4 years of relationship is deep and lots of commitment onto it already. but i couldn't accept a relationship without certain level of intimacy... heck its 4 years already!!! its not tat we are staying far apart or any distance realationship, for god sake we are staying together and in the same room! i feel like i'm so divine and holy for keeping my didi under my pants on such circumstances for 4 years... all just because i duwan to hurt her feelings... 

ohh c'mon, if he is juz wanna eat you up, why the 'respect you and stopped' thingy means?

i'm in the same problem here, even worst act... me and my gf has been together for almost 5 years since we were secondary. i've tried to ask for sex since i was 18, she was 18 too, we were together for almost 6 months like TS. ok, i was too 'newbie' to sex thingy and she stopped me for further intercourse. of course i stopped, she is definitely my type of girl and i do really really love her, what can i said? i don't even ask her any time limit or any T&C in order to complete the intercourse with her, i hoped everything goes naturally.

time goes by, i've tried to talk to her, rejected by her over and over, we've come to the point where we treated our intimacy as to get rid of our needs(service each others by hands). of course i'm not happy with this, but what can i do? thats what she ever wants, nothing more... 1 year, 2 years, 3 years have passed, we've been through a lot together, and i love her more and more, but i feel incomplete in our relationship.

i'm feeling our relationship is having downfall day by day, i'm willing to have further intimacy with her everytime i met her but she just rejects me as usual. and there is one time i ask her, will you ever having sex with me? she answered "are you kidding? thats not gonna happen". disappointment has turned into frustration. 4 years have passed and i'm pretty sure she is the one that i love, but i'm feeling like a stupid getting rejected all the time like she has already get used to it and i juz need to face it?

ok, lets be fair, IF i wanted to give up on such relationship, am i still consider a 'bad guy' or 'just trying to eat her' ? 

hi im new here, i dont know where to ask so decide to post a thread here.

Its bout my bf, he 20 and i 19 this year, we been together for 6 months, he treat me really good all time, whenever i tell my friend about how my bf treat me they would jealous to me. However, i did not tell them one thing

My bf treat me good usually, but when we stay together in a room and kiss, at first its sweet kiss, but then his hand will start to move around my body afterwards.Not saying i hate it because his hand itchy,but whenever he do that i feel very weird and i dont know how to express that

At the beginning i feel not good, then i tell him that, he stop it in awhile, but continue after some time. i though i just not use to it, so i did not resist that time, but that weird feeling carry on until today.

There was few times when he trying to have sex with me, i did not reject at the beginning but when he almost doing it i was so scare then i ask him to stop it, and he really stop it. I think he quite respect me tat time. Although he sometimes will till do the same, but he will stop it if i dont wan. But i still thinking he should not like this.

Please i dont know to do to get rid of my thinking or how do i get use to it? I so confusing

erm... easy thing, dump him away in order to protect yourself from being the victim of pregnant before married....!

hi im new here, i dont know where to ask so decide to post a thread here.

Its bout my bf, he 20 and i 19 this year, we been together for 6 months, he treat me really good all time, whenever i tell my friend about how my bf treat me they would jealous to me. However, i did not tell them one thing

My bf treat me good usually, but when we stay together in a room and kiss, at first its sweet kiss, but then his hand will start to move around my body afterwards.Not saying i hate it because his hand itchy,but whenever he do that i feel very weird and i dont know how to express that

At the beginning i feel not good, then i tell him that, he stop it in awhile, but continue after some time. i though i just not use to it, so i did not resist that time, but that weird feeling carry on until today.

There was few times when he trying to have sex with me, i did not reject at the beginning but when he almost doing it i was so scare then i ask him to stop it, and he really stop it. I think he quite respect me tat time. Although he sometimes will till do the same, but he will stop it if i dont wan. But i still thinking he should not like this.

Please i dont know to do to get rid of my thinking or how do i get use to it? I so confusing

its ok to start having sex at ur age..but if u're really not ready for it, then talk to him. If he minds, then get a new guy

how old u started to have urs??

how old u started to have urs??

hi im new here, i dont know where to ask so decide to post a thread here.

Its bout my bf, he 20 and i 19 this year, we been together for 6 months, he treat me really good all time, whenever i tell my friend about how my bf treat me they would jealous to me. However, i did not tell them one thing

My bf treat me good usually, but when we stay together in a room and kiss, at first its sweet kiss, but then his hand will start to move around my body afterwards.Not saying i hate it because his hand itchy,but whenever he do that i feel very weird and i dont know how to express that

At the beginning i feel not good, then i tell him that, he stop it in awhile, but continue after some time. i though i just not use to it, so i did not resist that time, but that weird feeling carry on until today.

There was few times when he trying to have sex with me, i did not reject at the beginning but when he almost doing it i was so scare then i ask him to stop it, and he really stop it. I think he quite respect me tat time. Although he sometimes will till do the same, but he will stop it if i dont wan. But i still thinking he should not like this.

Please i dont know to do to get rid of my thinking or how do i get use to it? I so confusing

TS, dont worry about it... just tell your bf the truth...if he really love u..sure he dont ask u sex again...

same with me...my gf break up with me coz i dont want to do sex with her...but for me as long i not ready why should do anything that will make me regret for all my life??

TS, dont worry about it... just tell your bf the truth...if he really love u..sure he dont ask u sex again...

same with me...my gf break up with me coz i dont want to do sex with her...but for me as long i not ready why should do anything that will make me regret for all my life??