Well I have found a quote is useful for broken heart who still feelling "miss/love him/her"

You Don't Actually Miss Him/Her, You Just Miss The Idea of Who or How You Wanted Him/Her to be.

Don't put any hope or imagination in mind for turning back or lots of "if". Once they left. Wont be back. The most possible if they came back, probably someday when you already lost feelings to them or you has another gf or married.

For more detail, here is the article to help for understanding the reason and facts:

http://thecurrentconscience.com/blog/2012/...-dont-miss-him/

For guys, sometimes you may meet some unexpected love come to you. And finally you may realise she might cheating you. And you just dont know what happen if she leaving and dint have answers?

Well here is another site for understanding about girls who get close to you unexpectedly. High probability of break ups because that the girl never is real to you.


http://janeaustensworld.wordpress.com/2012...century-london/

Cry and dry up your tears!
Hang out with friends..
Get ready move to new life...
Or else u may suffer for nothing for few months like me..


Listen:

"林建挥 - 内伤"
"张智林 - 你太善良"
"张学友 - 三天两夜"
"方力申 - 好心好报"
"My chemical romance - I dont love you"

Erm, if just small argument, then is fine.. for a cold war. Yeah u just give her some time. Means u totally let her do whatever she wants. But u maybe leave a msg to let her know that u "waiting her"

dont ever try to find her in middle...this may affect the mood.

What I experienced.. is I actually did find her and spoiled everything. What I understand for this situation is...

1) she really need to relax... maybe lots of stress..
2) she need to know her own feelings that will miss you or not.
If she realise it. Only 2 ending. 1 is back to you, give chance each other... 2nd is a good bye... and will totally forget abt u..

3) if have 3rd party.. probably she is decide n choosing...

Expand (3): my situation.. she dump me for 1stime and came bak after.. then maybe the 3rd party has hardcore doing effort to get her.. While I am still in the " give time to relax" mode.she maybe think that I just ignore and dont care her. So she dump me again... I critical X2 get dump in 1 week.. is up to you if really same situation with (3)

4) maybe she has something that cant tell u or hurt u, may be her parents dont allowed. Or she has dream to complete.. or she have to going far... that hard to maintain this relation anymore...

For conclusion, no matter which situation of above.. you just need to give her time and dont disturb her.. and prepare something that for happy ending (ex. A present, flower, or dinner invitation). No matter what answer... just let it be.. just dont find out what really happens...so that at least can be still friends.. or continue happy life...

"张学友 - 相爱很难" 歌词 ..." 无论热恋中失恋中, 都永远记住第一戒, 别要张开双眼"

Is 2 months of me..its so hurt to me. Because I open wide my eye and find out and seen the truth and reality.. then lots of "why" & "if" comes out from my mind, I still cant move on also..but slightly reduce the pain somehow..this is my own personal sentimental..I cant really drop down everything just like that..maybe I really need to see the most cruel things just can move on..

So, if u same type with me. Good luck man.. dont drowning too deep..

If u dont want hurt self. Just stop if bad ending.
Do better effort if good ending.

Not sure here is allowed to post other thing besides discussions about main topic or not. Sorry bro. U can pm me for song list. But recently I only listening sad songs.

Guys I just end up the feeling of miss for the past. 2days ago. I have post something before here that comforting some one that hurts.but actually I still in the struggling stage. Moved on 50% only... but now I had totally moved on peacefully and really feeling nice of friends around has come back to me as usual. How I do it. Maybe not everyone can do it. Is about meditation too.. but in painting way. I spent a month to paint out a potrait. For her. Meaning of paint all the miss and loves into the canvas. So that I really nothing to left inside me. Not a lie to self. While facing the photo of her and paint quietly. And slowly the feeling will gone.. after finish it.. when look back to the painting. I wont feel miss or love her anymore. It just a piece of art that can publish to my friends and family that they dont know who or why I draw this.

The point is.. you can do something, anything. Go sing K, go travel, learn cooking, attend class.. anything that make you focus on something that u are very busy to contact her, thinking her or stalking her (I know coz i do that before) but useless coz it makes u more hurt only because she might shows that she is so happy without you. And u feel why she or he so cold blooded.

So I think that.. either follow the proper meditation search from fb page there is 1 there... or create self meditation that really work for moving on.

Cheers guys n girls.