sometimes i donwan to hurt him or make arguement i giv him hint like 'hey come we talk dont play the pc liao' he is so defensive. when we argue i say he alwiz sms tat girl he say i have no girl outside and its up to u to believe it or not. i slap him and say if u wan me to believe u prove it u damn a$$hole!! its kinda headache la...

Violent doesn't solve your problem JyEn. Only will create more problems and opportunity and excuses for him to get nearer to his colleague.
It will be better if you confront him when you saw them acting odd since you already give up on him. Make a strong point for yourself when you already decided to leave him so that you won't regret for what you did. Take care of your son JyEn.

yeah a SHE. nicer than me. softer than me. pretty than me. thinner than me. closer than me. slutty than me. b****y than me. and i dont giv a damn...

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Added on June 5, 2008, 11:09 amthe only thing i can do is focus on my son. and also soon enuf im leaving him alone now. im goin my own way and doin stuff ive been left out for 2 years now. i will be in kl soon alone.. and i will left my son to him and see how he feel when i take care of my son when im beside him. he doesnt appreciate me now. nvm.. i can simple move on and i dont care..

This post has been edited by JyEn: Jun 5 2008, 11:09 AM

Your husband should feel shameful about himself for what he did. He got you pregnant and lie to you with all the sweet promises which ended up you in such situation. Your husband never thankful for what you did and sacrifice for him. Helping him in his financial needs is burden enough, leave alone helping him in maintaining the family is difficult enough. And he never thankful because you are wailing to give birth for his son.

What a MAN he is? Only polluting other man image which already 'polluted' enough!
Shame on your husband JyEn. Again, sorry if my comment offended you.

its ok zenox.. i dont mind... for me i know i will move on.. for him.. i dont know where his future is... my future r ruin when im pregnant.. i admit its my fault to trust him and make myself like this.. but den wat happen is past. all i want is move on.. i really cannot tahan his family.. and also the burden im getting... worst... coz my relation wif my parents r getting very worst due to every month asking for money... im lost...

Is good that you know is time to move on, for the sake of your son as well as your family.
Always remember, the closet person in this world will be your parents as well as your son. Leave the man alone and move on with what you left.

im moving on.. goin to kl to learn bout dogs grooming.. as dog r my souls too.. hehe...

i left everything when im pregnant.. i was a playgirl before.. but when im pregnant i learn more and more and change alot. My mom too can see how much i change.. but then my hubby tot im still slutty and never trust me either.. its hard in tis relation to be suppose sweet to bitter...

god.. u gotta help me out here..

Dog grooming. ==" Doesn't like dog that much. Little bit out of topics

Is good to hear you move on and changed to a better person.
Anyway, good luck in your future undertaking. Hope you won't repeat your past mistake. You still young, there is higher chances that one day you will meet you Mr.Right. As for your husband, god knows what to do with him.

LOL dogs aint out of topic. LOL... here i share all my worst nitemare. anyone wanna share their sweet marriage here too? yeah~ im done with my frustating morning.. LOL enjoy my story bah... hehe

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Added on June 5, 2008, 11:33 amthanks zenox for all advise and comments. music, dogs are my world to me. from this im better person... yeah ^^

This post has been edited by JyEn: Jun 5 2008, 11:33 AM

Dog isn't? Thought this topic supposed to be Anyone is married in young age.
Better get back to the topic or else the Admin will asked us to talk in Kopitiam section.
Haven't marry so no sweet marriage story.

No problem JyEn

This post has been edited by zenox0123: Jun 5 2008, 11:36 AM

haha im active in dog section too. LOL better treat yr gf more good... Haha LOL

Treat her well, but not well enough always there is a place to improve

yeah alwiz imrpoving yr relation is good. not like me.. cant liao.. haihz... duh~

Btw, how old is your son JyEn? MIL looking after your son?

my son is 1yrs7mth old. no everyone is working and im the only one taking care of him leaving me with my SIL pregnant and happen to be very stab-my-back mood now... duh

haha, let your SIL stab your back ba, soon she wont be able to stab your back as you moving out soon with your son of course. I wonder how would you MIL react since she likes grandson so much?

Quoted:
Some man made accidents, but some are made of accidents.

@JyEn

u r the one who had the same problems n situation wif my god sister haizzzzz i noe the feelings too.......i can feel women/girls always stronger then men/boys i really do not saying boys/men including me no use la no hard feeling

if im daddy,
if i get boy,i will be very hapy:-
1) i got a boy!
2) boys are more fun
3) i going to train him up in sports
4) i going to toughen him up
5) so that he wont be a sissy in teenager year, cause many father neglect their sons so their son become sisi in teenage years.

if i get a girl, i will be damn happy:-
1) girls are more nice
2) they are so cute
3) they will hate u when they reach their teens
4) and love u when they reach their adulthood
5) and is nice to pamper them.

no matter what, i want both.

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Added on June 5, 2008, 1:58 pmdo u work?
how much ur husband earns? and what he work?

This post has been edited by icypetals: Jun 5 2008, 01:58 PM

haha i really like wat u said