QUOTE(MeruChan @ Nov 2 2008, 12:46 PM)
ooowhh..now u make me headache!
i wan go chung bak bak
Go pom pom lar..... Hahahai wan go chung bak bak
Why is it so hard to find a good guy nowadays?
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Nov 2 2008, 12:52 PM
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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 12:35 PM) i knew this girl since I was in A level, at first we always argue over each other and hated each others guts(on a friendly level though). i guess different people had different mentality depends on how thier upbringing is, but one thing for sure is mostly humans just like to complain what goes wrong with others but not themselves, if not there wouldn't be much "where is the good guy or good girl" thread lulzfew yrs pass we met again went out clubbin etc... than she admitted that she had feelings for me, i open doors, drive her home even though her house is like in kepong and my house is in puchong... omfg so F-ing far, treat her to nice food, movie.. and she said I was like a gentleman to her. But than again, she said I did the same thing to all the girls I know and treat them equally! than on top of that at first she thought I was GAY, cause I was too good of a guy to do all those Kind of things i mentioned above. We never clicked anyway, gave her a hug, kiss on the cheek and parted ways. (apprenetly that time when she admitted her feelins she already got bf) Guess good guys in this world are either dead, gay or misunderstood. relationship is about reevaluating ourself too, where our mentality stands, whether it is correct or not, discover new things and be a better person, cheers =P This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Nov 2 2008, 12:54 PM |
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Nov 2 2008, 12:58 PM
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Gal are blind.....
Guy who is good canot be see through eyes..... but can only feel with heart  |
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Nov 2 2008, 12:59 PM
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 12:52 PM) i guess different people had different mentality depends on how thier upbringing is, but one thing for sure is mostly humans just like to complain what goes wrong with others but not themselves, if not there wouldn't be much "where is the good guy or good girl" thread lulz well point taken...relationship is about reevaluating ourself too, where our mentality stands, whether it is correct or not, discover new things and be a better person, cheers =P anyway she still thinks i am gay until today. |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:03 PM
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because good guy is not hensome as the girl taste...
so they didnt want that guy to be her bf... so they lost the good guy... |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:04 PM
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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 12:59 PM) well point taken... what's the thing that make her think that you're one ? because you treat every girls with care, if that the case then she prolly got screwed hard by reality, else prove her wrong, cheers =Panyway she still thinks i am gay until today. |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:05 PM
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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 12:35 PM) i knew this girl since I was in A level, at first we always argue over each other and hated each others guts(on a friendly level though). dam.. few yrs pass we met again went out clubbin etc... than she admitted that she had feelings for me, i open doors, drive her home even though her house is like in kepong and my house is in puchong... omfg so F-ing far, treat her to nice food, movie.. and she said I was like a gentleman to her. But than again, she said I did the same thing to all the girls I know and treat them equally! than on top of that at first she thought I was GAY, cause I was too good of a guy to do all those Kind of things i mentioned above. We never clicked anyway, gave her a hug, kiss on the cheek and parted ways. (apprenetly that time when she admitted her feelins she already got bf) Guess good guys in this world are either dead, gay or misunderstood.  she wasnt smart enough to appreciate you.. thats all.. im sure you'll find a girl/woman who does one day  Added on November 2, 2008, 1:06 pm QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 01:04 PM) what's the thing that make her think that you're one ? because you treat every girls with care, if that the case then she prolly got screwed hard by reality, else prove her wrong, cheers =P y bother proving her wrong? she probably knows and she could be a player whatever the answer is.. being gay or not, she's still taken and inconsiderate IMOThis post has been edited by yingjee: Nov 2 2008, 01:06 PM |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:07 PM
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QUOTE(skyzero @ Nov 2 2008, 01:03 PM) because good guy is not hensome as the girl taste... you think in this world only handsome guys can get chicks meh so they didnt want that guy to be her bf... so they lost the good guy...  ? it's true that they got the upper hand in the first hand, but relationship is not about how it starts, it's about how long you can maintain it =P |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:10 PM
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QUOTE(yingjee @ Nov 2 2008, 01:05 PM) y bother proving her wrong? she probably knows and she could be a player hahaha i assume aurora97 didn't do enough to prove her wrong whatever the answer is.. being gay or not, she's still taken and inconsiderate IMO , anyway it doesn't matter anyway lulzwhy are you here ? no date with darklight =P ? |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:13 PM
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 01:10 PM) hahaha i assume aurora97 didn't do enough to prove her wrong some girls just think tht nice guy/gentleman = gay lol.. what crooked thinking, anyway it doesn't matter anyway lulzwhy are you here ? no date with darklight =P ? just woke up an hour ago Added on November 2, 2008, 1:14 pmhence, many guys want to become 'macho' and act like a jerk to avoid being called a gay This post has been edited by yingjee: Nov 2 2008, 01:14 PM |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:18 PM
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QUOTE(yingjee @ Nov 2 2008, 01:13 PM) some girls just think tht nice guy/gentleman = gay lol.. what crooked thinking this late ? what you do yesterday =O ?just woke up an hour ago hence, many guys want to become 'macho' and act like a jerk to avoid being called a gay hence, many girls going ducth to avoid being called gold digger lulz no matter how much girls and guys complain about each other, they still need each other |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:24 PM
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 01:18 PM) this late ? what you do yesterday =O ? secret hence, many girls going ducth to avoid being called gold digger lulz no matter how much girls and guys complain about each other, they still need each other  lol.. i dont go dutch for tht reason.. i feel bad using a guy's money.. ill rather pay for myself. eat aso feel more.. 'on lok' <-- i cant figure out tht word lol one day humans will evolve to reproduce asexually due to the fact tht they cant stand each other This post has been edited by yingjee: Nov 2 2008, 01:24 PM |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:25 PM
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so in conclusion all nice guys are gay
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Nov 2 2008, 01:25 PM
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QUOTE(dazzywazzy @ Nov 2 2008, 01:25 PM) so in conclusion all nice guys are gay oh shi-.. u must be gay |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:27 PM
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i guess so
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Nov 2 2008, 01:30 PM
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QUOTE Simple. You aren't good enough for good (from your statement) guys and you aren't attractive enough to be with a good guy. I always love to joke around good guys are always hiding, but the truth is they aren't hiding at all. They are very active as well in the society together with those bad ones. They as well, are looking for their best options out there, same as you. And if you can't attract them, then don't blame the whole male society for lacking good men. Because at the end of the day, the fingers are pointing back to you. Found the best answer.Now, i don't think so we are going to define nor differentiate between a good guy and a bad guy. It is very very subjective and grey area does exist between them but as long you are clear with what you want in a man, then focus on it. Generalize them into category that fits your choices just like you wrote in your first post or the above and go out and attract them. I don't know how you going to hunt them, but keep it to yourself because it is less important for us to know. But maybe before you hunt for them, might as well take a look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself are you a good girl too? Can you handle such guys? Moreover, there is no saying being with a good guy provide a long lasting relationship. That's hypothetical BS. I've seen people with bad partners but still they go strong. Remember, it depends on whether it works or it doesn't work, which implies to how both you and your partner work it together. I often heard gals say, "those guy dont match with me", i would like to get the answer from them "Are u qualify to be with those guys and reason?". From TS statement i oni see she wanting somebody who is success in career, treat and respect woman as human, no-sex-object thinking and so on, as long as it treat the girl almost to perfect. Well, guys not born for gals, guys success or not, understand woman needs or not or bla bla bla, also not related to be a 'good guy' o not. Again, what if u found out that there is nothing imperfect in him? If he career is not very successful? If he not very understand in woman? If he is a normal man that need sex? Girl, no one in this world is perfect, we are human, we imperfect for a reason. If u looking for perfect loving and rich guys like those taiwan drama one, just watch all the taiwan drama over and over again in ur room and dont go look for for guys, cause u not treating them as human, u just trying force someone who is good to be with u and satisfy ur desire. For girls u sure always heard bout guys dump girls then go for another one or other bad story, but i bet u do heard bout girls dump guy then go for another one and other bad story as well, so please dont keep on saying like girls demand is nothing wrong as guy more worse, its sama-sama situation here. Same goes to sex. Do u ever heard of girls got knock-out after having sex? No boh, oni guys will get KO. If the girls is not enjoying it then it is known as rape, else dont sounds like guys enjoy it all while woman have to suffer. Girls always demand for better sex also. |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:33 PM
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whoa..lucky me..im not gay..
anyway im new n read from the 1st page..interesting topic.. good or bad can be changed one..if gal got bad guy as partner then show him how to be good..then that guy can be good one.. but not to me...im quite mean to gal.. |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:33 PM
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 01:10 PM) hahaha i assume aurora97 didn't do enough to prove her wrong hey sexy wanna come out for a date, u can ride shot gun in my car... n we can have pillow fights in my house , anyway it doesn't matter anyway lulz |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:35 PM
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QUOTE(badbigboys @ Nov 2 2008, 01:33 PM) whoa..lucky me..im not gay.. u trying to act macho? anyway im new n read from the 1st page..interesting topic.. good or bad can be changed one..if gal got bad guy as partner then show him how to be good..then that guy can be good one.. but not to me...im quite mean to gal.. believe me.. when u meet THE ONE (lol) u will cahnge slightly without realising itQUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 01:33 PM) hey sexy wanna come out for a date, u can ride shot gun in my car... n we can have pillow fights in my house not gay enuf.. u forgot the candles and rose petals |
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Nov 2 2008, 01:37 PM
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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 01:33 PM) hey sexy wanna come out for a date, u can ride shot gun in my car... n we can have pillow fights in my house you want to prove anything do it in real life, else pic or gtfo |
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