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 Anyone is married in young age?

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ne0cz
post Jun 6 2008, 10:49 AM

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QUOTE(MSA @ Jun 5 2008, 11:55 PM)
WOW .. ICYPETAL .. your here making trouble eh ..heheh .. First @ Health & Fitness now here ..  sweat.gif MOD never give you enough spanking over there so come here and display your insult towards people ? or should i say cower  brows.gif

- First thing i wanna lay down is you do not represent all the men. I would be DAMN embarrassed for a 16 year old BOY to represent all of MEN. Please BOY go home to your mummy..

- Second thing . By insulting women that way you have already insulted your MUM ! NO DON'T you dare deny Women and MUM are different. They give birth you and your future child. And please show some respect

- Third thing. Skinny wife or not skinny wife ... please don't degrade them .. They are WOMEN. without WOMEN there won't be MEN and without MEN there won't be WOMEN. You should learn how to respect people before you gain respect

This guy is an example and a display of coward.  I am a FATHER of 3 and i feel SO INSULTED that you can say those words. You can check his history post, he have gone thru debates with me and mods as well and now you dare to insult the women of the world ... SHAME on you  mad.gif

to mod: I do apologize that this Topic have swayed a little bit but I can't just sit here letting women being victims -period-

thank you

p.s. a 13 year old boy (ne0cz) don't bring up as much rubbish as you do ...
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Hehe, dont call my post rubbish....sedih la budak cam aku ni....aku ni...aduhh.....sedih...sedihhh
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post Jun 6 2008, 11:19 AM

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QUOTE(ne0cz @ Jun 6 2008, 10:49 AM)
Hehe, dont call my post rubbish....sedih la budak cam aku ni....aku ni...aduhh.....sedih...sedihhh
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post Jun 6 2008, 11:19 AM

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QUOTE(ne0cz @ Jun 6 2008, 10:49 AM)
Hehe, dont call my post rubbish....sedih la budak cam aku ni....aku ni...aduhh.....sedih...sedihhh
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To ne0cz: Adoi .. sorry .. i didn't mean it that way .. please do accept my sincere apology.

to lucaswjk: I don't mean to hijack the topic or anything like that but me and elena_k have history with this dude called Icypetal. You can check it out. Me and my wife is trying to help JyEn as much as we could as well.
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To airseal: I'm humbled by your opinions. Everything you mentioned in Pros and Cons are very true. But what made my marriage different is I'd always focus on the good things in life. Yes I am married young I do not look at it a bad way but I look at it as a blessing in our relationship. Once we can focus on the good things I kinda outweighed the CONS in a lot of way and slowly one by one problem starts to go away.



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TSJyEn
post Jun 6 2008, 11:31 AM

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No one want reply this post liao ma? If no i will close this thread liao oh..


Added on June 6, 2008, 11:31 ami did reply my post at page 7.. read it bah...

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post Jun 6 2008, 11:38 AM

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Temporarily closing thread for cleaning (and whipping IF necessary.)

DONE

Please stay in topic and refrain from posting overly generalized and sexist remarks.

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TSJyEn
post Jun 6 2008, 04:40 PM

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Guys the thread have been re-open. Try stick to the topic. Dont out of topic. Thanks!
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post Jun 6 2008, 05:15 PM

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QUOTE(elena_k @ Jun 5 2008, 11:31 PM)
haha thank you...
tell you the secret.. no slimming parlors.. no exercises..
it's only by looking after my 3 monkeys..
my gym is at home.. chasing them.. running up and down the stairs.. do house chores..

you're only 18 but you don't talk nonsense... so it's alright...
yup guys around that age does mature slower than girls...hehe


Added on June 5, 2008, 11:35 pm

haiya girls like to praise girls one..
hehe wink wink...

sheahann.. you jeolous ar??
excuse me.. i'm married with 3 kids...

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Hi Elena,

How are you? I was surprised that you are on LYN too wink.gif I didn't know it was you until I checked on your profile and I saw your picture. So how are you and Jake doing? as well as your family?

It has been years that I have not seen nor talked to Jake since we last lepak in cybercafe back in many years ago smile.gif It seems that you've grown maturely over these years and definitely thumbup.gif up to you and to Jake. It's not easy to raise a family indeed.

Send my regards to Jake wink.gif
TSJyEn
post Jun 6 2008, 06:20 PM

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please stay focus to the topic! dont spam my thread or else i kena warning!!! duh!!
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post Jun 6 2008, 06:46 PM

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u said a lot of bad thing about your husband...
but i think your scenario is like asking your husband to put up the toilet seat everytime he piss...

overall i still think both of your still immature...
eg. arguing handphone $$$ is very childish
life is long, u need to learn to understand each other better
something like mens r from mars and women r from venus...

overall this need your whole life time to discover each other.
i guess your husband is carefree type, i donno whether he still love u or not... but since u r married to him, dont compare him with other guys... this will make u look like a slut...

try talk to him, r u really think u can no longer able to love him...
is this true? give both a chance... try 1 or 2 years
dont make excuse by running away... moving out alone not your option and will never be your solution

ps: whenever u wan to hv serious talk to him, please dont talk alone, bring somebody to talk especially someone with experience, fair to both of u... someone like marriages counselor.
there r many organization work for free, they willing to help!!!

i believe if he really love u, u r able to fall in love all over again
good luck to u

note: please put [serious talk] on the thread title. this will put cast away all those annoy spammer...
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post Jun 6 2008, 08:29 PM

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i think you should know what you should do by now smile.gif
we can advise till the cows come home but the decision is yours and yours alone.
just spend time alone thinking about it, maybe ask your parents whether they can help out as well?
i'm sure deep deep down you know what's best for yourself.
we're all outsiders, we don't know the true situation, how bad it is and such.

there's no use whining and complaining about it then yeah.
make a decision and move on.
just make sure you make one that you won't regret later on biggrin.gif

all the best in your life! laugh.gif
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post Jun 7 2008, 01:29 PM

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QUOTE(alexandrak @ Jun 6 2008, 08:29 PM)
i think you should know what you should do by now smile.gif
we can advise till the cows come home but the decision is yours and yours alone.
just spend time alone thinking about it, maybe ask your parents whether they can help out as well?
i'm sure deep deep down you know what's best for yourself.
we're all outsiders, we don't know the true situation, how bad it is and such.

there's no use whining and complaining about it then yeah.
make a decision and move on.
just make sure you make one that you won't regret later on biggrin.gif

all the best in your life! laugh.gif
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Absolutely right my friend, or should I say, fiend? laugh.gif It is 99% your choice, and only 0.1% our guidance(the rest is enviroment variables). So, make ur choice, think out an idea. Solve it together with ur hubby, I still think it is better that way. Bertepuk sebelah tangan tidak akan berbunyi. So, peace. icon_rolleyes.gif
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post Jun 7 2008, 02:16 PM

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I'm not married and have a kid. Boy, it's tough tongue.gif
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post Jun 7 2008, 02:42 PM

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too many OT fella around here =. ="
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post Jun 7 2008, 03:29 PM

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my conclusions after reading ur post,..
doesnt matter what cause u to marry him, its in a past
$hit happens but "its the titanic u want to save instead screaming madly at the iceberg"

but,..
having working hubby that doesn't give u a penny, instead asking money frm a housewife cause her parents a rich & being 'friendly' with a SHE-collegues and said 'we are JUST Friends'.. all I can advised u..

Ditch that loser.
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post Jun 7 2008, 06:11 PM

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'we are JUST Friends' i think should be 'we are MORE than JUST a friend' sweat.gif sweat.gif

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post Jun 8 2008, 11:30 PM

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if ur marriage is based on pregnancy and puppy love ( within 2 years) i really wouldn't recommend u to do so......

life's a long way and much exp to get
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post Jun 8 2008, 11:40 PM

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thanks guy for all the useful advise. but then ive make my own decison. catsefer me n him its 6 years already. too long enuf to know him better... like today i told him im goin to kl already.. i tot he will say ' i miss u' but then the only thing he say was ' then how about my car? ' damn.. so this is end.. im glad im leavin to KL soon... thank god im waking up!
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post Jun 9 2008, 12:25 AM

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QUOTE(JyEn @ Jun 8 2008, 11:40 PM)
the only thing he say was ' then how about my car?

i think he didnt have dangerous sense... totally clueless guy
he still didnt wake up from his sweet dream, i can said he is not sensitive and (hate to said this ~ mayb not concerning u too)
if he didnt concern bout u after u moving out... then he is official a jerk

well since u hv decided leaving him, make sure u stay contact with your son
telephone or gift is not enuf, u need to visit, hug, kiss, talk and sleep together
then your son will understand...

many ppl choose to walk away from marriages...
but r u sure u dont wan marriages consultant?
new life is not easy, but this is a new road u choose to walk...
there r always available finishing line, u just need determination...
you r adult now, able to decide wisely... believe in yourself
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post Jun 9 2008, 09:48 AM

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i will alwiz come back to see him as i miss him and he is my world to me... yeah i know.. i believe in myself so im leavin..
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post Jun 9 2008, 10:08 AM

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QUOTE(feyhime @ Jun 6 2008, 11:38 AM)
Temporarily closing thread for cleaning (and whipping IF necessary.)

DONE

Please stay in topic and refrain from posting overly generalized and sexist remarks.
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QUOTE(JyEn @ Jun 6 2008, 06:20 PM)
please stay focus to the topic! dont spam my thread or else i kena warning!!! duh!!
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If topic went off I don't think your the one who get's the warning ...... mad.gif

No offense but I feel like there's a lot of thing is hidden by the TS. If you need icon_question.gif please be clear.

Things developed too fast and you seem to find excuse to hide your trouble OR you just want pity ? There are just too many illogical things going on. You seek so much attention in this Topic and yet You want people to immediately stay on track and stay on topic and wants immediate reply.

I think majority here have given you an answer what you should do but somehow after we advise you somehow there's something or problem to add on after that. I just feel that there are too much uncertainty in this topic. You don't trust your husband and "YET" you want to leave your child with him ? To be honest i find that really awkward. Even though when i was young, and my mum had no money. She would protect me from whatever trouble she believed in. I'm just starting to have doubts with this topic

I really do not have ANY idea what you seek in here ? If you or anyone things i'm too harsh. I'm sorry but that's just me being honest.

This post has been edited by MSA: Jun 9 2008, 10:10 AM

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