what i mean is 20 year-old and 30year-old couple..
is that big gap? erm...30 years old gap, i really a big gap ad...

This post has been edited by IqEqSeeker: Sep 22 2008, 04:05 PM

Ideal Age Gap - 4-6 years
Of cos the gal shud be younger than the guy

hey girls...
i'm 20 year-old. My bf is now 34 year-old. We love each other, and i feel very comfort when together with him. When i was talking with other guys that are similar age with me, i find that i can't communicate with them, they are rather childish or like to show off. The feeling so annoying. When i with my bf, i feel really being protected by him. I have to be more matured than the girl same age with me but i willing to change. Because i feel its worth. Pls share with me your opinion too.
CHeerss..

I think a 14-year gap is still ok. Girls tend to mature faster than guys anyway

how about im younger than you but i look older than you?

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Added on September 23, 2008, 12:12 amagree

This post has been edited by redline666: Sep 23 2008, 12:12 AM

Sorry to say if me, I wouldn't accept a big gap like 20 years. Imagine, me at 50 years old that time maybe my husband sei 9 jor.. If younger, can think think geh..

I take that as an insult.





j/k

Dun worry too much abt age gap laar ....as long as both parties are happy, is OK liao

There is nothing to worry about. When you are married...that will be the least of your worries cuz you will start to worry more on your kids and finances liao

I usually only meet guys max about five years older ... so that's my max

5years is also a big gap right?
if a girl is 22years old and the guy is only 17years old...
when they go out for date...it will looks like a sister bring the brother out...lolz...
another thing is...when the girl starts working and the guy still studying...it is another prob again...

ten years gap?for me,if the guy elder than the gal 10yrs then should be ok..but if terbalik,not so good lor..haha

yaya..even 5 years i also think not that good le...hehe...

Both happy is ok i think~ no nid to care much about age gap~
But if the woman is older jiu no tat gud woh~

10years ++ still can accept lah..

but some dont really accept that..

especialy old ppl...they will say bad things..n dont like tha guy for being so so old with their daughter..

if it is a guy older than a girl 5 years..it is accepted i think...

but how if de guy younger???haha...

i dont think it is good la..

well,my aunty is older than my uncle by at least 12 y/o... (not so sure the exact different about its bout that range la...) ...so far there isn't any problem with their marriage,they r still very much in love with each other... LoL...

it actually depends on both parties... is not always bout age gap but is bout communication n understanding...

sorry newbie here

erm...it depends on individual maybe...
some can accept it but some cant accept it...
but normally if guys older...more ppl can accept it i think...
but if it is opposite...mayb less ppl can accept it lo...
this is my opinion only la...hehe..

Agree indeed

My view:
Age isn't the barrier as long as both are comfortable and accept each other.