Nope, you are wrong. Not all guys want to go out and have fun and banging around.
The definition of tied can be vary among people. In this case I assume the tied is getting married.
Well for me, i dun mind getting tied by marrying my galgal now. It like what other forumer said: marry at what age is not a major problems, is why you wan to get married?
Well, I love my galgal so much that I had all the wedding plan written down and progressing stage by stage though i only a U-undergraduate.
Again, is not the when, is the why.

one word:
Patient

There is nothing you can do. What? some people will posting like asking you to divorce? JyEn I guess you are mature enough to think of the consequences and what I can advice you is:
1. Either you moved out from your place now together with your husband and son (I assuming that you are living with your MIL and SIL)

or

2. Patient. Wait till your son big enough and do whatever you wanted to do

Wow, ur husband
Well here I goes, I assuming that your are from err what should I say: Your family is richer than his?
If that is the case, why not, you moved back to your parents house? I believe that your parents love you so much till they bought your a house for your wedding gift, they will love your son as well as take care of your son while you pursuing your career at KL.
If your husband love you, he won't hesitate on living together with your parent since the your house is still under renovation.
Well for the birthday gift, I don't think every guy like to get money for birthday, I mean, every guy love money but not as a birthday present especially from wife, friends I don't mind
Well, I see there is nothing wrong for your husband asking you to give him a car for his birthday, I assume you pampered your husband too much.
I don't mean buy him a BMW or Ferrari. What I mean is, buying a car for your husband doesn't mean necessary need to pay for the whole car.
You can get a car for him and just pay the 10% down-payment and your husband pay/loan for the rest.
I would happy enough if my wife wailing to pay even for the fuel money

Wah, like that your husband is very irresponsible. I thought he just wan a car, I mean you pay for the down-payment and he settle the rest.
This is like asking wife to be ATM machine? sorry if my comment hurts you.
How old is your man? Wouldn't it will be better if you try talk to him on the financial burden you are having now? It's burden enough to living on your own + having a baby, what he else he want? Spend all your money?

a banker? yet to ask little helpless women for a 80K car? ask him to get a life! I feel stupid for defending him on my previous post. Yet again, he did not give you any home allowances but did he pay for the house allowances? I mean pay for the electrical bill, water bill, Astro, food, etc?
Tell you what, is he give you a black face, tell him that his face is black and whether he need a powder to make it whiter.
I mean, he might stress up in work, try get him into a relax mood and avoid talking about money in each argument, might end up he thinking that all you want is money.

is his colleague is a SHE? if yes....then i should not say anything further because you know what Im going to say.

Violent doesn't solve your problem JyEn. Only will create more problems and opportunity and excuses for him to get nearer to his colleague.
It will be better if you confront him when you saw them acting odd since you already give up on him. Make a strong point for yourself when you already decided to leave him so that you won't regret for what you did. Take care of your son JyEn.

Your husband should feel shameful about himself for what he did. He got you pregnant and lie to you with all the sweet promises which ended up you in such situation. Your husband never thankful for what you did and sacrifice for him. Helping him in his financial needs is burden enough, leave alone helping him in maintaining the family is difficult enough. And he never thankful because you are wailing to give birth for his son.

What a MAN he is? Only polluting other man image which already 'polluted' enough!
Shame on your husband JyEn. Again, sorry if my comment offended you.

Is good that you know is time to move on, for the sake of your son as well as your family.
Always remember, the closet person in this world will be your parents as well as your son. Leave the man alone and move on with what you left.

Dog grooming. ==" Doesn't like dog that much. Little bit out of topics

Is good to hear you move on and changed to a better person.
Anyway, good luck in your future undertaking. Hope you won't repeat your past mistake. You still young, there is higher chances that one day you will meet you Mr.Right. As for your husband, god knows what to do with him.

Dog isn't? Thought this topic supposed to be Anyone is married in young age.
Better get back to the topic or else the Admin will asked us to talk in Kopitiam section.
Haven't marry so no sweet marriage story.

No problem JyEn

This post has been edited by zenox0123: Jun 5 2008, 11:36 AM

Treat her well, but not well enough always there is a place to improve

Btw, how old is your son JyEn? MIL looking after your son?

haha, let your SIL stab your back ba, soon she wont be able to stab your back as you moving out soon with your son of course. I wonder how would you MIL react since she likes grandson so much?

ei, why wan burn down the tummy fat. Quite a number of guys out there like their partner to have a small tummy fat including myself.
Can bite my galgal tummy fat.

Sorry if I offended you.

Period? Nah just kidding.
About the broken family. I have a, em better said close relative who cases same as you. She ended up bringing up her son single-handed and her son now graduated and work as an engineer. What I'm trying to say is, your son wouldn't feel happy either if he know he don't have a responsible father and he might ended like my close-relative-son if he know he have a good and caring mother. Move on. Cheer.

My close-relative was only 18! and she moved to JB all by herself without knowing anyone at JB. She rent a house, find a job and that it.
Again, its up to you. Its your choice.

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Added on June 5, 2008, 5:50 pmExactly.

This post has been edited by zenox0123: Jun 5 2008, 05:50 PM

Great. Seems like you have everything plan and from what I see is that you are wailing to give your husband another chance before you get your dog grooming cert.
Good I guess, at the mean time
Patient!