So anyone here married in young age? I am and having some problems too. Anyone wanna share with me?

oh really... anyone wanna share their experience?

when im 17 to be 18...

LOL all the time young marriage is because the girl is pregnant. Nothing else.. it wont be LOVE influence the couple to married young.. Guy never want to get tied so fast at this young age.. they havent hav fun yet... am i rite? LOL

But when it all happens will it too late or you wont regret? Seeing your kids growing up day by day isnt it happiest of all?

hahahaha this i agree... must maintain your figure..

agree with it.. but know my dear for 6 years liao.. but matter of time is not the problem.. is how u survive everyday.. how u communicate and also how match u r.. keke

anyone wan to share their experience for marrying young age?

why did u married in young age? Because of pregnancy? Or Love? But really most of all is pregnancy... i seen so much included myself is because pregnancy.

woah tough question but i aint playing. doin it with yr loved one is not playing dude.. LOL

Im married when im 17 to be 18 because i was pregnant. 1st year it was tough for us because before married we go thru long distance relationship. 1st year is worst as im pregnant and alwiz moody. Added my MIL doesnt like me. Then when my son is born everything changed. They love my son and mean time my status is upgrade. Old people likes son than daughter. I dont mind but my sis in law envy of it and pregnant for her 1st. Its was tough as she keep compete with me in everything. Then when doc confirm her pregnancy was a girl she is very mad and become more and more jealous of me. She almost everyday stab my back and make me and my parents in law relation worst. Then when her daughter is born not long she pregnant again. Now she is almost wanna giv birth liao but still she doesnt satisfied coz doctor said this 2nd one also a girl. These few days she keep told everyone she dream of boy the one she is carrying now. Its hard to leave in a family that selfish, unreasonable and also a husband that not mature enough yet. He is working and all this while he is asking money from me. For my son sake i really doesnt want to see my marriage ruin like this but i really cant stand this whole situation anymore. What u guys think if u r in my shoe?

Thanks for advise zenox but im moving out soon. My parents bought a house for me for my wedding 2 years ago and now its under renovation. But i also dont have the chance to move in with my hubby and son coz im moving alone to KL as i need to learn dog grooming at KL. So he and my son will be staying with his parents in other new house they just bought. I wont be staying with them maybe one year plus so im not worried. It just that i dont know why my hubby is like this. I been patience with him for 2 years, trying to make him happy for 2 years and giving what i can but he still never satisfied. More hurt is on his bday i giv him a lum sum of cash ( i know not all wife givin husband cash on his bday) but u know wat he say? he hurt me by saying i donwan cash i wan car.... WTF !!! damn... hurt enuf tho...

duh... he doesnt mean a car for nothing. He want me to pay for everything. The car is 80K dude!!! where the heck im gonna take the money from? U know my parents aint givin a cent for it rite? duh.. i told him slowly we will get our own but den he will giv me black face if i say that... i wonder if he married me n donwan let me go coz my parents money? duh... and one more thing is he never giv me a cent to spend even rm50 every month! i know he doesnt hav girl outside but den i cannot tahan la...

its ok im not offended of any comments as i already giv up on love and also mens. empty promises. changes after marriage. he is 24 and im 20 to be 21. My son doesnt spend alot. Just Rm200 per month and his salary still can stand this fees. He is a banker. I know u will say thats should be no problem.. But here it is.. me here writing this bullshit and messing up my hair thinking of a solution.

wisd dont u tink i ever talk before? But once i talk nicely, he will giv me a black face that really makes my heart broken and also he will ignored me. then if he still doesnt satisfied he will argue with me. which lead to worst cases like strangle me, hurt my hand etc. He even call bad words like ' *** nia seng' , ' chao hai' when he is not in the mood. so am i d one doin wrong now? or what?


This post has been edited by JyEn: Jun 5 2008, 10:35 AM

thats why i said im givin up and im not trusting men anymore. all r hurts and just lies. he is stress but when come to sms and msn with his so-called- collegue he is very very semangat one. come back home open msn chat. sms her. put phone out of reach. reload every 2 or 3 days rm10 each time. he also reload for me rm10 but then i use it for almost 2 weeks!!!! he reload every 2 or 3 days!!!! how am i gonna stand this $hit!!!

sometimes i donwan to hurt him or make arguement i giv him hint like 'hey come we talk dont play the pc liao' he is so defensive. when we argue i say he alwiz sms tat girl he say i have no girl outside and its up to u to believe it or not. i slap him and say if u wan me to believe u prove it u damn a$$hole!! its kinda headache la...

yeah a SHE. nicer than me. softer than me. pretty than me. thinner than me. closer than me. slutty than me. b****y than me. and i dont giv a damn...

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Added on June 5, 2008, 11:09 amthe only thing i can do is focus on my son. and also soon enuf im leaving him alone now. im goin my own way and doin stuff ive been left out for 2 years now. i will be in kl soon alone.. and i will left my son to him and see how he feel when i take care of my son when im beside him. he doesnt appreciate me now. nvm.. i can simple move on and i dont care..

This post has been edited by JyEn: Jun 5 2008, 11:09 AM

its ok zenox.. i dont mind... for me i know i will move on.. for him.. i dont know where his future is... my future r ruin when im pregnant.. i admit its my fault to trust him and make myself like this.. but den wat happen is past. all i want is move on.. i really cannot tahan his family.. and also the burden im getting... worst... coz my relation wif my parents r getting very worst due to every month asking for money... im lost...

im moving on.. goin to kl to learn bout dogs grooming.. as dog r my souls too.. hehe...

i left everything when im pregnant.. i was a playgirl before.. but when im pregnant i learn more and more and change alot. My mom too can see how much i change.. but then my hubby tot im still slutty and never trust me either.. its hard in tis relation to be suppose sweet to bitter...

god.. u gotta help me out here..

LOL dogs aint out of topic. LOL... here i share all my worst nitemare. anyone wanna share their sweet marriage here too? yeah~ im done with my frustating morning.. LOL enjoy my story bah... hehe

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Added on June 5, 2008, 11:33 amthanks zenox for all advise and comments. music, dogs are my world to me. from this im better person... yeah ^^

This post has been edited by JyEn: Jun 5 2008, 11:33 AM