Nov 2 2008, 01:30 PM
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Simple. You aren't good enough for good (from your statement) guys and you aren't attractive enough to be with a good guy. I always love to joke around good guys are always hiding, but the truth is they aren't hiding at all. They are very active as well in the society together with those bad ones. They as well, are looking for their best options out there, same as you. And if you can't attract them, then don't blame the whole male society for lacking good men. Because at the end of the day, the fingers are pointing back to you.
Now, i don't think so we are going to define nor differentiate between a good guy and a bad guy. It is very very subjective and grey area does exist between them but as long you are clear with what you want in a man, then focus on it. Generalize them into category that fits your choices just like you wrote in your first post or the above and go out and attract them. I don't know how you going to hunt them, but keep it to yourself because it is less important for us to know. But maybe before you hunt for them, might as well take a look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself are you a good girl too? Can you handle such guys?
Moreover, there is no saying being with a good guy provide a long lasting relationship. That's hypothetical BS. I've seen people with bad partners but still they go strong. Remember, it depends on whether it works or it doesn't work, which implies to how both you and your partner work it together.
Found the best answer.Now, i don't think so we are going to define nor differentiate between a good guy and a bad guy. It is very very subjective and grey area does exist between them but as long you are clear with what you want in a man, then focus on it. Generalize them into category that fits your choices just like you wrote in your first post or the above and go out and attract them. I don't know how you going to hunt them, but keep it to yourself because it is less important for us to know. But maybe before you hunt for them, might as well take a look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself are you a good girl too? Can you handle such guys?
Moreover, there is no saying being with a good guy provide a long lasting relationship. That's hypothetical BS. I've seen people with bad partners but still they go strong. Remember, it depends on whether it works or it doesn't work, which implies to how both you and your partner work it together.
I often heard gals say, "those guy dont match with me", i would like to get the answer from them "Are u qualify to be with those guys and reason?". From TS statement i oni see she wanting somebody who is success in career, treat and respect woman as human, no-sex-object thinking and so on, as long as it treat the girl almost to perfect. Well, guys not born for gals, guys success or not, understand woman needs or not or bla bla bla, also not related to be a 'good guy' o not. Again, what if u found out that there is nothing imperfect in him? If he career is not very successful? If he not very understand in woman? If he is a normal man that need sex? Girl, no one in this world is perfect, we are human, we imperfect for a reason. If u looking for perfect loving and rich guys like those taiwan drama one, just watch all the taiwan drama over and over again in ur room and dont go look for for guys, cause u not treating them as human, u just trying force someone who is good to be with u and satisfy ur desire.
For girls u sure always heard bout guys dump girls then go for another one or other bad story, but i bet u do heard bout girls dump guy then go for another one and other bad story as well, so please dont keep on saying like girls demand is nothing wrong as guy more worse, its sama-sama situation here.
Same goes to sex. Do u ever heard of girls got knock-out after having sex? No boh, oni guys will get KO. If the girls is not enjoying it then it is known as rape, else dont sounds like guys enjoy it all while woman have to suffer. Girls always demand for better sex also.
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