hi im new here, i dont know where to ask so decide to post a thread here.

Its bout my bf, he 20 and i 19 this year, we been together for 6 months, he treat me really good all time, whenever i tell my friend about how my bf treat me they would jealous to me. However, i did not tell them one thing

My bf treat me good usually, but when we stay together in a room and kiss, at first its sweet kiss, but then his hand will start to move around my body afterwards.Not saying i hate it because his hand itchy,but whenever he do that i feel very weird and i dont know how to express that

At the beginning i feel not good, then i tell him that, he stop it in awhile, but continue after some time. i though i just not use to it, so i did not resist that time, but that weird feeling carry on until today.

There was few times when he trying to have sex with me, i did not reject at the beginning but when he almost doing it i was so scare then i ask him to stop it, and he really stop it. I think he quite respect me tat time. Although he sometimes will till do the same, but he will stop it if i dont wan. But i still thinking he should not like this.

Please i dont know to do to get rid of my thinking or how do i get use to it? I so confusing

Relationship stuff in Cupid Corner, girl.


Moved

yes u are very confusing

If you're serious about not having sex in ur relationship...
make it known to him.

Avoiding and brushing him off isn't gonna solve the problem.
You 2 need to talk.

are you a virgin ?

u're not ready gal...

y not try to set a time for him..
let's say, u tell him u will be ready after 6 more months, and that will be the time u give it to him..
but remember, if u promised, dun let him down..

or u can just tell him honestly, it hurts, i noe, but u have to tell the truth, it's better than lying

anyways, if he dumps u for not having sex with him, that's a good sign, means u're breaking off with a bad guy...a guy that dates u for sex? No way! get rid of him asap...

but we better not think that way la...mayb tok to him about wut sex means to him..u cannot be shy in relationships....u really need to noe where u stand and y he wans to have sex with u

make sure he got use safety helmet

tell him that u want no sex relationship

premarital sex is a big no.

or u can help him wax his carrot

u only mentioned u've been with him for 6 months ... how long it takes for u to know him before accepting him as ur bf ?

ROFLMGDFAO

In my opinion, there is no right or wrong to have premarital sex, but above all, safety first!

Eat two sleeping pill

or drink 3 bottle of chivas

Just tell him you not ready yet..

ask ur bf this question, he love you or he love ur body...
i think he will stop trying to sex for 3 months....

Whats wrong about sex, even animals have sex...

safe sex please

If one is not ready to have sex, then there is no point to do that, i guess it wont be called as "memorable"...

TS, dont worry about it... just tell your bf the truth...if he really love u..sure he dont ask u sex again...

same with me...my gf break up with me coz i dont want to do sex with her...but for me as long i not ready why should do anything that will make me regret for all my life??