Closing skills? Don't get you sorry.

owh. forgot you were doing medicine. lol. sales talk. basically if she becomes, your girlfriend it means 'closing the deal' la bro. heh.

Oh yea, bad experience. Plus, i don't think i have it in me to really love another person again so soon. I'm just fed up of screwing around and being wild. Besides, i have a lot of gal friend to keep me company when i'm lonely. They're all great people and have always been there for me so it ain't that bad.
You tend to get lonely a bit sometimes but most of the time, you revel in your freedom.

i assume your gal friends are single? unfortunately, for me most of my close gal friends have boyfriends already and i always end up having misunderstandings with their boyfriends. lol. funny thing.

Some are single. Some aren't. But noneof them are turned off by muscles. That's why i find it weird that most guys at Cupid's Corner assume Asian women dislike muscular guys. Maybe they think that the women here represent the majority of females out there. They need to go out and socialize more.

spot on matey! no matter how you look at it, women are never turned off by muscle. it represents better sexual appeal. frankly speaking, most guys say they dont like too bulky muscle is not because they dont like but they cant get it lol.

It's annoying to hear things like i don't wanna get too big. People assume gaining an inch on chest or even half an inch on arms is easy. It's not. In fact, building a better body builds confidence. And I'm completely at ease when i talk a member of the opposite sex.

i preach bout the confidence part. it definitely does for some reason. also, you tend to talk with your chest sticking out and all. the only sport that pays for hardwork is bodybuilding. unlike other sports, to achieve greater heights, you need talent. but not for bodybuilding. thats the beauty of it.

p/s: i actually feel like were chatting lol.

So we are all untalented people?

i said you dont NEED talent for bodybuilding. i didnt say bodybuilders are not talented. read with you eyes, not your knees.

this sounds like another noel

We don't have an official chat thread so any of these can be chat threads.

I can flex my butt cheeks. That's rare talent.

COOL!! darkie darkie teach me!

thats gonna attract more happy ppl than ladies

Wow sounds like u have lots of admirers.

Y dont get one for urself? Could it be that you worry that she will be ur obstacle in your body building line?

i think is more of obstacle to his 90% girl friends

i would rather hear from the man himself. lol.

very true about the confidence part. you don't have to be massive, but i'm sure EVERY guy out there would definitely not object a slightly muscular and more toned body. let's face it, physical appearance always plays an important first impression.

I don't feel that i need someone special at the moment to make me feel complete. I'm quite content as I am right now. And no, she wouldn't be an obstacle. I'm not at the gym 24/7. Family and loved ones are more important. =)

Even if i get someone, possessiveness is a no no. Major turn off for me.

You have a point. I wouldn't say having a good physique is the only thing which has helped me get along with women. I always have had a lot of confidence talking with the opposite sex maybe because i grew up with a lot of them during my secondary school days. And i dislike talking about sports, football, modifying cars, etc.. things which typical guys talk about. I'm not shy at all because i think a woman is just like a normal human being, not an alien from another planet elevated on a pedestal. I've never been shy around them. But yeah, having a good physique definitely boosted my innate confidence.

If there is 1 thing that is certain for bodybuilders, is that their muscles represents their discipline and effort.

That would reflect back to females as dedication and commitment.