didnt knw u are so active in cupid corner....

i feel that premarital sex is subjective...but in life u cant plan everything...u live for today....but do wat u can for tomorrow....But this is just me....

Usually men have as much as 20 times more testosterone in their systems than do women. This makes men typically more aggressive, dominant and more narrowly focused on the physical aspects of sex.

The idea that men think about sex every seven seconds, like the claim that we only use 10 percent of our brains, is often repeated but rarely sourced. The number doesn't bear up against scrutiny. According to the Kinsey Report (Sexual Behavior in the Human Male), 54 percent of men think about sex every day or several times a day, 43 percent a few times a week or a few times a month, and 4 percent less than once a month. Even though the Kinsey Report relies on men to self-report on how often they think about sex, it's still eye opening to find that just under half of men aren't even thinking about sex once a day. Clearly, the seven-second rule may be a tad hyperbolic.

As my opinion, male thinking sex more then female. thats why ur bf sometimes wil hand itchy. But relation between u both is not that long.
But from wat u have already been stay together with him will make a guy think lot stuff. Thats why he will itchy >.<

But sometimes a good relation or a long relation doesnt efected with sex only can last longer. coz sex just only will be enjoy by both which agree to have it. And being force wont be happy

So if u r not ready for that you should have a table talk with ur BF and frankly told him thats u r not ready yet for more deeper relation.

And both of u was still too young. For a chinese thinking usually for Male marry age was around age 27 to age 30 coz by that time at least he got enough saving for taking care of whole family.

so as an advise better take a good time to have a talk with him about how u feel

btw, TS has not been active since 16 October 2008 =)

hmm....tasty

agree!!

Well, credit for you, girl !

Actually I think your topic is really good to share around.
My advise is that you should ask yourself whether you like your bf.
But you can try persuade your bf to control his desire by starting with a
warm kissing together with gentle touching before going into high level

By doing this, you can get rid the fear of making love with your bf.

I hope this can help your guys ~

hmm, ur situation like my gf situation n im the guy u describe, at first she also not comfy, its all about u getting used to him or he getting used to u, if u are used to it n u love ur bf, u would be enjoying his advances. My gf nowadays, i just have to tease a bit, n phew, it'll be a tiring evening till night session, haha. if u not ready, tell him u not ready lorr. my gf like that also, but slowly, we found out we both enjoy making out and making love together so have fun n intimacy, no problem. if u like him n ur ready to advance ,y not, first few times, u feel uncomfortable but if u relax n explore u might like it .
if u try to go on with it, but still cannot do it coz uncomfy, then tell him thatlar, tell him u need more time before u go on deeper into things like this, if he a good guy, he' ll understand.

of coz as a guy i realized guys gotta be gentle at first, if a guy force himself, the gurl would be all up in defenses n he'll be like a bad guy in her eyes, but if he patient n willing to wait for his gal, then he ll be a charming lover.

winner.

old thread and TS maybe accepts edi gua

can close thread liao

Leave the thread open la. Closed thread nobody will read one.. Intimacy = Into me i see.

err...jz tell him u r not ready to do such action..then he will know what to do..
if he still dun understand..u can slap him...
anyway communicate is very important

This post has been edited by amos_boyz123: Dec 4 2008, 10:33 PM

tak mahu = jual mahal

Mahu = gatal?

This post has been edited by JiaWei123: Dec 4 2008, 11:58 PM

the best way..just say to your bf that you have HIV positive..hahahahaha

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Added on December 5, 2008, 12:01 amMahu = perkara biasa

This post has been edited by hafiz_hizam: Dec 5 2008, 12:01 AM

Betul-betul... mahu = perkara biasa..

mahu = straight
tak mahu = gay

love guru ..

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Added on December 5, 2008, 1:30 amlove guru ..

This post has been edited by hanieyf: Dec 5 2008, 01:30 AM

gatal=ok mah

Jawablah soalan ini.

Kalau encik A sedang memandu kereta dengan kelajuan 60km sejam dan tiba tiba encik terasa gatal dibahagian kemaluannya. Tetapi encik A tidak boleh melepaskan tangannya daripada stering kereta. Apakah dia patut lakukan?

A. Lantaklah, kalau sudah gatal garulah!
B. Berhenti ditepi jalan dan megaru kegatalannya.
C. Bersabar dan apabila sampai didestinasi baru boleh garu.