maybe i'm not ready to meet him again. we don't have common fren, we work in different field in which we not gonna meet.
by doing so, i feel that he is moving away from my life. so i can get my life back on track.
i already accepted the truth. we are living separate lives.
well, different ppl different way of dealing with this heart break.
i works for me.

Cry and dry up your tears!
Hang out with friends..
Get ready move to new life...
Or else u may suffer for nothing for few months like me..


Listen:

"林建挥 - 内伤"
"张智林 - 你太善良"
"张学友 - 三天两夜"
"方力申 - 好心好报"
"My chemical romance - I dont love you"

thanks for the songs

seriouslly i donno what happen to her... today morning she accept me back
but she still moody
should i give her sometime to relax?
this morning she seems happy accept me back and told me she love me too wor...

Erm, if just small argument, then is fine.. for a cold war. Yeah u just give her some time. Means u totally let her do whatever she wants. But u maybe leave a msg to let her know that u "waiting her"

dont ever try to find her in middle...this may affect the mood.

What I experienced.. is I actually did find her and spoiled everything. What I understand for this situation is...

1) she really need to relax... maybe lots of stress..
2) she need to know her own feelings that will miss you or not.
If she realise it. Only 2 ending. 1 is back to you, give chance each other... 2nd is a good bye... and will totally forget abt u..

3) if have 3rd party.. probably she is decide n choosing...

Expand (3): my situation.. she dump me for 1stime and came bak after.. then maybe the 3rd party has hardcore doing effort to get her.. While I am still in the " give time to relax" mode.she maybe think that I just ignore and dont care her. So she dump me again... I critical X2 get dump in 1 week.. is up to you if really same situation with (3)

4) maybe she has something that cant tell u or hurt u, may be her parents dont allowed. Or she has dream to complete.. or she have to going far... that hard to maintain this relation anymore...

For conclusion, no matter which situation of above.. you just need to give her time and dont disturb her.. and prepare something that for happy ending (ex. A present, flower, or dinner invitation). No matter what answer... just let it be.. just dont find out what really happens...so that at least can be still friends.. or continue happy life...

"张学友 - 相爱很难" 歌词 ..." 无论热恋中失恋中, 都永远记住第一戒, 别要张开双眼"

Is 2 months of me..its so hurt to me. Because I open wide my eye and find out and seen the truth and reality.. then lots of "why" & "if" comes out from my mind, I still cant move on also..but slightly reduce the pain somehow..this is my own personal sentimental..I cant really drop down everything just like that..maybe I really need to see the most cruel things just can move on..

So, if u same type with me. Good luck man.. dont drowning too deep..

If u dont want hurt self. Just stop if bad ending.
Do better effort if good ending.

so true... i told her no matter wat i will wait her... then today her mood abit ok d... she say give me 1 month chance to make her love me back
then slowly slowly pujuk lor
maybe she is stress cus she is goin to study
and her parent dont like me T_T
need to let her cool down adi then pancing her back huhu
thanks for the advice...
erm got more chinese songs ma? haha
i donno to write chinese...
got any nice chinese song recomen? haha

Not sure here is allowed to post other thing besides discussions about main topic or not. Sorry bro. U can pm me for song list. But recently I only listening sad songs.

I just recovered myself from broken relationship ~

That's real hurt !

yea it hurts T.T

Real hurts !!!!!!!!!!!

it really hurts a lot.

Yeap but is ok ...I still alive !

Yeap. life still goes on no matter how.

This post has been edited by -yl-: Aug 8 2013, 12:46 AM

is not easy to find a girl that I love ~ :/

is not easy to find a guy that I love & he loves me too...

One day you will ..... trust me

I believe u will find the girl u love too

...if only there was a switch. You can switch your memories of him so easily. I don't think it's that easy to love again. I would drown myself with work, but sometimes I unintentionally cry on my desk and I can't hide but rush out to somewhere secluded to cry some more.

Maybe for people who have been in many relationships. They have 'Been there done' that experience, so what's another breakup?

If cry can make you feel comfortable, dont worry where start flowing your tear. I believe, something shouldnt hide.
Give yourself more time, someday you will found someone that appreciate you and love you again.

Thank you LYN , I started a new good and sweet relationship

This post has been edited by Red Tsubasa: Aug 11 2013, 11:32 PM