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aurora97
post Nov 2 2008, 02:27 AM

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QUOTE(ace.princess @ Nov 2 2008, 01:51 AM)
As a modern girl who chases after big ambitions and aspirations, we find it increasingly harder to look for suitable soul mates to spend the rest of our lives with. A typical modern KL girl usually finds dating hard, when out of 10 guys:
- 4 would be intimidated of a woman's career success.
- 3 would be playboys only out looking for sex and one night stands.
- 2 would totally fail at taking care of the woman's needs.

And only 1 out of 10 guys may match well with the woman and have each other's needs fulfilled. He's not intimidated by her success and independence, and ready to commit and spend the rest of his life with this woman.

I wonder how do you girls cope with this situation? And what do guys think of this? And I would say, for those girls who have found that loving '1 out of 10' guy, you gotta feel really lucky.
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it all boils down where u find ur man, i think gals this day invest to much time loving so hard a man rather than getting to know what trouble they r gettin into.

I am not saying loving a person is bad, but i feel that gals literally saying, jump into the whole thing as though they r sure they got a guy whose Good Guy & husband worthy material.

instead they got a piece of ply wood.

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post Nov 2 2008, 02:36 AM

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i need a whose whose more successful & pay bills.. n i can sit in sofa everyday watch tv and provide life's daily pleasure to my woman...!

After got children than my turn to work
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post Nov 2 2008, 02:54 AM

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QUOTE(yingjee @ Nov 2 2008, 02:51 AM)
geez woman.. stop complaining or you'll end up being a nun. so tell me.. what are your 'requirements' for a 'good guy'? one who isnt intimidated by you.. doesnt want to have sex with you.. and bows to your every command?
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i will be the first one to volunteer, if any woman out there wants me to be my sugar mommy..
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post Nov 2 2008, 02:57 AM

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QUOTE(yingjee @ Nov 2 2008, 02:55 AM)
find the lonely old ladies smile.gif
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havent come across any men who are "Bao" by anyone yet, if any do recommend any aunties my door is always open.
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post Nov 2 2008, 03:02 AM

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QUOTE(mych @ Nov 2 2008, 03:01 AM)
Is hard to find a nice girl as well... seriously contemplating being a monk..
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ohhh there now, u can always join me in my quest to be "Bao" by older woman
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post Nov 2 2008, 03:05 AM

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QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:03 AM)
yea ~ same here  icon_rolleyes.gif 
with condition if i cnt find my mate at age of 30~ after 30 den tats it smile.gif
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rest assured u wont find one MUAHAHAHAHAH
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post Nov 2 2008, 03:08 AM

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QUOTE(yingjee @ Nov 2 2008, 03:05 AM)
laugh.gif did u say "Bao"?
u give up too fast smile.gif at 30, u r only reaching the best part of your life! (i hope darklight will elaborate on this)


Added on November 2, 2008, 3:05 am
ehhh.. dun la pour cold water on ppl.. hahah.. or isit u wanna crush his confidence so u have a better chance? xD
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is that a challenge yinjee?

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post Nov 2 2008, 03:14 AM

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QUOTE(yingjee @ Nov 2 2008, 03:12 AM)
blink.gif u wanna hold competition with sun?
be smart when choosing the girl lo..
eh.. there are still plenty of single girls.. dunnit to spanar geh.. hahaha..
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no no no... not just with Sun, i will take u both head on...

whats on the table btw?
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QUOTE(mych @ Nov 2 2008, 03:12 AM)
do some charity ler.. feed hungry girls
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the last one i fed, stil die of hunger.. cause the money i gave... her she got an LV handbag instead

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post Nov 2 2008, 12:35 PM

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i knew this girl since I was in A level, at first we always argue over each other and hated each others guts(on a friendly level though).

few yrs pass we met again went out clubbin etc...

than she admitted that she had feelings for me, i open doors, drive her home even though her house is like in kepong and my house is in puchong... omfg so F-ing far, treat her to nice food, movie.. and she said I was like a gentleman to her.

But than again, she said I did the same thing to all the girls I know and treat them equally! than on top of that at first she thought I was GAY, cause I was too good of a guy to do all those Kind of things i mentioned above.

We never clicked anyway, gave her a hug, kiss on the cheek and parted ways. (apprenetly that time when she admitted her feelins she already got bf)

Guess good guys in this world are either dead, gay or misunderstood.

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post Nov 2 2008, 12:59 PM

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 12:52 PM)
i guess different people had different mentality depends on how thier upbringing is, but one thing for sure is mostly humans just like to complain what goes wrong with others but not themselves, if not there wouldn't be much "where is the good guy or good girl" thread lulz

relationship is about reevaluating ourself too, where our mentality stands, whether it is correct or not, discover new things and be a better person, cheers =P
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well point taken...

anyway she still thinks i am gay until today.
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post Nov 2 2008, 01:33 PM

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 01:10 PM)
hahaha i assume aurora97 didn't do enough to prove her wrong tongue.gif, anyway it doesn't matter anyway lulz

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hey sexy wanna come out for a date, u can ride shot gun in my car... n we can have pillow fights in my house wub.gif
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post Nov 2 2008, 01:38 PM

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QUOTE(yingjee @ Nov 2 2008, 01:35 PM)

not gay enuf.. u forgot the candles and rose petals
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thats only for straight ppl ya know...

gay men use hancuff n vaseline i tell u they make wonders!
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post Nov 2 2008, 02:23 PM

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Opps i did it again...

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/685618
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post Nov 2 2008, 02:46 PM

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QUOTE(yingjee @ Nov 2 2008, 02:28 PM)
u kissed the poor girls bf?
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i couldnt help it, i just have a sudden urge...

when her gf came downstairs...

well at least, i had the courtesy to ask her whether she wanted to join in?

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