LOL! this kind of girl worth ma? Not saying her slut or any negative stuff.
I belief that you have seen it, move on my friend.
keep optimistic in mind, keep telling yourself that she was the one who lost you and you should know that you're way better then before.

Sometime, let it go would be better.

After a long break up, maybe we would send this song to the person we know before.

Yes, girls do that. My ex says she's feeling guilty but she's happy with other guy. So, the best thing to do, my friend, is to forget and move on. I know it is easier said than done. I haven't really gone thru that phase yet, but I told her I thought it thru......everything's ok now, in the matter of fact I didn't.

My advice to you, as same as my advice to myself, is try to forget her and occupy yourself, make yourself busy. I know once you stop being busy, you;ll think of her but try your best.

In the mean time, she's not yours anymore once the broke up has happened. She has her own freedom and she can do whatever she wants. Give it a break

This post has been edited by runemastertan: Dec 29 2011, 06:16 PM

My gf cheated me.
Breakup reason - i have no feelings to u.
When i ask her face to face, she said she doesnt have others. just lost the feelings towards me.

But in christmas, i found out on facebook, she actually got another guy out there while i was away from her.

We have been together for 1.8 years, and she go for new guy just because im away from her for about 3 weeks.

After i found out that she got new guy, i called her up to ask her.
she admit.

After that, she blocked and delete my facebook.
I didnt even spam or write anything on her wall and pictures.

Also my friend told me that, she cant find my ex profile.
She blocked my friend too.

Im feeling pain now.. very pain.. now im all alone in PJ
while all my friends in penang. i dont know what i can do here.
feel the pain everyday, cant even forget and give up.
find no one to talk to, no one to company

Lianx... i know it is really painful... it is easy to say we need to keep ourself busy to not thinking bout her... but in actual fact we become so broken that we can't focus on anything... we end just sitting at one place and staring into the blank thinking about all have happened... all I can say is try doing things that u like and it may help.

I like playing futsal... i like to sweat so I end up picking up other sports as well... I also have a passion for riding superbike... so i got one for myself one.. do things that u always wanted to do but had no time for it... if u dun ahve the capability to pursue your unrealized dream, work to build urself better to achieve ur dreams.

liamx, find something new to learn and get some new friends.

as cliche it may sound, time will heal your wounds eventually

to heal ur broken heart is not easy as ABC... i tried but 2 months i still feel the pain.
been with the one i love for the past 8 years... we been a lot up & down times, happy & unhappy moments... he even buy a house, we do plan the design, reno, buying furniture all 2gather... we are ready to move on to the next level but somehow he decide to put a STOP. Now we totally NO CONTACT. But glad i have my family & friends who is so supportive, i manage to heal my broken heart stage by stage.

Ya. you are right. I always stare into one place but my mind is empty.
I had tried to play some sports too, but my heart seems to be pain and made me lost my mood. This always happen.
For the time being, i know that i could not get her out of my mind.
I know that the more I wanna let her go, the more pain i will suffer.
I don't know why, Im still like waiting for her to come back. My heart can't really let go.
Although i know its impossible, since she already did things to that stage.
But there is nothing i can do, i might be just continue loving her until the the feeling fade away.


Ya. I'm try to getting new friends.
it's a bad ending of year 2011 for me.
The worst thing now is, I'm all alone in PJ while all my friends is in penang.
don't know who to find, don't know who to talk to.. might just bear all this pain by myself.
Well, maybe things happened in this way for some reason.
I will try to know some new friends here, hope i can find some.
Coz most of my friends in here is gurls, and they have bf.
I don't wanna find them too often.

This post has been edited by liamx: Dec 31 2011, 10:19 AM

The best remedies for a broken heart is in fact lies beneath the heart itself, if u get the riddle u will be fine in no time.

+1

Hi guys. I've gotta very pathetic friend who cries over his stupid first love. In any case, he was that super pushy kinda guy who pushes for calls at night, pushes for frequent stupid goodnight sms's, pushes for i love you's etc any cheesy think u cud think of. Well that pushiness earned him a break up, and i heard he broke up and got back with this girl for more than 20 times!! I always try to advise him to change his stupid self but nuuuu... he still wanted to be like that.. so every now n then he keeps calling me to mengadu plus always cry like a shitty shit.. until one time i shout at him at the phone saying i dont wanna listen anymore coz i also so damn tired of stupid stuff like this..

so, lesson no.1. lots of guys dont realize that this pushiness is among the best reasons for girls to really get ANNOYED/RIMAS with you. please dont act like u own the girl, like she ur public property until can always mentally abuse her every now and then. keep a relationship open and free.. dont let ur girl feel like always kena kongkong. otherwise u can go up yours for not respecting that freedom.

and then, this quarrel break cry drama continued on for like almost a year.. and i was really getting pissed off.. i told la my fren to move on.. i personally think moving on was the fastest way to forget. i mean, so many girls out there dont have to be such a fail romeo think only one girl can make u happy. bluergh make me sick la hear stupid shit like that..

so, lesson 2. just move on. find a new interest. let ur lust drive u for other women. i dont mean it in a bad way, but cmon la be real. just take 10 secs look at other amois, others can be fascinating also right? if u got that right, u have made ur first step in forgetting ur stupid ex.

just so you know, my friend really stupid idiot, one day we had a big exam and had like just a few days to study *my friend also a bit slow, but thankfully he rich boi*... so everybody else were up their asses burning midnight oil, but this dumbass decides to moan and sob while waiting for ALREADY-EX-GF to call him at night.. and then some more tell me in crying tone, "aku sanggup xstudy sbb tunggu panggilan dier" hey stupid fcuk wake up la shithead. u dont waste ur future over stupid shit like this seriously!! cmon la parents all pay for your education and u go take a dump on their face by telling them "aku SANGGUP x study sbb tunggu panggilan dier" aiyaaaa... really misuse that SANGGUP word.. but ya la stupid people we dunno right? can waste everything in their life for womenz.. in the end that girl end up with someone else and u end up mntk sedekah potong kaki duduk tepi jalan.

so lesson 3. please be a man. u live for a reason. gf/womenz all side track u only. live your dream, pursue a good future.. i put it policy that i will never fail becoz of gurlz.. becoz that is the stupid idiot reason to fail in life.

fyi, just so you know i also last time got KO by girlz also. ya laa, puppy love gila2 one.. really took me 360 around the world. i also had my share crying pasal girlz, but life has to go on maa.. guys, u gotta remember that! if this one failz u go look for another one!! easy peasy.. dont be such a fail romeo.

I want to contact my ex again. Long time no see but don no what reason to call him. What do you guys normally do? Just normal hi bye or make a excuse?

Usually my ex contacted me first....
Jz a hye shud be ok i guess

what to do if your ex text u back just saying that she is depressed, while at that moment she has left you and moved on with another guy. u became the good guy, and try to make her happy. at the end of the day you end up buying her a sony mp3. the next day she forgets bout u.

I think, your friend is beyond help already. Let him live in his fantasy world alone.
no matter how many time you explain it to him, no matter how many time u advise him and it will be the same.
Time will bang his head and wake him up from this dream.

Just call directly and ask him what happen with his life. but, do mind if you 2 just broke up for few month better don't contact 1st.
or else you might giving him/her a hope to patch back.


Don't give hope to yourself. this only i can tell you.

how to get over loving a girl that u cannot love?

=) time will heal.
find a hobby and occupied yourself.
try to socialize yourself with more people.
Life never tend to be attached to 1 person only.
When you realise that person you love wasn't that perfect anymore it will turn you down.

Still, my advise for you is "Time will heal"

Strong enough, i guess. Glad to see this comes from u.

Cheers!

Hahaha~ Thanks.
Way to strong now... Hahahah!

Hi..
I'm new to this thread but i love reading all the advices that's been given..
Some are seasoned veterans, giving solid and practical advises..
Well some are more green to the love fray, so more emotional advises..

Well, i'm not really a love guru or sorts, but i can conclude something from my own (little) experience and from observing others..

"Common sense is not so common now days"..

I'm quoting from a lyn member post.. (forgot who odi, if anyone knows pls tell me)

Well, love though has alot to do with emotions should also have sprinkles of common sense..

I have to confess, there were times when i was so enclamored by emotions and got carried away..I even wasted my parents money go chase my ex to KL just to be close with her..

Stupid? Yup..

Regret? Nope.. I never regret..

Status? I prefer single for now..

Why? Well, as noonies_naruto pointed out, a woman shouldn't be the reason why a man fails..

That's just plain lame..

It should be the other way around.. ;D

My dad use to say, "in everything boy, sprinkle a little salt on it.."

I only figured that out when i was in my 20++

What my dad was trying to say was, no matter what ure in, never forget to think things over rationally.. So once you decide, the least you could do was to remember that it was your decision and as a man, stand on it till proven wrong.. ;D

Haha.. So my advice to all friends out there, "sprinkle a little salt on it.."

And yeah, I love you Dad.. I'm sorry i was a fool for chasing that woman whose Dad hates my guts..

Haha.. Now, my fam are my close friends, critique and counsel..

Well, i got my own close knit friends community, but for me, family first..

I know some don't have such privilage for certain reasons..

But there are "friends that are closer than a brother.." -Bible-