someone told me, u just assume ur ex is dead. some1 close to u who is no longer in this world. when some1 close to u pass away, u definitely will feel very very sad. but u can't do anything but just let go. deep down in ur heart, u still miss him but u will never get back to him anymore. no point keep thinking about pass. keep ur sadness aside, life still goes on. this is where u think how to get over ur broken relationship by hangout wif ur fren, chit chat wif fren, focus on ur work/studies, exercise, get new hobbies, get new fren etc. u have more time to focus on urself. u r free to do anything u wan, so treat urself better.

when u break up with ur bf/gf, the difficult part not only how to get over it but also how to tell ur parents, ur friend that u 2 break up.
if hurt when u never thought of ur relationship ended so fast.
u still in the process of healing, forget about he/she but ur friend suddenly ask u about ur bf/gf, what would u tell them? how do u announce that u have broken relationship so no1 will ask about ur gf/bf anymore?

This post has been edited by -yl-: Jul 28 2013, 05:04 PM

you will survive eventually.

my experience:
act nothing in front of ppl.
pray that they wont ask anything about ur bf/gf.
at behind, still feel sad, heartache.
heart broken. there is 1 moment, suddenly i can understand the feeling of ppl commit suicide bcoz of broken relationship. heartache till wan die.

i'm still struggle with my past relationship. sometime i do feel i don't have the ability to love someone anymore.
nvm, u got 1 "forever alone" kaki here.

This post has been edited by -yl-: Aug 1 2013, 07:38 PM

i tried b4. i thought i start to recover. i told some of my close fren. 1 of my fren ask: "y? what happen? u 2 look very ok. still trying to say good things about him, told me maybe he is XXX, YYY, u both still can be together etc etc." end up, tat nite i couldn't sleep again. i think bukan-bukan. sad sad sad.

i dun wan to lie to my fren. i hope they wont ask. when i'm ok a bit, i will think of a way to tell them.

my pass relationship still haunting me now and then. everyday, i have different thought, i will sad sad sad, heartache heartache heartache, i will comfort myself, think think think. will relieve a bit. so at night i can sleep. keep repeating everyday. at 1st, i thought i will feel better if i angry, ignore him, scold him. i feel suffer. then suddenly i thought it will be better if we still fren. i ask whether we can be fren again, he said ya, but d way he shows me is like dun wan fren with me. i feel suffer again. i know i shouldn't think, but i can't control myself.

most of the time i have no appetite to eat. skip lunch, skip dinner. eat a little. i know i shouldn't be like this. but...

how do u tell ur fren, parents, relatives about ur broken relationship?
announce in FB? told them personally? text them?
i was thinking a way to tell them n hope they won't ask.

all right. i will give myself a time frame, after raya holiday.
no matter how, i got to face my failure in relationship.

i wouldn't meet him anymore, can't talk with him, he wont reply my msg, unfriend him in FB, so I wont look for his info n his FB post wont pop up in my timeline. this make me feel better. I can't think of any better idea to make me feel better.

maybe i'm not ready to meet him again. we don't have common fren, we work in different field in which we not gonna meet.
by doing so, i feel that he is moving away from my life. so i can get my life back on track.
i already accepted the truth. we are living separate lives.
well, different ppl different way of dealing with this heart break.
i works for me.

it really hurts a lot.

Yeap. life still goes on no matter how.

This post has been edited by -yl-: Aug 8 2013, 12:46 AM

is not easy to find a guy that I love & he loves me too...

I believe u will find the girl u love too