If u wan something, think of a way and grab it, thats all.
Else, sit under the sun everyday and wait for a coconut drop from the sky

sorry but i couldn't be bothered reading all the pages.

number 1: age doesn't matter - it takes me about 5secs to answer my age when i am asked
number 2: your issue is not about being single; but feeling alone
number 3: you have too many plans for life = life is not a plan; to LIVE is to LIVE.
number 4: don't plan when you are going to change cause it will never work. you want to do something, do it NOW!
number 5: having a GF is not going to solve your problems, bcoz i dun think any girl want to just sit in front of computer with you.
number 6: be more positive. in the statement above you worry about what your friends think of you - why worry when a call from a friend just to say HI or chat a little will be a nice experiance. if my friends just call and say "hey man. what u doing? long time no hear." it will make me feel better - like someone caring for you.
number 7: with your current attitude; you will be doing the same routine for the rest of your life. when you work - you think you don't need to socialize?

there is a lot more things i can list out but i have to go out now

dun worry ... ur case aint worst case, i m 27 d

I'm 21, single...sadly u r not female, if not i eat u liao.

I guess he's depressed.

I'm 21. So I'm gonna comment on this.

It gets to you when you see your frens are all having gfs and all, but it's very important for you to remember this. Men can marry when they are in their 30s and still live a fairly decent life, (despite the kid growing up when you are already old).

So it's important not to get sidetracked. As they all say, if you are single, first thing you should do is expand your social circle. Establish a few group of friends you can regularly spend time with, who although they have girlfriends, but won't mind spendign time to chill amongst guys, (y'know, male bonding and all). Having that kind of support group(s) is very important for your self esteem, and more importantly, your perception of the world. When you realize that actually, girls themselves are equally as desperate because they have a ticking clock, there is honestly no need to rush.

Important thing is, not to make stupid mistakes in your career. As they say, ada wang ada amoi. As cynical and materialistic as it sounds, when you have a strong career, it automatically will make you be a more confident person, which in turn will make you attractive to women. Money doesn't attract ppl, but alot of ppl are not confident because they don't have money. Career and money removes that problem.

So, key.

1. Frens. Lots of them. Unrelated ones if possible. (aka multiple group of frens)
2. Career. Make yourself be good at what you do, and make money out of it. A person who has a career, generally is someone who can take and deal with shit/stress, and are quite confident with themselves.

After you get that 2 settled, 3rd is to establish your doors/gateways into knowing girls that you might actually want knowing. Generalyl most people can tell you 1001 ways to meet girls, so once u have 1 & 2, u can proceed to test the ocean before you cast ur bait

(i'm single, not worried about it because if men can marry at 37 to a gorgeous 30 year old model, hey, i can do it too!)

hi..
no need feel sad la
u still can find fren in here
if u feel u need a partner now then ma just go ahead bout it la
u can find till get a most suitable one de ma
love can be force de
things is yours mean yours de
things is not yours how also cant get de ma
slowly find la..

i ma 21 n i am single.....no prob at all....chill man...still young....haha...

want me to lecture u?

u sux. u need to change your life style. try work things out. Don bother about lonely life .... coz it is onli waste your time. Read more books about self-help.

u know y u suck? coz u never try to improve ....

Sori for scolding u. hope u get my points...

sorry.. to hear your story...

my first relationship is around 17, ya very unforgetable.. www.. and im only secondary finish.. w

had 5 relationship... and i just recently break with my gf.. and im now 28

i don't plan to play anymore liao ^^ my career still not bad lah... pretty smooth.. now i'm planning to settle down liao when i found my true opponent. ^^

you know.. to tell you the truth lor...... gals want a guy got shan jin xing.. i dunno what it is in english.. not like you got what degree or master then win liao lor. a guy.. must have shan jing xing.. n not by talking de..

must use action to prove de... and gal's will start notice you de. ^^ okies?

This post has been edited by juine: Mar 14 2009, 01:34 AM

u know wad? i'm 21 and i hav never hold a chick's hand (*ok i ever) had a gf before. many stupid attempts end up stupidly. like they said, the grass is always greener at that other side.

my circle that includes chicks are all studying aboard or bz working, and those that i hang out? only those boys that goes to cinema with me or another that always play balls with me. hardly talk to other gals besides my workplace. so i'm kinda same as u. now u know there's so many desperado around. HAHAHA!!!

but i think, yah being single really sux, really lonely, i really hate it, but i've lived single for so long, why change it if it works? i think i'mma gonna stop wasting my time on chasing a chick tat wont be mine, and gonna find tat RM10k monthly paycheck of mine. if i can find tat paycheck, i think i don mind being single, haha~! playing with cars and hardwares is still cool. LOOL~!

but stil, single sux. but hey, we live through it right?

I'm 21 and having a girl friend and I wish I am in your shoes now! Getting into a relationship really bogs you down. Honest, I cant hang out with my mates without sending in a report or have to spend time with her and so on and so forth..Also I miss my parents after 3 years studying away from home. Be grateful for what you got.

Single have a good think you can enjoy yourself nobody asking where are you what are you doing, enjoy first before something hitting your head

When you have GF you should everytime side by side with her and dont have extra time going out with friends and other stuff

Go fly kite if dont understand

i agreed with him. coz i had gf b4. i just wanna to get rid of her . spent 3 weeks to think how to get rid of her . i spent alot of time talking to her on phone and sms . alot money gone to drain. alot thrash talk which i don like.

she always talk about some1 she dislike in class. haiz.... and i have to support her.

happy to get rid of her. now i have time for PS 3 and focus on uni. 2 years to go! FOCUS !

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Added on March 14, 2009, 11:44 pmbtw, gf is no big deal. finding some1 i love isn't easy. i need the gal to understand and give me space to play . my ex is not happy when i don reply the sms.

i still opened to gf. i never say no. i always wish i get a understanding gf

This post has been edited by john_makaay: Mar 14 2009, 11:44 PM

go club n hang wit gals...take their fon no..
date them up..n.....u noe lar.lol

i coming to 28 liao. also single. not a problem lei.

it's never too late to socialise.

socialize more often.

oh yeah by 22 y/o i was still single too.

around 22.5 y/o like that then i kicked off a relationship with my ex-gf, which lasted for almost and ended in she committing adultery.

Dont worry, for guys, 22 is just the beginning of life.
even at the age of 40 you still able to get gorgeous gf.

it's real!