So anyone here married in young age? I am and having some problems too. Anyone wanna share with me?

i am not. bt i have friends who marry at age as young as 15 and already have kids. mayb if u wanna have a chat or talk with them i can ask them for u.

oh really... anyone wanna share their experience?

u marry wat age ts?

when im 17 to be 18...

i have a fren who is an idiot
who got impregnated by her idiot boyfriend

and they have a very idiotic marriage


marriages like that never last. she is 20 btw and her bf 23.

I have another friend who got married at 18 with her bf whom she was together with since 13 . They are happily married and are pursuing their own careers atm.

Putting those 2 situation together and making a comparison.
The age which you get married at is not an issue, its the reason of getting married.

I actually have an ongoin bet on how long the idiots with a baby daughter on the way will fare throughout life.

I got a friend married after she accidentally pregnant....

LOL all the time young marriage is because the girl is pregnant. Nothing else.. it wont be LOVE influence the couple to married young.. Guy never want to get tied so fast at this young age.. they havent hav fun yet... am i rite? LOL

i agree with omnimech however i do think the safest bet in a happy marriage is to get married when your life is stable - job, finance, career, family problems, education, life goals etc. Thing is people change alot as they grow, especially in their youth. So believing you're in love at a young age is one thing. But promising someone at a young age you'll be their partner for life (marriage) is a whole different league altogether.

So if you can, wait. You never know what or who might happen

But when it all happens will it too late or you wont regret? Seeing your kids growing up day by day isnt it happiest of all?

wife also must maintain nice body and nice face.

dont after baby become fat but lazy to exercise away the fat.

Alot of case that husband find other wife because wife not attractive, but wife also nv put in any effort.
so both at fault.

so wifes, please go exercise and lose some weight after baby come out

The issue of marrying young of later is not a problem if both parties know what are the getting themselves into. For eg. My parents married young too, 20 and 23 cause I was accidentally "made", so no choice lor, get married.

BUT my parents were matured, they brought me up well. 23 years later, I am a first class graduate and currently working in Singapore as an auditor.

Problem will surely arise in a marriage, be it a young couple or older ones, just the way you handle the issue that make all the differences.

Talk to your husband your concern, if monetary is an issue, perhaps you guys should start to save. Like for myself, I am staying with my bf and I felt sort of like already 'Married' to him. We have our good and bad days but we alw resolved it before we sleep, you know.. the 'bed talk'.

It helps to strengthen your relationship and let your hubby knows your problem. I salute younger couple who took the plunge to be legally committed to each other, for myself, am saving for a nice wedding so probably 4 years later.

hahahaha this i agree... must maintain your figure..

I guess being tied is not the only problem, but at these ages we are still not financial independent, and got no fundamental to form a good quality family.

Plus its not bad to know ur partner better 1st and marry later rite, if wanna break after marry, its gonna be very troublesome

agree with it.. but know my dear for 6 years liao.. but matter of time is not the problem.. is how u survive everyday.. how u communicate and also how match u r.. keke

If you are really compatible, I dont see why not. But to marry early, make sure u have a clear idea of wat u r doing. Dont think probs can be resolved after marrying. C ya else where. I am active in Overclockers United.

havent married but sleep togehter on same bed?


Cool

anyone wan to share their experience for marrying young age?

it's already bad enough with the 50% divorce rate. Most young marriages don't last. I said MOST.

Nope, you are wrong. Not all guys want to go out and have fun and banging around.
The definition of tied can be vary among people. In this case I assume the tied is getting married.
Well for me, i dun mind getting tied by marrying my galgal now. It like what other forumer said: marry at what age is not a major problems, is why you wan to get married?
Well, I love my galgal so much that I had all the wedding plan written down and progressing stage by stage though i only a U-undergraduate.
Again, is not the when, is the why.