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Serious HOW TO GET OVER A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, Post all "getting over" advice here

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liamx
post Dec 30 2011, 01:29 PM

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My gf cheated me.
Breakup reason - i have no feelings to u.
When i ask her face to face, she said she doesnt have others. just lost the feelings towards me.

But in christmas, i found out on facebook, she actually got another guy out there while i was away from her.

We have been together for 1.8 years, and she go for new guy just because im away from her for about 3 weeks.

After i found out that she got new guy, i called her up to ask her.
she admit.

After that, she blocked and delete my facebook.
I didnt even spam or write anything on her wall and pictures.

Also my friend told me that, she cant find my ex profile.
She blocked my friend too.

Im feeling pain now.. very pain.. now im all alone in PJ
while all my friends in penang. i dont know what i can do here.
feel the pain everyday, cant even forget and give up.
find no one to talk to, no one to company
liamx
post Dec 31 2011, 10:17 AM

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QUOTE(MuchStronger @ Dec 30 2011, 09:48 PM)
Lianx... i know it is really painful... it is easy to say we need to keep ourself busy to not thinking bout her... but in actual fact we become so broken that we can't focus on anything... we end just sitting at one place and staring into the blank thinking about all have happened... all I can say is try doing things that u like and it may help.

I like playing futsal... i like to sweat so I end up picking up other sports as well... I also have  a passion for riding superbike... so i got one for myself one.. do things that u always wanted to do but had no time for it... if u dun ahve the capability to pursue your unrealized dream, work to build urself better to achieve ur dreams.
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Ya. you are right. I always stare into one place but my mind is empty.
I had tried to play some sports too, but my heart seems to be pain and made me lost my mood. This always happen.
For the time being, i know that i could not get her out of my mind.
I know that the more I wanna let her go, the more pain i will suffer.
I don't know why, Im still like waiting for her to come back. My heart can't really let go.
Although i know its impossible, since she already did things to that stage.
But there is nothing i can do, i might be just continue loving her until the the feeling fade away.


QUOTE(vivienne85 @ Dec 30 2011, 11:07 PM)
liamx, find something new to learn and get some new friends.

as cliche it may sound, time will heal your wounds eventually smile.gif
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Ya. I'm try to getting new friends.
it's a bad ending of year 2011 for me.
The worst thing now is, I'm all alone in PJ while all my friends is in penang.
don't know who to find, don't know who to talk to.. might just bear all this pain by myself.
Well, maybe things happened in this way for some reason.
I will try to know some new friends here, hope i can find some.
Coz most of my friends in here is gurls, and they have bf.
I don't wanna find them too often.

This post has been edited by liamx: Dec 31 2011, 10:19 AM

 

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