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dragon528
post Aug 1 2013, 07:28 PM

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QUOTE(kagamistar @ Aug 1 2013, 07:11 PM)
This is killing me..i love this person so much...but things will go nowhere...
Keep crying...i dont know how i am going to open my heart...
Maybe i ll be just...forever alone?
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Don't just because a single relationship then you give up whole forest. There is a lot people still alive even after a broken heart.
dragon528
post Aug 1 2013, 07:49 PM

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QUOTE(-yl- @ Aug 1 2013, 07:35 PM)
you will survive eventually.

my experience:
act nothing in front of ppl.
pray that they wont ask anything about ur bf/gf.
at behind, still feel sad, heartache.
heart broken. there is 1 moment, suddenly i can understand the feeling of ppl commit suicide bcoz of broken relationship. heartache till wan die.

i'm still struggle with my past relationship. sometime i do feel i don't have the ability to love someone anymore.
nvm, u got 1 "forever alone" kaki here.
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Well i don't think avoid facing the fact can make you feel any better.
It better share out that you have break up. Your friend or parents also relative will understand. Why hope other don't ask?

Whenever people ask me, I just said break up already. Just telling the truth. No need scare people ask. The more you avoid, the more sad. Face it. Nobody will die without anyone.
dragon528
post Aug 1 2013, 08:27 PM

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QUOTE(-yl- @ Aug 1 2013, 08:08 PM)
i tried b4. i thought i start to recover. i told some of my close fren. 1 of my fren ask: "y? what happen? u 2 look very ok. still trying to say good things about him, told me maybe he is XXX, YYY, u both still can be together etc etc."  end up, tat nite i couldn't sleep again. i think bukan-bukan. sad sad sad.

i dun wan to lie to my fren. i hope they wont ask. when i'm ok a bit, i will think of a way to tell them.

my pass relationship still haunting me now and then. everyday, i have different thought, i will sad sad sad, heartache heartache heartache, i will comfort myself, think think think. will relieve a bit. so at night i can sleep. keep repeating everyday. at 1st, i thought i will feel better if i angry, ignore him, scold him. i feel suffer. then suddenly i thought it will be better if we still fren. i ask whether we can be fren again, he said ya, but d way he shows me is like dun wan fren with me. i feel suffer again. i know i shouldn't think, but i can't control myself.

most of the time i have no appetite to eat. skip lunch, skip dinner. eat a little. i know i shouldn't be like this. but...
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I understand your feeling. Truly. It just the same to me for past few month. My gf even work same cmpany with me and have underground relationship with my department colleague. Sad, can't eat, can't sleep, scare, worry, think, many more.

But if you don't brave yourself. You suffer even more. If the relationship is over, pass it. Friend or not, not decide by now. Let future decide for you. We don't put the blame on who now. But just remind yourself that those was history and now is future.

Wether your friend tell you got chance or not, advise or laugh or whatever. Just face it, tell them is over.
dragon528
post Aug 1 2013, 08:51 PM

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QUOTE(-yl- @ Aug 1 2013, 08:41 PM)
how do u tell ur fren, parents, relatives about ur broken relationship?
announce in FB? told them personally? text them?
i was thinking a way to tell them n hope they won't ask.
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If they understand you, I'm sure they won't ask too much. A little I think you should tolerate it. Everybody also curious right?

Just tell them honestly. You definitely feel better. Don't hide your feeling. Cry whenever it needed. Nothing to feel shy about.
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post Aug 2 2013, 12:16 AM

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QUOTE(-yl- @ Aug 1 2013, 09:07 PM)
all right. i will give myself a time frame, after raya holiday.
no matter how, i got to face my failure in relationship.
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nod.gif trust yourself.

Confidence can overcome everything.
dragon528
post Aug 2 2013, 01:05 AM

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QUOTE(chongtiensum @ Aug 2 2013, 12:57 AM)
haiz just get dump today T_T stressfull any help?
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Well relax yourself. Stop the history thinking memory.
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post Aug 2 2013, 09:46 AM

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QUOTE(kagamistar @ Aug 2 2013, 09:43 AM)
Im not the one who easily layan new people...
Friends, i really in love...but it will not go anywhere.i knew the person loves me too...
But since the relationship cannot go anywhere..
I cant be friends...but i do care about him...
I want to move on..but im not like really easy like, hi nak berkenalan...
Im not that type of person..
He loves me because it grows naturally.we were friend before we were in a relationship..
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Maybe you can share us your story before anyone can give advise?

Perhaps start a thread let everyone help you .
dragon528
post Aug 3 2013, 02:46 AM

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QUOTE(-yl- @ Aug 2 2013, 07:20 PM)
i wouldn't meet him anymore, can't talk with him, he wont reply my msg, unfriend him in FB, so I wont look for his info n his FB post wont pop up in my timeline. this make me feel better. I can't think of any better idea to make me feel better.
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Lying won't make you feel better cause you know they exist there.

To me, I rather face it and accept it.

Friends told me that, I'm not missing her but is the memories of us that we been together during the good time.
dragon528
post Aug 11 2013, 08:29 PM

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QUOTE(serend1p1ty @ Aug 10 2013, 08:01 PM)
...if only there was a switch. You can switch your memories of him so easily. I don't think it's that easy to love again. I would drown myself with work, but sometimes I unintentionally cry on my desk and I can't hide but rush out to somewhere secluded to cry some more.

Maybe for people who have been in many relationships. They have 'Been there done' that experience, so what's another breakup?
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If cry can make you feel comfortable, dont worry where start flowing your tear. I believe, something shouldnt hide.
Give yourself more time, someday you will found someone that appreciate you and love you again.
dragon528
post Jan 28 2014, 03:41 PM

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I have a girl friend of mine that we have been dinning, hanging out, movie and etc etc. But she have a girl partner. I'm tried to move on but seems a little hard for me.

Me myself also dont even know how to describe myself. Am I too stupid or silly to try to win her heart?
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post Jan 29 2014, 05:04 PM

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QUOTE(Zoros3112 @ Jan 29 2014, 04:14 PM)
Girlfriend or girl friend?????what is your point dude??Pls state out your issues more clearkly pls...
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Girl type friend. Well, she can be cold and hot toward me, I'm in the dilemma state now. She did point out that she had a girl partner aka she les type.

This made me not sure what to do. I tried to move on, but it not that easy thou. cry.gif

 

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