Hi guys. I've gotta very pathetic friend who cries over his stupid first love. In any case, he was that super pushy kinda guy who pushes for calls at night, pushes for frequent stupid goodnight sms's, pushes for i love you's etc any cheesy think u cud think of. Well that pushiness earned him a break up, and i heard he broke up and got back with this girl for more than 20 times!! I always try to advise him to change his stupid self but nuuuu... he still wanted to be like that.. so every now n then he keeps calling me to mengadu plus always cry like a shitty shit.. until one time i shout at him at the phone saying i dont wanna listen anymore coz i also so damn tired of stupid stuff like this..

so, lesson no.1. lots of guys dont realize that this pushiness is among the best reasons for girls to really get ANNOYED/RIMAS with you. please dont act like u own the girl, like she ur public property until can always mentally abuse her every now and then. keep a relationship open and free.. dont let ur girl feel like always kena kongkong. otherwise u can go up yours for not respecting that freedom.

and then, this quarrel break cry drama continued on for like almost a year.. and i was really getting pissed off.. i told la my fren to move on.. i personally think moving on was the fastest way to forget. i mean, so many girls out there dont have to be such a fail romeo think only one girl can make u happy. bluergh make me sick la hear stupid shit like that..

so, lesson 2. just move on. find a new interest. let ur lust drive u for other women. i dont mean it in a bad way, but cmon la be real. just take 10 secs look at other amois, others can be fascinating also right? if u got that right, u have made ur first step in forgetting ur stupid ex.

just so you know, my friend really stupid idiot, one day we had a big exam and had like just a few days to study *my friend also a bit slow, but thankfully he rich boi*... so everybody else were up their asses burning midnight oil, but this dumbass decides to moan and sob while waiting for ALREADY-EX-GF to call him at night.. and then some more tell me in crying tone, "aku sanggup xstudy sbb tunggu panggilan dier" hey stupid fcuk wake up la shithead. u dont waste ur future over stupid shit like this seriously!! cmon la parents all pay for your education and u go take a dump on their face by telling them "aku SANGGUP x study sbb tunggu panggilan dier" aiyaaaa... really misuse that SANGGUP word.. but ya la stupid people we dunno right? can waste everything in their life for womenz.. in the end that girl end up with someone else and u end up mntk sedekah potong kaki duduk tepi jalan.

so lesson 3. please be a man. u live for a reason. gf/womenz all side track u only. live your dream, pursue a good future.. i put it policy that i will never fail becoz of gurlz.. becoz that is the stupid idiot reason to fail in life.

fyi, just so you know i also last time got KO by girlz also. ya laa, puppy love gila2 one.. really took me 360 around the world. i also had my share crying pasal girlz, but life has to go on maa.. guys, u gotta remember that! if this one failz u go look for another one!! easy peasy.. dont be such a fail romeo.

the fastest way to get over it is always to actively find a new one

Whats the point of still loving the old one when its all over?

What is the point u ask me? I dunno. maybe to accompany you go watch Big Hero 6 when you're lonely?

Or maybe to help u forget some old classic retro memory that should be forgotten sooner or later?

What kind of question is that?

thank you

Until when?

Unless if want to get back and there IS chance to get back,

then only i tink those kind of feelings are worth preserving.

Otherwise.. why?

ya lor.

i dunno hahah.

love hurts. Life sucks.

Some people juz born lucky.

i see. so thats why u said the thing u said. Sorry, now I know your circumstances then onli i feel for you.

Cannot think about suicide lar. We must first love love love ourselves first before loving others.

U only love others because you want to make yourself happy, if theres no reason to suffer then u probably wont even bother.

Point is, its because how we value ourselves is the reason why we act in certain2 ways. Thinking about suicide is a big contradiction to that.

We must be strong. I know you are strong. I can see the way u write things. Those words come from a strong heart.

Lucky? i said that becoz.. well.. some people.. always get a very nice2 relationship until can marry. Some dont even need to try hard to get the ones they love,

because most of the time, the one they have a crush for also has a crush for them. Maybe coz they're handsome/beautiful, cute, etc, while others

just have to spend extra extra effort to obtain that.

This post has been edited by noonies_naruto: Nov 16 2014, 06:45 PM

Its a phase la. Now u can say things like these.. sum more quite recent right..

nvmind lah.. time will heal ... But seriously, u dont let urself get scolded or get called names etc. Puhlease.. he on ur mind every second?

How about u? R u on his mind every second? What is stopping u from realizing? If he truly loves you he wont be scolding u blahblahblah like that.

In the end. Its memang just u. U refuse to flip the switch. that hopeful switch. Just flip it. And you will feel fresh like a new woman!

I know la. Love is illogical. You do things without thinking. But come on, until consider suicide? come on. Dont u have any other people who love you?

You prepared to disappoint them? Not like they wan u to become damn career woman also, they just want to still see you around them.

Dont suffer because of love. Take full control of yourself.

Learn to appreciate yourself. Sit down and think and figure out who values who the most. And who values themselves.

Rooting for you babe.

This post has been edited by noonies_naruto: Nov 16 2014, 09:06 PM

and right now?

How r u feeling now?

Any better?