i'm 20, working and still living the single life, so shut up.

Technically your problem.. isn't much of a problem. Many people too have monotonous life. Your problem, is actually the fact that you KNOW you have a monotonous life, and thus you fall into this cruel feedback loop.

(yes... imma noob so whatthefarklahhhhh)

I'm 21. So I'm gonna comment on this.

It gets to you when you see your frens are all having gfs and all, but it's very important for you to remember this. Men can marry when they are in their 30s and still live a fairly decent life, (despite the kid growing up when you are already old).

So it's important not to get sidetracked. As they all say, if you are single, first thing you should do is expand your social circle. Establish a few group of friends you can regularly spend time with, who although they have girlfriends, but won't mind spendign time to chill amongst guys, (y'know, male bonding and all). Having that kind of support group(s) is very important for your self esteem, and more importantly, your perception of the world. When you realize that actually, girls themselves are equally as desperate because they have a ticking clock, there is honestly no need to rush.

Important thing is, not to make stupid mistakes in your career. As they say, ada wang ada amoi. As cynical and materialistic as it sounds, when you have a strong career, it automatically will make you be a more confident person, which in turn will make you attractive to women. Money doesn't attract ppl, but alot of ppl are not confident because they don't have money. Career and money removes that problem.

So, key.

1. Frens. Lots of them. Unrelated ones if possible. (aka multiple group of frens)
2. Career. Make yourself be good at what you do, and make money out of it. A person who has a career, generally is someone who can take and deal with shit/stress, and are quite confident with themselves.

After you get that 2 settled, 3rd is to establish your doors/gateways into knowing girls that you might actually want knowing. Generalyl most people can tell you 1001 ways to meet girls, so once u have 1 & 2, u can proceed to test the ocean before you cast ur bait

(i'm single, not worried about it because if men can marry at 37 to a gorgeous 30 year old model, hey, i can do it too!)