who cares..
some ppl with no age gap,in the end ma divorce...
so it all depend how u live with each other nia...

age should never be a factor!

old man wants to feel young

young girl wants to feel rich


ALL WIN

lol...everything possible...
have u guys ever thinks is that possible for an adolescents fall in love with those ppl who have a age gap wif them? the answer properly nope i suppose.

from my opinion they getting togather becoz of the fascinating of MONEY.

my bf is 11 years older than me..im happy being with him....coz he has planned things for future to settle down...im 24 and my bf is 35 now..

Age gap ... i think so. you won't realised the problem until you get married . sooner or later.....

for me..
age doesnt matter..
as long as the guy not younger than me..
this issue is different for everyone..
coz everyone have different point of view on the same problem...
i can accept a guy older than me any age..
no limit..
but not a guy younger than me even 1 year..

just wait until he KO, then get the $$$ and married a new hot guy.

i think personally guy can date young girls . But not as young as early 20's . they might change one day .

as the facts,if u have strong financial position
they are no age gaps within a couples

I don't know if my P.O.V is correct or not...i am talking from 3rd party view, as i never had any relationship before...just pure observation on my friends or buddies...

Young people, when they started out as a couple, they are very opimistic about the general things in life, relationship included...the phrase, "Love is blind", age gap is not important, blah-blah...

In my understanding, when a person becomes older, the phrase "love is blind" or "age gap is not important" maybe irrelevant or out of sync, because issues, like dough ($), health, topic of interest, and among others........will take its toll...

Based from my ovservations, i felt an age gap of 4 years plus or minus, should be enough and the correct range for my situation...

This is just purely my 2 cents, cheers...

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Oct 1 2008, 03:12 AM

my wife is 15yrs my junior..i never knew that was a problem..we have been married for 8 years already..

if u feel happy together, nothing else will be matter anymore. as long as u feel comfortable, happy, safe...
though 14 years old maybe a gap but doesnt mean there is a gap in love rite?
this is what i think.
maybe u found all ur frens are showing off because u have always been with ur bf and got used to it.
so when u mix with ur fren, you will find it quite different.
they wanna show off let them ler. what so great about showing off..
care less... stay happy!!!

hmm.. from last time till now, i feel that i can't date younger guys.. cuz they also do tend to be childish .. i'm the kinda girl like to think and talk deep deep stuff so, those kinda guys are not my type.

last time, i dated this guy only 5 days younger than me.. but he's super childish.. from then on, i didnt date younger guys already.

hmm, now i actually want an older guy... i'm not even 18 yet.. but i think i dont wanna date a 20 year old or anything.. someone older? haha, like 23 or 25.

i like matured guys! his viewpoints and thinking is different compared to all the other guys i know... plus, all the married people i know say that the older the guy, the more he will sayang you! ;D

older people are also financially stable, no need to depend on their parents for allowance already. i'm also the same state - work part time so dont ask my parents for money.

i think as long as you comfortable with the age gap can ady lor.. must remember if he will mati first anot, though.. think ahead..

as for me, i will just date only older stable guys =P. or see la, if can find someone like that who's not that old =P. highly doubt so lor.

Do you have ideal age gap?

hi der..for me i can accpet but i canot do it
but
my parents is 11yr different

hi girl, will you feel sometime what you wanna do at your age, your bf will not follow and sometime not allow you to do so? example, you feel to go clubbing just like other girls do, but at ur bf age 30+, he already don't feel to get into those activity, will this case happen on you ?
my feeling is that, sometime i really hope he can go to ther place i wanna go...so on...no just follow his idea.

sometimes it does happen..he prefer to be a family man like that but i accept for who he is.. we compromise and discuss a lot. example, like when i want to go out, i will tell him that i'm going out with my girls and guys friends together...he will ask me to take care and becareful coz my friends will be fetching me.it was difficult for me at first that he said i cant do this and that, then i tell him how i feel coz i still have my freedom..then he changed to understand and compromise with me...

like i still want to play badminton and shopping with my kaki but sometimes if too often he suggested that why not he play with me and take me out shopping...so the point here is compromise with ur man..if he loves you, he will do it for you. he doesnt get into those activity doesnt mean he dont care...is just his way...understand him more....all the best

should b ok kua... my friends parents gaep are 13 years if i don rmber wrong. either 13 or 11.

those men going after u know u married ady?? so how are u and ur hubby now??

guy tend to grow matured later than gurl. but it doesnt mean they wont be matured. and kinda depending on each individual.
if u really in love with this guy. maybe u should consider discuss more with ur bf about u 2 future. when u 2 gonna marry? giv birth? u wont wanna see ur husband age 60+ still got to pok meng for ur child education payment right? kid enter college at age 18-22/24 like that. example after 2 years u 2 married. u age 22, he age 36. after 1 year giv birth and at ur kid age 18. means u are 41 and ur husband 55... 55 still got to pok meng for kid education fee. and only 1 kid u hav? oversea study? is u 2 financial stable? etc etc issue u got to consider about it. like what vnishimura said, she has a point. she experience thru it. it might be good option for u to consult her... i might be wrong for what ur current situation is as i post my opinion base on what u said. but i hope it helps u to think deeper. personally i wont say age gaep 14 years got problem or no problem. is all about how u plan for ur future. feel free ask me more if u hav any doubt.

as known by all, guy tend to grow mature later than gurl. but it really depends on each individual. not all guy grow matured later than gurl. vice versa. some girl at 20+ still dam childish from what i seen. by right guy will be quite matured at around 20++. but i've seen guy at age 27 acting just like 12 years old kid. but some guy at age 15-16 their thinking can be quite matured. surprise me too. though at the moment... hmm... havnt meet any yet. LOL.

5 days younger than u doesnt mean will be matured than u. each individual characteristic cant be judge 100% by age. u seem still pretty young. not even 18 yet. haha. im age 24. suit u. wanna know each others?


this is where good communication and tolerant between couples are needed.

Then wat about Social Status Gap :cry

Age shouldn't be a matter between couples,
i tend to like elder girls more. Girls that are at my age in college makes me feels that they are abit... childish. =\