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love gap, girls,do you think age-gap = love-gap ?
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Penguin.23
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 Dec 13 2008, 10:31 AM
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hihi...every zhi mui...i'm now feel so tired to maintain this 14 years old age gap love relationship...
In a relationship, it is sure to have one who are dominant, strong in decision making, and another cooperate and follow. i guess I'm the one always listen to him. we are only in the "pak to" relationship, not married for thousand years...i really think i got no wrong to ask him to accompany me to go out walk walk instead staying at home all the time. i didn't ask him to buy any expensive thing for me, even window shopping, both of us holding hand, will do. BUT, every time go out, we must end it up with argument, unreasonable matter. "you always want to go out, have you ever consider i have to work from morning until now?"
he always complain i'm not giving care, not satisfy, sometime ask me to take out a paper and write out how many things he had done it for me..i feel so terrible, is like "a bf shouldn't be like that..."
if i'm in the love relationship still everytime going out with frens but no lover, what the difference have or don't have a bf. dear all...really need your console la...sad.
This post has been edited by Penguin.23: Dec 13 2008, 10:41 AM
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Penguin.23
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Dec 18 2008, 08:37 PM
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QUOTE(kelvinkwl @ Dec 17 2008, 04:00 PM) Hmm.. dont think age should be an issue for two people to get together. In my opinion, i think some guys prefer to have older gf, and girls prefer to have younger bf? dont you think? Guys prefer older girls because they like them to be independent, where the girls can pay for their own things and where the girls can get things for the guys. Girls like younger guys because they are playful and not serious all the time. Girls like to have fun and to spend time doing childish things. Well, this is what i think..
Added on December 17, 2008, 4:03 pmthis is normal for every couple i think. so dont worry, it is just a phase you going through. once you both start to understand each other it will be fine. try to spend some time with him at his house. you can watch a movie have a drink or just let him work while you just hang around. if you really want to go out, just go out nearby mamak and have a drink. i guess your bf likes to spend time with you too, just that he doesn't want to go out to shopping centres which some times can be troublesome to find car park and you could get caught in jams.. hope this helps! i know he would like to be with me all the time, but just dont like to go out with me, like walk walk...i means...girls..sometime do like to hang out with one they love, and i'm not asking him to buy this buy that, but just holding hands, walk aroung, thats all. but...everytime, end up with arguement....pretty sad. |
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