huh? what are you talking about?

whilst being narrow minded, they are still the general expectations of ur husband. just as u expect them to work, make money and of course support and lvoe you, don't quite expect them to do so without something in return.

no doubt it sounds a bit shallow, but husbands do want to go back home and look at their wifes who are pretty. it's quite depressing (yes it's very shallow and narrow minded), but sad to say, that's how guys are.

eh sayang, if you mean hitting on elena by "buaya",
um, hello? my name is ALEXANDRA. i'm a GIRL! in a relationship!!!!
what's wrong with praising her anyway? =.=
some people just like to think so badly

haha ... im just spamming

hm, not all guys are like that, you know.
and, women nowadays are expected to work, take care of their children, clean the house, blablabla....
so what? den we expect our husbands to do what?
work? we do that too.
love us? we do that too.
men also get big bellies, and i don't see anyone telling them off to go to the gym.
we too want to look at good looking guys in that case.

i guess it wouldn't be asking too much if u asked them to work out and have body muscles too, then XD

gym enterance RM15 ... if 1 week go 4 time ... need RM240 wor

umm, we are from the same world.

im just telling u wat husband thinks and never say
is up to u whether u want to listen and look into the world of man or neglect it urself, from wat i see, i think u choose not to listen

gave u insight of majority of man, is man wishes, what u expect? even if she is fat, the husband stil love her.
but many husband still want their wives to be skinny.

so im telling something a husband nv say except sharing among friends,
whether u want listen or not la

hahaha! true!

well, if you really think that majority of men think that way den i'd agree with you.
hahaha!
well, too bad then. nowadays girls don really bother with these kind of men
not worth the effort.
all i'm saying is this thinking is wrong and you should change it.

girls also secretly want their husband to look like this

than this


is just human instinct la, whether he have it or not also u still love him, but he look like that, bonus features lol
girls also same, whether fat or not, we still love them, but if they exercise and keep fit, bonus features lol.

Well thats the best we can give them right? material stuff can be bought, but the satisfaction when u see them priceless
for other stuff, there is mastercard

depends, gym membership range from rm60-150.
depending la, exercising at home is quite hard as there are so many distraction.
I like going gym better, at least no distraction, and u get motivated.
if both couple go toghether, is a wonderful experince.

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Added on June 5, 2008, 9:50 pmwhether bother or not i donno, i dont live in woman's planet.

im from man's planet so i tell some man's mind, woman dont understand man but from what i see is they dont want to listen.

im just sharing some secret stuff in man's mind with u that u cant get unless u live in man's planet.

u might share some woman stuff with me and i dont agree cause i dont live in woman's planet.

So no matter what the flame war ends, majority man stil prefer girl which is fit. u can say if he because of who i am, yes, but still, we want u to be fit ma. do u wonder why man drool over angelina jolie?

This post has been edited by icypetals: Jun 5 2008, 09:50 PM

finally you're talking some sense. swt!
like you said, its a bonus.
men who use the excuse of fat wives to flirt around are just (=.=)

oh yes, gym is not that exp. its about... rm100 per month.
btw, i think couples jogging together in the morning are very sweet
jogging for the sake of time spent together, not just to lose weight.

DONT DROOL OVER ANGIE! SHE IS MINE!! WAKAKA

haha, den guys should work out for their wives too then.

we do, but some are just plain lazy, u go gym, u can see many man workout, u go health&fitness thread, got a thread about "Motivation, what drives u?" many replied:" my gf"

hahaha nothing motivates a man like the thought of losing his gf to a tougher looking guy.

U guys are totally running from the thread already...hmmm...people talking bout early marriage probs and u guys are about working out.

haha, den women also keep fit and dress up for the same reason
but i don't i just lack that motivation.

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Added on June 5, 2008, 9:58 pmoh yaloh. back to the topic lah!

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Added on June 5, 2008, 10:00 pmoh ya, btw, i think you'd be happier if you bring him along, no matter how tiring and how big a burden it will turn out to be.
from the kind of you you describe him to be, if you leave him there with your husband, he might hate you by the time you go home to see him.
leave him with your family, its better than leaving him with that guy.

This post has been edited by alexandrak: Jun 5 2008, 10:00 PM

this IS early marrige problem, after birth the wife become fat, so is related

then u better start geting some motivation.
sign urself up along with ur bf/hubby to a gym or badminton lessons, or get some friends.
or ask ur bf/hubby to run with u in the morning.
is sweet, healthy, good for ur relationship, and u Look GREAT!

somemore when ur friend all plum plum, u get to feel special cause u look hot.
when ur husband takes u out, he feels proud to take u out, show off to his friend, it feels great for both the husband and wifes.

isnt that enough reason for u to start?

no! hahaha! coz frankly my bf doesn't mind my size he likes plump girls.
seriously. omg. he's force feeding me!
haha, its okay. i think my figure is good enuf
and i jog with my bf sometimes. just for fun

This post has been edited by alexandrak: Jun 5 2008, 10:03 PM

Holy... I am 13, so hoping and praying I dont marry b4 I am 20!