy take the opportunity/chances.

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Added on November 2, 2008, 6:13 pmThe bad guy always make the good guy look as bad as him. And the gurl believes.

This post has been edited by N's: Nov 2 2008, 06:14 PM

"He may be smart, rich, handsome and all that, but the chemistry may not be there."

i like this... ^

lack of chemistry so put more effort in working harder on that... lolxx... talk is easy doing it is hard... haha...

My high as in "higher than something u should satisfy with". Im not trying to say u are looking for a perfect one, but for guys, girls with such thinking are looking for someone who is very perfect.

Saying materialistic is not bout trade sex for money, its bout treat 'things' more important than 'love', which mean (for example) need a guy who are successful in career, understanding and respect/take care woman and so on rather than someone u love/he love u but below the requirement.

Well if u really think u able to be independent, not relying in guys financial/so on, have the skill for a good wife (or at least a wife) and able to do it, u got my respect. lol