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post Nov 2 2008, 02:51 AM

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geez woman.. stop complaining or you'll end up being a nun. so tell me.. what are your 'requirements' for a 'good guy'? one who isnt intimidated by you.. doesnt want to have sex with you.. and bows to your every command?


Added on November 2, 2008, 2:54 am
QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ Nov 2 2008, 01:54 AM)
1st, where did you get those stats from?
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well.. she dated 10 guys.. 4 were intimidated by her career.. 3 only wanted to f*** her.. and 2 more werent gentleman enough for her.. the remaining one leh.. dumped her smile.gif

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post Nov 2 2008, 02:55 AM

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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 02:54 AM)
i will be the first one to volunteer, if any woman out there wants me to be my sugar mommy..
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find the lonely old ladies smile.gif
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post Nov 2 2008, 02:59 AM

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QUOTE(aragorn.yoong @ Nov 2 2008, 02:58 AM)
Wow you're so sure and confident, unless....

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They seem to match!  tongue.gif
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wow! they seem to match too! ta-da! TS you have found your compatible soulmate


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QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 02:58 AM)
old ladies ! ! ! ... ...  blink.gif  blink.gif  blink.gif  ewww.... doh.gif
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ahahaha.. rich ones yea.. so they can pay u using their hubby's money... biggrin.gif

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post Nov 2 2008, 03:01 AM

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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:00 AM)
ah~ too bad, she needs a bigger sample.
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due to her nature.. there wasnt a chance sleep.gif
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post Nov 2 2008, 03:05 AM

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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:02 AM)
ohhh there now, u can always join me in my quest to be "Bao" by older woman
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laugh.gif did u say "Bao"?

QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:03 AM)
yea ~ same here  icon_rolleyes.gif 
with condition if i cnt find my mate at age of 30~ after 30 den tats it smile.gif
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u give up too fast smile.gif at 30, u r only reaching the best part of your life! (i hope darklight will elaborate on this)


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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:05 AM)
rest assured u wont find one MUAHAHAHAHAH
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ehhh.. dun la pour cold water on ppl.. hahah.. or isit u wanna crush his confidence so u have a better chance? xD

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post Nov 2 2008, 03:12 AM

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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:08 AM)
is that a challenge yinjee?
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blink.gif u wanna hold competition with sun?

QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:08 AM)
30, best part, tats y la ~ den when there is the best part, girls coming to me wont be any good things, mata duitan  brows.gif  brows.gif  n money come 1st ... den better dun wan.

btw im nt tat no confidence, a very good competitor, jz i dun wan spana other ppl only  tongue.gif
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be smart when choosing the girl lo..
eh.. there are still plenty of single girls.. dunnit to spanar geh.. hahaha..
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post Nov 2 2008, 03:17 AM

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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:14 AM)
no no no...  not just with Sun, i will take u both head on...

whats on the table btw?
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har? u wanna challenge me? im not interested in pikating girls.. lols im not lesbian sweat.gif

QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:14 AM)
competition to get "PAO" ?? ... tak mo lah ~ haha

im being quite smart when choosing, jalan supermarket also turn 2 round at least. wan buy thing den compare price 1st ~ but den tats y i still single ~ hahaha
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hahahaha! walk 2 rounds? geng.. ill be so tired after 1 round of carrefour.. want walk 2 rounds sumore?

QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:14 AM)
the last one i fed, stil die of hunger.. cause the money i gave... her she got an LV handbag instead
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LOL!
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post Nov 2 2008, 03:21 AM

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QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:20 AM)
2 round nt a problem at all ... bcoz normally i window shopping alone. if with frens ... uh ... sure cnt one. tat time i better keep quiet. later they aim me to push me buy something.
midvalley one round (all floors) quite tired one ... but i at melaka walk DP(dataran pahlawan) n MP(mahkota parate), tak ada rasa.
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lol.. wait til u go sunway pyramid.. see if u can walk 2 rounds.. or times square.. hahaha
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post Nov 2 2008, 03:25 AM

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QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:23 AM)
oh. sunway pyramid ~ hope to go. many of my frens there, but i wonder is there so fun ? haha
times square small matter only lah ~ xD but times square got a lot luxury shop, at shop outside see already sked u enough. haha
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have u walked every single floor and corner twice? lol.. i think pyramid is more tiring
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post Nov 2 2008, 03:31 AM

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QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:27 AM)
mostly lo.last time i went TS for bowling n gathering with frens. haha.
ic ic. i'l go pyramid once i gt the chance smile.gif
btw, run out of topic ady ~ haha      the thread runs wild  rclxm9.gif
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u will make a good guy.. since u can teman gf go shopping and walk the endless shops with her laugh.gif (back on topic)

QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:27 AM)
Did it in Mid Valley and 1 Utama, i think it is a good way for exercise  biggrin.gif
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1 utama ok la.. walk until sian edi.. ish..
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post Nov 2 2008, 03:37 AM

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QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:34 AM)
rclxms.gif  rclxms.gif  rclxms.gif      unbelievable ~ nice turning.
hopefully ... still looking ~ but when shopping for shirts, make sure beside the girl shirt zone is guy zone, so that I can look mine also  biggrin.gif 
if not ... jz one word, sien ... although willing to accompany her.
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hahaha... well its like tht de la.. u will experience it sooner or later.. one day u have to teman ur wife go shopping.. sign credit card for her.. carry her shopping bags.. hahahha! be a 'ku li' for a day


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QUOTE(ah_suknat @ Nov 2 2008, 03:37 AM)
this is so much of a women bashing thread, I liek.
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u male, female or it?

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post Nov 2 2008, 03:53 AM

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QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:49 AM)
while now, go out shopping with mama, still she pay for the items. hehe ... bcoz nowadays students, havent graduate also hutang keliling pinggang ady. I dun hope for more of my gf, jz willing to learn is important. n tolerance la of course, n other detail detail one...
if willing to learn den things can be brough in discussion (man si yao siong leong).

but actually good guys or bad guys jz is guy, jz the attitude he hav and point of view will determine whether he is good or bad.
other things such as romantic or not, noe tricks n so n so, it jz depend on the guy, every guy can do the same tactics, but inner side, we nid some time to observe only noe what is the really him. rite ?  whistling.gif
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lol... some girls will see tht as weak n 'mama's boy'.. maybe they never tried paying for themselves before.. everytime aso bf pay.. 'good guy' depends on individuals lah.. each gal has her own preferance.. even if the guy doesnt fit all her criteria, maybe she will still fall for him.. love is blind, after all laugh.gif n we shouldnt be too quick to judge a guy/girl.. maybe they have more complicated things deep inside..
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post Nov 2 2008, 04:14 AM

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QUOTE(yhtan @ Nov 2 2008, 04:01 AM)
you never know unless u try whistling.gif
and don't complain all the time when u find a bad one, is your decision anyway smile.gif
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lol.. ask la TS for a date tan tan brows.gif

QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 04:04 AM)
not actually mean that also... hmm, mama's boy, now big ady, cnt be like dat ady. I say that bcoz normally my mum go shopping also buy those daily needs, so she will be "in charge" for it. If shopping for shirts, I tried to shopping with frens(very good frens, they will giv comment n suggestion on what to hav n what to dont), so far so good.
but anyhow, if the girl pick tat guy for becoming her bf, sure got reason de. tats the reason i never spana ppl ~ ~  biggrin.gif  respect ma ~
but den it is a legend that sound : a pretty girl is mean to be together with a "nt so handsome" guy, and a handsome guy is also rarely to find a pretty girl.
( as husband n wife, nt jz as bf gf)
so, i think i'l hav a so so gf ~ icon_rolleyes.gif den those pretty one is for see see only. [For Display Only, Once Broken Consider Sold] laugh.gif  many ppl broken it... tats y others dun hav the change.
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lols! looks doesnt really matter in the end wad.. n tht legend is stupid.. hahaha.. many.. mostly actually.. very pretty ones.. are too conceited.. so better go after the so-so ones lah..they wont complain so much

QUOTE(chickmagnet @ Nov 2 2008, 04:08 AM)
cmon girls, u ppl aren't as perfect anyway..why wanna complain so much..

u girls think ur ***** is paved wit gold isit? cmon, give n take la..if u wanted to be treated like a princess or want this want what, ask urself back, what HAVE U GOT to offer?

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*ahem* there is only 1 girl complaining in this thread smile.gif so your should use the singular form "girl" lol

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post Nov 2 2008, 04:30 AM

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QUOTE(aragorn.yoong @ Nov 2 2008, 04:22 AM)
Love is as simple as this:
I'm a guy,
I have a girl.
I can make her happy,
And she can make me happy.
Once you find a match like this -----> Marry her and live happily ever after.
Simple isn't it?
The only people who complicate this equation are those who have yet to find their happiness, usually desperate or impatient.
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lol.. if only it was tht simple.. every1 would marry their childhood sweetheart

QUOTE(yhtan @ Nov 2 2008, 04:23 AM)
i shy blush.gif
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just say yes.. and TS will understand you.. laugh.gif

QUOTE(sun1989 @ Nov 2 2008, 04:24 AM)
so so ones  biggrin.gif  for me ok la ~ if we say woman is like car. so local made =proton
pretty n luxury one=perdana, den follow on. but if lower price ones, although model n engine is the same type but there is still different in performance. but there is still good n nice one in the normal standards one. if u get den really is lucky enough.in engineering, there is nothing such as 100% efficiency, and yet, in the real world too, nothing is 100%  laugh.gif

* suddenly thought of tis, jz for sharing, no offense.

edited to last thread:
leng lui [For Display Only, Once Broken Consider Sold] laugh.gif  many ppl broken it... tats y others dun hav the chance.
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*is lost* lol!
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post Nov 2 2008, 04:35 AM

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QUOTE(darklight79 @ Nov 2 2008, 04:31 AM)
Most people feel the need to overcomplicate things anyway. It's human nature to want drama.
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without drama, life would be too simple and boring laugh.gif
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ Nov 2 2008, 04:35 AM)
Like buns and paos.
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Mr dark, u look muscular.. will u go on a date with me?
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QUOTE(Gisele_Marie @ Nov 2 2008, 04:55 AM)
I'm actually greatly impressed with TS's set standards for what she wants in her partner. It addressed an issue which will only detriment the female population, that is sometimes men just don't respect women!

Some men (I'm not saying all) treat women only as sex objects and children-making machines, paying no regards to her feelings and values as a person. And the funny thing is, sometimes why men continue to behave this way is because there are women who allow men to walk all over them as sex objects.

If only women have greater self-respect for themselves, setting higher standards for their partners (means wanting a man who will appreciate her as a person, not just a sex and baby-making machine for the husband), probably this situation may improve.

Call me a feminist, if that irritates you, being a feminist is not a bad thing. I do expect criticisms to my comments coming from a world full of sexists. Maybe you are that 4 out of 10 men which TS quoted as "intimidated by women with career success", or a woman who needs to have more self-respect.
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sometimes, women use men as a sex object.. and also ATM machine.. so i guess its even, no? women also love torturing men for self satisfaction.. (not all yea.. usually applies for conceited beautiful women) so instead of complaining about what men should be, y not try to change our own gender first? sex is not just enjoyable for the men.. im sure the female enjoys it too. dont see sex as a disadvantage for women. its merely an act of love between two lovers. if the female doesnt like it, then dont have sex! its that simple

P.S. im not being sexist as im also a female

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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Nov 2 2008, 12:35 PM)
i knew this girl since I was in A level, at first we always argue over each other and hated each others guts(on a friendly level though).

few yrs pass we met again went out clubbin etc...

than she admitted that she had feelings for me, i open doors, drive her home even though her house is like in kepong and my house is in puchong... omfg so F-ing far, treat her to nice food, movie.. and she said I was like a gentleman to her.

But than again, she said I did the same thing to all the girls I know and treat them equally! than on top of that at first she thought I was GAY, cause I was too good of a guy to do all those Kind of things i mentioned above.

We never clicked anyway, gave her a hug, kiss on the cheek and parted ways. (apprenetly that time when she admitted her feelins she already got bf)

Guess good guys in this world are either dead, gay or misunderstood.
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dam.. sweat.gif she wasnt smart enough to appreciate you.. thats all.. im sure you'll find a girl/woman who does one day smile.gif


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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 01:04 PM)
what's the thing that make her think that you're one ? because you treat every girls with care, if that the case then she prolly got screwed hard by reality, else prove her wrong, cheers =P
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y bother proving her wrong? she probably knows and she could be a player sweat.gif whatever the answer is.. being gay or not, she's still taken and inconsiderate IMO

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 01:10 PM)
hahaha i assume aurora97 didn't do enough to prove her wrong tongue.gif, anyway it doesn't matter anyway lulz

why are you here ? no date with darklight =P ?
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some girls just think tht nice guy/gentleman = gay lol.. what crooked thinking

just woke up an hour ago sweat.gif


Added on November 2, 2008, 1:14 pmhence, many guys want to become 'macho' and act like a jerk to avoid being called a gay

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post Nov 2 2008, 01:24 PM

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 2 2008, 01:18 PM)
this late ? what you do yesterday =O ?

hence, many girls going ducth to avoid being called gold digger lulz

no matter how much girls and guys complain about each other, they still need each other laugh.gif
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secret unsure.gif

lol.. i dont go dutch for tht reason.. i feel bad using a guy's money.. ill rather pay for myself.
eat aso feel more.. 'on lok' <-- i cant figure out tht word lol

one day humans will evolve to reproduce asexually due to the fact tht they cant stand each other

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