my point of view

1. young girls wif older guys tend to get cheated. by luck u gt a gud person or someone jz taking advantage on u. frankly speaking old men tend to find younger girl jz to hv sex then leave after getting bored. after all this type is NO LOVE. but xall. some are really nice guy. depends on ur luck.

2. some young girls like to have sugardaddy. all they want is money. very significant this is NO LOVE. jz materialistic b***h. the guy get wut he wants and the gurl get money. goes on till the gurl gets older and no future.

3. now for the interesting part. some people mature faster than others. this type of people will opt for older partner. possible of TRUE LOVE. by chance they will live happily ever after. hehe

4. i do think most youngsters are this type. one who xknw wut the hell they want. this is a very serious problem. having partner jz for the sake of "xwant to be single". this type often make mistakes and end up claiming LOVE IS SUFFERING blablabla..even if they gt married they still xknw wut the hell they r doing or they r up to. give them a big HA HA HA.

well i talk so much. but i jz want to make it clear y ppl sometimes go for older partner.

LOVE IS VERY COMPLICATED. U NVR KNW WEN U GT TRUE LOVE. U NVR KNW WEN UR ABOUT TO GT CHEATED. NOT EVRYONE WILL FIND TRUE LOVE IN THEIR LIFETIME. DATS HW BIG LOVE IS

too many years old difference ? hmm i dun like it .
but maybe some ppl will like ^^

if guys older 10 years old than a woman its ok ....
but if guys young 10 years old ( even 1 or 3 years ) than woman i can`t accept err......sorry k....just my own opinion ..hehe

hihi...every zhi mui...i'm now feel so tired to maintain this 14 years old age gap love relationship...
In a relationship, it is sure to have one who are dominant, strong in decision making, and another cooperate and follow. i guess I'm the one always listen to him. we are only in the "pak to" relationship, not married for thousand years...i really think i got no wrong to ask him to accompany me to go out walk walk instead staying at home all the time. i didn't ask him to buy any expensive thing for me, even window shopping, both of us holding hand, will do. BUT, every time go out, we must end it up with argument, unreasonable matter. "you always want to go out, have you ever consider i have to work from morning until now?"
he always complain i'm not giving care, not satisfy, sometime ask me to take out a paper and write out how many things he had done it for me..i feel so terrible, is like "a bf shouldn't be like that..."
if i'm in the love relationship still everytime going out with frens but no lover, what the difference have or don't have a bf. dear all...really need your console la...sad.

This post has been edited by Penguin.23: Dec 13 2008, 10:41 AM

I dunno out others. I myself have a babyface n I have been told by da casino security guard dat I'm 19 when in fact i was 23 at dat time. Ppl use 2 tell me dat i must get a gf younger than me by at least a few years but I feel kinda weird if i were 2 date a gal who is still in high school while I'm working rite now. Weird dun u think?

i think a lot ppl suffers from love gap. The guy loves the girl but the girl don't love the guy. There's a gap between the love. And vice versa.

Hmm.. dont think age should be an issue for two people to get together. In my opinion, i think some guys prefer to have older gf, and girls prefer to have younger bf? dont you think?

Guys prefer older girls because they like them to be independent, where the girls can pay for their own things and where the girls can get things for the guys.

Girls like younger guys because they are playful and not serious all the time. Girls like to have fun and to spend time doing childish things.

Well, this is what i think..

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Added on December 17, 2008, 4:03 pmthis is normal for every couple i think. so dont worry, it is just a phase you going through. once you both start to understand each other it will be fine. try to spend some time with him at his house. you can watch a movie have a drink or just let him work while you just hang around. if you really want to go out, just go out nearby mamak and have a drink. i guess your bf likes to spend time with you too, just that he doesn't want to go out to shopping centres which some times can be troublesome to find car park and you could get caught in jams.. hope this helps!

This post has been edited by kelvinkwl: Dec 17 2008, 04:03 PM

What I did for my ex. Take her out jalan jalan, help pay some of her bills, spend time with her every weekends cos we're living far apart. Im senior to her 11 years. So she broke up with me, says that I dun care much for her...

hmm,i think age is important..i cant accept someone younger than me to be my hubby..

gap 1-3 years ok...if older than that,i cant imagine,cant even have a picture for future...

but still,depends on how u view it.get a hubby who older 1-3 years than u will be good .caz they can plan for future...secure..
most important the guys good la...else wat oso useless..

i know he would like to be with me all the time, but just dont like to go out with me, like walk walk...i means...girls..sometime do like to hang out with one they love, and i'm not asking him to buy this buy that, but just holding hands, walk aroung, thats all. but...everytime, end up with arguement....pretty sad.

age is only numbers! so who cares as long as u dont love for the money ahhaha

try to cheer up ba..mayb he lazy to walk..juz dun put those words in heart can jor.. =)