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Advice Wanted Age 22 and still single, having monotone life, Big problem or wut
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fastandfurious
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May 1 2009, 03:12 PM
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QUOTE(MagicPudding @ May 1 2009, 03:01 PM) thanks again for the feedbacks, to find a girlfriend is not my current aim, all I want is to know more people, make me feels that at least I am remembered by some people I've a quiet and shy personality but yet I get to know some friends in college. I click well with people who stick around me usually. Unless you're in a totally new environment I don't see why you can't get to know people. Are you sissy or somethin? No offence.
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fastandfurious
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May 1 2009, 03:25 PM
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QUOTE(MagicPudding @ May 1 2009, 03:16 PM) I did made some friends of course, even had 2 trips with them b4. But time pass by, people change and moved on, I need to move on too, I feel the urge to meet new people which are totally unrelated with existing ones, that is where I encounter difficulties One way of expanding your network of friends is to stick with your existing friends, get comfortable with them. Why? When you're close with them eventually they will introduce their friends to you as well it's natural. So there's no need for the extreme mentality to go mix around new people like walking up to them or to randomly pick up some phone numbers and call (which I think is quite dumb, because you're not being who you are. How long can this fakeness last anyway?) Besides, having a few quality friends are better than having 1000 acquaintances whom you don't really know. PS: Are you effeminate? This post has been edited by fastandfurious: May 1 2009, 03:28 PM
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